It is normal for children to play with each other, and because children are too young to distinguish priorities, they often do something self-defeating.
To put it simply, that is, the child accidentally broke the supplies of the classmates, it is reasonable to say that the parents of the other party can also understand, encounter the good talk may not be taken seriously, encounter the bad talk at most to buy a new one, but there are some very few parents, actually want to rely on toys to get huge compensation.
The son had no intention of breaking the school stationery, and the parents demanded huge compensation
Before I heard my friends say that the parents of children are really difficult to get along with now, at first I didn't believe it, I thought they were all parents, they would understand each other, and how difficult could it be? But since I saw this post, it has upended my perception.
You know, it is normal for children to like to play with toys, and it is also normal for children to have a little conflict because of the competition for toys.
However, a father said that his son Xiaoyu inadvertently broke the toys of his classmates, and he did not expect that the parents on the other side actually demanded huge compensation.
On this day, the kindergarten teacher suddenly called Xiaoyu's mother, saying that the child was in trouble in the kindergarten and needed the parents to come, so the mother went to work and let the father go.
After arriving at the kindergarten, I learned that it was Xiaoyu who accidentally broke the whole thing when playing with other children's toys, because Xiaoyu's tutoring was very good, Xiaoyu apologized on the spot, but the child was unwilling, crying and making trouble, so he had to call the parents.
The opposite parent asked Xiaoyu's father to pay 3,000 yuan, saying that this toy is a Limited Edition in Japan, and many people can buy it.
Xiaoyu's father was stunned at once, a child's toy is 3000?
Xiaoyu's father asked the opposite to prove the value of the toy, but did not expect the parents on the other side to say, I still need to prove the value of a toy? For 3,000 yuan I still need to be cheap.
Originally Xiaoyu's father was still sorry, but he did not expect that the parents on the other side were so tough, Xiaoyu's father also came to temper, saying, since you can't prove it, take this toy may be 5 yuan, I will give you 5 yuan, do you love it, on your parents, what kind of children can you teach?
The other parent looked at the child next to him, immediately blushed and expressed embarrassment, and did not let Xiaoyu's father lose money.
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You know, the state of parents will affect the child, a very simple truth, if the parent is an unreasonable, messy person, then the child in the process of growing up will be affected by the parents, slowly the child's personality will be assimilated.
Therefore, some people will say that they can see the shadow of their parents in their children, which is not wrong at all.
In addition, when the child makes a mistake, the parents do not fail to understand the reason, immediately criticize the other child, sometimes it is clear that it is their own child's mistake, but it is hard to pressure others, which will also affect the child, and slowly the child will become a self, conceited character.
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Educating children is not a trivial matter, and when educating children, there must be no state of doting and preference, because this is not at all educating and cultivating children, but hurting children.
There are also parents must know that as long as their children make mistakes, there must be an appropriate amount of punishment, at least let the children know that they have done wrong, or this kind of thing will continue to be committed in the future.