Often in the comment area to see some messages, lamenting that they are more than 30, 40 or more and have achieved nothing, becoming a house in their early 20s when the boss himself is thirty or forty years old, and even the down payment of the house can not be made.
If you can't make money, does that mean that you have failed in life?
In fact, the key is how do you define success, everyone's definition of success is different, you first have to ask yourself, do you have a goal in your heart, or do you have any dreams?
In fact, when people reach middle age, poverty is not terrible, what is terrible is that they are willing to be poor.
There is a Chinese word called "laughing at the poor and not laughing at prostitutes", and even now many people still take it as their own motto in life, which is actually a very extreme idea.
The so-called laughing at the poor and not laughing at prostitutes, in layman's terms, is that people laugh at those who have no money, but they will not laugh at those prostitutes who make money by selling their bodies.
Perhaps many people want to deny it, saying that they will never have such a thought, that they are a person with very positive views, so let's put it another way.
For example, if a person is particularly rich, and then he casually says a few words on the Internet or in public, does he feel that he is well-reasoned and courageous.
Why is the other party so full of wisdom, as if every sentence is a golden sentence, in the end is a golden sentence? Or the taste of money, it is estimated that only many people know it in their hearts.
On the other hand, if a person is particularly poor, then this person will not only not be valued by people in many cases, but will be laughed at by everyone, thinking that this person is talking big, completely whimsical, and unrealistic.
A particularly poor person, wearing a tattered dress, many people subconsciously very disgusted, anyway, if it is a rich person wearing a torn clothes, but it has become a representative of fashion and personality.
Although many people do not admit it, many people are laughing at poverty and not laughing at prostitutes in their bones, and this kind of thinking is deeply rooted in the bone marrow, and it is not possible to change it with hard work.
There is nothing wrong with pursuing wealth, there are many things in this world that are more precious than wealth, and you can become a successful person without money.
Many great people in this world are actually poor and have little money, but their hearts are always rich and noble.
For example, Confucius, who is respected by many people, a student who especially likes is Yan Hui, Yan Hui has a load of food, a scoop of drink, and lives in a dark alley and does not change his pleasure.
In fact, poverty is not terrible, what is terrible is that many people lose themselves in poverty, and this willingness to degenerate themselves and give up their beautiful lives.
Now many people have a wrong concept that making money is the most important thing in this world, in fact, money is originally a vain thing, in a sense, money is just a piece of paper.
One's parents, one's family, one's personal health, one's dreams, and so on, which one is not more important than money, and money can buy one of them.
In fact, it is not terrible to have no money, a person loses his personality for money, or even becomes inferior, and willingly degenerates in the torrent of material desires, which is the most terrible.
What exactly is success? What is failure, have you really thought about it?
In fact, the old ancestors have long summed up for us that the rich and noble cannot be adulterous, and the poor and the lowly cannot be moved, but many people have read the truth contained in it.
I lost myself in money, and I still spent a lot of my time, and I didn't make any money as a result, but I missed a lot of beauty.