Table manners. As the name suggests, it refers to the common sense of etiquette at the table when eating and eating, and the problem of table manners can be described as a long history. According to the literature, at least in the Zhou Dynasty, food etiquette has formed a fairly perfect system, which is praised and admired by Confucius and has become an important aspect of the appearance of a great country, a state of etiquette, and a place of civilization in successive dynasties.
Now Chinese parents have become accustomed to leaving all the good things on the table to their children and giving them special care, as if they do not do this, they will not love their children.
The long-standing habit has spoiled the child, causing him to have no rules and does not know how to share.
Teacher Lu Qin said that if a family is in the wrong position when the parents are cooking at the dinner table, there will be no place for you in the future. Life behaviors such as eating are the most frequent and effective indoctrination of family education, so we must pay attention to it.
1. Wait for the elders to move the chopsticks
Overcoming the child's selfishness starts with eating, and be sure to let the child wait for the elders to come to the table before moving the chopsticks. Hungry for an hour, hungry is not a bad child, but let him know the elderly.
Hunger is the most unbearable and the most basic suffering, and only when the child understands it can he put the pain of others in his heart.
2. Put good dishes in front of the elders
Don't give your child special care and leave him alone, starting with serving. Put good dishes in front of the elders, so that children understand who is the most important person in the family, and the elders deserve our care and special treatment.
Instead of putting it in front of the child and letting the child eat it all.
3. Don't eat in a mess
Ignoring the feelings of others at the dinner table, eating loudly, picking and choosing vegetables, and eating everywhere on the table is also a manifestation of selfishness.
If you don't take the feelings of others as your own feelings, it will be difficult to put yourself in the shoes of others in the future.
4. Help clean up the dishes after dinner
Don't throw all the dishes and chopsticks to yourself, be sure to let your child participate, let him understand that he is a part of the family, any housework, he has the obligation to do.
Especially the dirty work of cleaning up the dishes and chopsticks, children who can tolerate it can endure other housework.
Children who are not filial piety must have accumulated over the years, especially in the small things such as eating, giving children more education in order to raise filial piety children. Loving children does not mean special treatment, but ordinary treatment, not giving him the illusion.