I don't know if you have found that the current feelings seem to be becoming cheaper and cheaper, and many people hum love songs every day, longing for beautiful love, but they are never willing to take the initiative.
There are reasons for it, but more is the fear of love, love is originally something that makes people yearn, how can it become something that makes people afraid.
In the end, people are becoming more and more selfish and irresponsible now, not only men are not responsible, women are even more irresponsible.
To say a more heartfelt fact, many people may not believe it, for many women now, it is more difficult for you to ask them not to raise fish than to ascend to the sky.
Now there are more men and fewer women, and the popularity of the Internet and the development of transportation have made the circulation of information more convenient and made people's travel more convenient.
The range of women's mate selection has also become wider, in the past, women looking for objects, basically men in nearby villages, and now men in the whole world are candidates.
When people have no choice, it seems to be more difficult, but in fact, there is no choice of choice, and often the final result is not bad.
In turn, there are more choices, which makes people look confused, choose to choose and do not know what to choose, and finally choose a worse result.
For example, people like their parents and grandparents, most of their marriages are arranged by the family, although some of them are more comfortable, in many marriages are actually quite good.
On the other hand, many young people are now looking for a partner on their own, not long after getting married, they can divorce immediately after a quarrel, marriage is like a family, and both husband and wife lack a sense of responsibility.
Especially for many women, you just ask her not to have a spare tire, not to chat with other men after having an object, and no longer accept the kindness of other men to her.
The most basic of this kind of relationship is also what each other should do for each other, many women can't do it, but they are still counting down men all day.
People with problems always can't see their own problems, but they are blaming others all day long, trying to put all the responsibility on others.
There are even people who justify their behavior, women are not unable to do it, but there is no kind of man who deserves to be treated sincerely by women, which is simply a slippery slope.
How did the duty in feelings reach the mouths of some people, but it became conditional to do it, when did feelings become like this.
Such a thing is too common in life, there are two young beautiful women who run to the marriage agency to find someone to introduce a boyfriend, originally thought they were single, and it turned out that both people had objects.
There was also a beautiful woman who talked to her boyfriend for several years, and as a result, the family introduced her to a man with better conditions, at this time the beauty hesitated, and also asked for help from the people around her.
Beauty expressed a lot of experience in the current relationship, but also did not want to miss the excellent man, to tell the truth, when she hesitated, she already had the answer in her heart, but she was confused.
Feelings need to be treated sincerely, and you can't have a mentality of riding a donkey to find a horse.
Now there are too many people who are not sincere, resulting in many people losing confidence in their feelings, longing for love, and afraid of love, afraid of their affection being let down.
It is undeniable that this way of riding a donkey to find a horse can indeed maximize their own interests and find a most suitable object for themselves.
But this kind of overly utilitarian psychology often has a serious impact on feelings, giving birth to a very utilitarian marriage, resulting in a serious lack of happiness.