Feelings are a matter for two people and require both parties to pay a lot of time costs. When you can't find a sense of presence and belonging in a relationship, it probably means that the relationship is not suitable for you.
The loss of love is not terrible, the terrible thing is that you no longer believe in love, are completely crushed by reality, and even begin to doubt life.
Feelings are full of joys and sorrows, people come and go, and people who can really stay together for a lifetime may never know the answer until the last moment.
The people who love you will always pay silent attention to you, cry and laugh with you, accompany you to the end of the world with your sword, and accompany you to laugh and be proud of the rivers and lakes.
People who don't love you will slowly alienate you, doubt you everywhere, be full of disgust and disgust for you, and there will no longer be any intersection between you.
Love is mutual concern and need for each other.
If a middle-aged man really can't let go of you, he will be full of thoughts and concerns about you, giving you more understanding and care.
Love is a spark that cannot be hidden, and even in the dark night it will bloom silently, lighting up the haze in your heart and dispelling the loneliness in your heart.
In general, middle-aged men who really can't put you down have these common characteristics.
1. Be good at listening to your voice
People's emotions fluctuate like the sea, sometimes surging and sometimes quiet.
If a middle-aged man is good at listening to your heart and is willing to give you real comfort and warm encouragement, it shows that he really cares about you.
Middle-aged men who really can't let go of you, especially cherish the time you spend together. Whenever he chats with you, his eyes will glow, and you can clearly feel his concentration and commitment.
Because he can't let go of you, he is eager to go deep into your heart through chat, wanting to understand your true thoughts and feelings.
Only when he has a more comprehensive and profound understanding and cognition of you, can he care for and care for you in the way you like, so that you can experience the sweetness and happiness of love.
Some middle-aged men always find various excuses, such as busy work, more socializing, unwilling to spend time with you to chat, even if they are reluctant to chat with you, they are always absent-minded and unable to devote themselves to it, such a man obviously does not love you enough.
Feelings need to be cultivated slowly, and the best way to cultivate feelings is to communicate more and communicate more.
When he is willing to listen to your heart and have emotional resonance with you, it shows that he really can't let go of you.
If he is indifferent to your emotional needs and mood changes, whether you are sad or joyful in front of him, he will not take it to heart, it is clear that he has completely let go of you.
2, can help you solve the problem
Life is about constantly overcoming and solving one problem after another. Whenever you feel frustrated with life, he is willing to take the initiative to enlighten you and help you get out of the trough of life, indicating that he really can't let go of you.
Middle-aged men who really can't let go of you usually have the characteristics of enthusiasm, can take the initiative to help you solve problems, and never avoid difficulties.
If he really can't let go of you, he will have the courage to take on the responsibility in the relationship, never evade the responsibility, have the responsibility, have the shoulders, and are worthy of dependence and trust.
When two people are together, it is inevitable that there will be quarrels and stumbles, and at this time, you need to understand and support each other.
When a middle-aged man can take the initiative to help you solve various difficulties and problems in your emotional life, willing to actively face unknown challenges with you, and share your sorrows and pressures, it shows that he really can't let go of you.
Emma Hardy said, "Love is not the answer to all problems, but love solves most problems." ”
Middle-aged men with love in their hearts will usually take the initiative to care for you, especially when you are in trouble, and will not abandon you.
If he turns a blind eye to the predicament you face, neither willing to take the initiative to pull you along, nor to say some warm words to you, but deliberately alienates and snubbs you, and from then on, it is clear that he has let go of you, and he is not truly in love with you.
When there is a problem with feelings, the middle-aged man who loves you chooses to deal with it positively, and the middle-aged man who does not love you will choose to escape, or even shirk responsibility.
Middle-aged men who are unwilling to take the initiative to take responsibility and refuse to help you solve problems are not worth your sincerity.
3. Willing to be your friend
Whether it's a couple or a couple, the best way to get along is to get along like friends.
Once some people enter love or marriage, they are prone to completely lose themselves and will pin all their hopes on the other half.
When your love becomes extraordinarily heavy and becomes a burden on your partner, it means that there is a serious problem with your relationship.
When we treat our friends, we will not put forward too high standards and expectations for our friends, nor will we make progress towards our friends, but we know how to maintain an appropriate distance.
When friends give their hearts for us, we will also pay the corresponding sincerity.
In the face of the help given by friends, even if it is insignificant help, they will also be grateful and grateful, and return more love and tenderness to their friends in time.
However, when we get along with our partners, we may not be able to resist making more demands on our partners, and we will treat them with scrutinizing or critical eyes.
The reason behind this may be because we know that our partners will not easily leave us, just so-called, the depth of love, the responsibility.
For a middle-aged man who really can't let go of you, he will treat your feelings with a normal heart, will not put too high demands on you, and will not be too harsh and harsh on you.
Because he really cares about you, he is willing to treat you like a friend, know how to keep a proper distance from you, and will not create trouble and pressure for you.
He is good at discovering the beauty in life and is willing to share the bits and pieces of life with you.
He will also express his love and gratitude for you in a timely manner, and will not ignore your efforts. Whenever you help him solve a problem, even if it is just a show of hands for you, he will still be the first to express gratitude to you and say thank you to you personally.
Only when he completely lets go of you will he turn a blind eye to the love and sincerity you have given.
In short, a middle-aged man who really can't put you down usually has some common characteristics.
He will take the initiative to care about the warmth and cold of your life, always accompany you, and at the same time have the courage to take responsibility and be willing to help you when you need him.
When you get along with him, you feel very comfortable and comfortable, there will be no pressure and burden, and you can get along like friends, which shows that he really loves you.
Truly beautiful feelings do not necessarily need to create romance and surprises every day, but only need you to be able to face the problems in the feelings calmly and resolve the conflicts and contradictions in the feelings in time.
The middle-aged man who really can't let go of you, he will always silently guard you, and after you encounter difficulties, he can stand up and shield you from the wind and rain.
The more you can't let go of your middle-aged man, the more he can't bear to let you be a little wronged in your feelings, and he will do his best to protect you.
Rather than soft love words, he is more willing to express his love and concern for you with practical actions. Whether tomorrow is sunny or rainy, he is always by your side.
The poet Luo Yihe said: "I love you, if there is anything wrong, please bear more, each person's life is different, there is a different understanding, as long as it can be accommodated, it is the same, without having to force you how to live, if people and people can prescribe each other's way of life, then the whole world only needs one person is enough." ”
Love is mutual respect, mutual responsibility, mutual tolerance.
If a middle-aged man can fully accept your living habits and tolerate your shortcomings and deficiencies, there is no doubt that he really cares about you.
For the rest of your life, may all that you encounter be warm, that all that you love receives, and that what you receive is what you expect.