I believe that many men have such doubts, they obviously have good conditions, there is nothing wrong with them, and they are more loyal to their feelings, but they just can't find an object.
On the other hand, those boys who hang on to Lang Dang, even men who do not learn and have no skills, have never lacked women around them, many are still good women, but in the end there are often no good results.
The reason why I talk about this is because I received a message from a fan, who said that he graduated from college and went home to take a job with a staff, although the income is not high, but it is better than stable.
I don't have any bad habits, and my life is also very regular, because I exercise regularly, so I look good, in addition to having no object, my parents are very satisfied with themselves.
After all, his parents introduced him to a girl, and after the two met, fans were very satisfied with this girl, but what puzzled fans was that this girl was not cold to him at all.
Whether it is from his own conditions or from the family conditions of both sides, the conditions of this fan are much better than that girl, and it is reasonable to say that the girl should hold on to him, but the girl is not cold to him at all.
During the two people's acquaintance, the girl also reported a driving calibration preparation driver's license, and the fans were attentive to the woman, and the other party did not react at all.
On the contrary, a man who learned to drive with the woman, looked like a hanging child all day, did not have a serious job, and was not ready to go out to make money, but the two talked very hot all day.
Obviously, this fan also knows that he is out of the play, and the object introduced to him at home will most likely come together with his male driving school classmates in the end.
Although the woman's parents also help to do the daughter's work, the woman did not react at all, so the fan asked why good women don't like good men?
In the view of this fan, the woman's family conditions are general, the woman goes out to work for her younger siblings who dropped out of school early, and the money she usually earns is also sent to the home, which is a good girl.
It is reasonable to say that the other party is married to himself, as long as the two people live a down-to-earth life, they will definitely be able to make their lives better and better, but why does the other party look down on themselves?
In fact, not only this fan has such doubts, just like many boys have such doubts, they feel that the conditions are not bad, why the other party can't look at themselves.
The other party can't look at themselves, even if they turn around and go to find a person who looks very unreliable, which makes many people depressed and difficult to solve.
In fact, it is very simple, the definition of feelings by girls is not the same as the definition of feelings by boys.
Those men who hang Erlang as a vice, even lie a lot, it seems that almost all have girlfriends, and even some men beat their wives every day, and as a result, the woman is still dead to him.
Some men who treat feelings as a game of girlfriends change every day, those honest and diligent, honest and polite men, many don't say that they have girlfriends, that is, female friends do not have.
These boys are not bad, their character is generally good, many of them are okay, they have a stable job, and they are more loyal to their feelings, but they have no object.
Don't say that they are introverted, will not coax girls, some boys are very introverted, but he is particularly rich or looks very handsome, famous, there are still a lot of girls like.
So introversion is not the main reason, the real reason is that many girls don't like such good men.
To say a very hard truth, the more good women are, the less like good men, because many good women, they put the feeling of being in love first, they can die for love.
There is a saying in the Analects called "Morning and Smell, Death Can Be Done", and many women can also do this for love.
So the more men who can break the rules and give her a bright feeling, the more they can give her a feeling of love, and it is obvious that those men who are hanging on to lang are often satisfied with this.
If you want to do a sort, many girls are loyal to love in the first place in their hearts, the man's conditions are ranked 2nd, and then the man's character and personality are the 3rd.
Because many girls naively think that they can change each other and make the man what they want, many people do not see the reality until after marriage.
Changing a man, what a sense of accomplishment, as long as you do not break the law, all aspects of the conditions are still the same, as long as I like you, then I am willing to take risks for love, for love moths to put out the fire.
A lot of good men overlook the fact that you are really good, but love often has nothing to do with whether you are good or not, love itself is an emotional product, you have to make yourself attractive, attractive, and different.