There is a saying that the real network is not what you ask for, you attract.
This is the "law of attraction": who you are, you will meet.
People with the same magnetic field will attract each other. People with the same energy will get together.
As the saying goes: "Corresponding to the same voice, seeking the same breath." ”
Individuals want to break the circle, they need to become excellent people first, in order to get the qualification to join a good circle.
The so-called networking is actually a natural result of personal growth.
There is a very hot question on the Internet: "How to get out of the trough of life?" ”
One high-ranking person replied, "Take a few more steps." ”
Many people do things with seven seconds of initial intention and three minutes of heat, how many people are willing to cultivate themselves steadily and deeply?
If you want to do great things, you must be steadfast.
Only when a person has walked enough roads and accumulated his ability to a certain height, will his life be a different situation, will he meet a higher quality circle, and he will achieve a better self.
A writer once said that the most important thing in our time is smart people, and what is most lacking is actually the "stupid people" who are dead with themselves.
Times are evolving, people have more choices, but it seems that it is difficult to stick to one thing for a long time.
In the face of time, what we can do is to arch one day and one pawn, and the merit is not donated.
A calligrapher once had a Yan inscription: "Only Yan makes the field, the salty song is happy, the ink crops have autumn, and the pen cultivation has no tax." "We live by pen and ink, and make fields from yantai."
Another famous painter also specially engraved a seal of "Yantian Old Farmer" to encourage himself.
Even in their old age, they still paint every day without interruption. From morning to night, it is either silent contemplation or lying down.
No matter what field it is, all those who achieve great things know how to cultivate themselves deeply.
Life does not seek more, only refinement, sink your heart in your own field, and cultivate deeply with an ingenuity to achieve something.
Only the "stupid people" who are willing to work hard are the people closest to success.
As one writer put it, "Masters are stupid people." Only very stupid people are willing to work hard, will persevere to the top, will grind a sword for ten years, a sword and a sword. ”
No matter what field, if a person wants to be "outstanding", there is never a shortcut, and it must be tempered by time.
Forget all those "impossible" excuses and stick to that one "no problem" reason.
Life is like a pebble, it takes constant polishing to become perfect.
Life can't be full of surprises everywhere, you want to live a life that you have to create on your own, and it is not feasible to always complain and wait.
What people need to do is to sink their hearts, be down-to-earth, stoop to the ground, practice their skills, and seize every opportunity in life.
If you can insist on what others can't insist on, you can have what others can't have.
Jundang dried up all day, survived the loneliness of the thousands, stepped on thousands of rivers and thousands of journeys, and was tenderly reunited with the best of himself.
While deeply cultivating oneself, one is creating momentum for one's own life.
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