Management believes that those elites tend to have some of the same qualities.
These qualities help them become good.
In the Analects, Confucius and the disciples of the Seventy-Two Sages,
It shows the following three qualities.
3 signs that indicate that you will become a powerful person
01 Eager to learn
Zi Yue:
"In the ten chambers, there will be those who are as faithful as Qiu, and they are not as good as Yau.")
Confucius said:
"In a small place with ten families, there will be people as faithful as I am,
But it was not as studious as Kong Qiu. ”
Today we all know that no one is born a saint,
Everything needs to be learned.
It's just that learning itself is not an easy task.
Because of the eagerness to learn, it is necessary to have an emotional enthusiasm for learning from others.
And many people are actually easy to limit themselves, more willing to stay in the existing comfort zone,
So being studious is first and foremost an attitude.
And we have to know how to learn.
To know the right way to learn, from this moment to maintain learning.
Therefore, it is still a habit to be studious.
Have a positive learning attitude, but also learn as a habit of non-stop,
This is how easy to learn.
02 Tenacity
Zi Yue:
"Hyun-jae back! A piece of food, a scoop of drink, in the dark alley, people are overwhelmed, and they will not change their happiness. Hyun-jae, back also! ”
Confucius said:
"Yan Hui, what a genius!" He usually eats very little food,
Add a scoop of cold water, live in a humble house,
Others have long been sad and intolerable, but Yan Hui does not change his happiness.
Yan Hui, what a genius! ”
Ma Yun once said:
"Today is dark, tomorrow is dark, the day after tomorrow is beautiful, but a lot of people die tomorrow night."
A lot of times, it's not that we don't know what the right path is.
But because of fatigue, he could not continue walking.
There is a theory in psychology called "learned helplessness",
When we experience setbacks, we will feel pain, we will be afraid of pain,
Unconsciously, I don't challenge it anymore.
And those precious things are always not easy.
Therefore, we must have the quality of tenacity, repeated setbacks,
The courage to continue to challenge, in order to go one step closer to success.
03 Restraint
Zi Zhi Yan Yuanyue:
"If you use it, you will do it, and if you give it up, you will hide it, but I am a husband with Er!"
Zi Lu Yue:
"If the sons march the three armies, then who will be with them?"
Zi Yue:
"Violent Tiger Feng He, who dies without remorse, I do not agree with him." He who is afraid of things will also be afraid, and he who is good at plotting will also be afraid. ”
Confucius replied to Yan:
"Someone uses me to be an official, and no one uses me to hide,
Only you and I can do that. ”
Zi Lu was not convinced on the side, saying:
"Master, if you lead the three armies to fight, who are you with?"
Confucius said:
"Dare to fight with tigers and hippos recklessly, and feel that even if you die, you will not regret it.
Such people, I am not together.
I only face things, know how to be in awe, and can plan carefully,
Eventually successful people together. ”
Here, Confucius proposed a very important quality, that is, to know restraint.
Maybe someone is really a terrible Hercules,
But for the sake of a momentary will, he fought with the tiger hippopotamus and easily sacrificed his life,
Isn't that stupid?
Many people have some skills, but when they encounter things, they rush up without saying a word.
Eventually hit the south wall, his head broken and bleeding.
The more powerful people are, the more they know how to restrain themselves, and they do not easily rush themselves to the front.
Instead, they know how to recognize the weight of difficulties and then plan in order to finally succeed.
Xiaojiao Heart Language:
If a person is eager to learn, he can learn a skill.
A person with a skilled ability perseveres, and he can always overcome difficulties.
A person who faces difficulties and knows how to restrain and calmly plan,
He is often invincible.
Having these three qualities will make you stronger and stronger.
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