First of all, I want the mother who asked this question to reflect on it.
You yourself feel that you are "forcing" your children, rather than willingly "educating" them, so why do you want to do it? When the child has begun to develop resistance, it is necessary to start to stop and find the reason, rather than continue to do it.
In the child is about 5-6 years old, this age of children should cultivate imagination and creativity, can let him draw more, do more small crafts, during the epidemic can be at home puzzle puzzle. If parents are very eager to let their children learn, they can focus on cognition.
Parents can make more small cards, write on the alphanumeric side, take out the cards every day to let the children read it, at this age, literacy is much more important than writing!
Second, let's talk about this child said.
This sentence obviously should not be something that such a big child can say, and there can only be two reasons, one is television, and the other is from everyday parents who have said similar things. I prefer the latter, because it is a sentence with a cause and effect, because you forced me, so you want me to die, this is not a casual sentence on TV can be learned and applied.
Parents in daily life, especially when the child is present, to consider their own words, such a large child will not only imitate words, but also imitate emotions.
Maybe you just casually complained that "too much work today is too tired, the boss must want to exhaust me." "But children will associate work, much work, tiredness, and death.
Then when he feels that he is tired of writing, he naturally thinks of death, and it is not surprising that he says such things.
Well, now that the child has said such a thing, adults can take the opportunity to conduct a "death education" for the child. Death education is to tell children what is life and what is death, to respect and cherish their own lives, and not to joke about the words of death. Of course, Mom wants you to live healthy and healthy.
In this way, it not only educated him to be unobstructed, but also made him more in awe of life.
As the saying goes, "Good medicine is good for the sick, and good advice is good for the ear." ”
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[Author of this article]: Director Li of Orangutan Village
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