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In this still youthful time, it seems that everything can be forgiven. When I was young, I once read a very amazing sentence:
"The most mature sign of a person's emotional treatment is that he can distinguish between love and unwillingness."
Whether what you can't let go of is love or unwillingness, I don't know. I guess you know, though.
He's not actually a gentle man.
To be precise, not gentle with everyone. It's like a sword in a box of Taoguang's obscurity.
What you admire is his inaccessible sense of distance, and you like to embrace his solid heaviness, but you don't see his sharp cold, and you don't hear his sweet blood rust.
At first sight, you have given him too much anticipation, with or without him, along with this imposed tenderness.
In a video of a post-90s guy openly showing love:
Dressed in a white gauze dress, she sat on a swing stand, behind a burly man in sunglasses.
As the swing swung again and again, she smiled very happily, like a girl with a sweet heart.
The man in the video, named Yang Yongce, is a beekeeper.
In the video, he said a very romantic statement, and the confession was generally solemn:
She and I traveled through the four seasons, running in both directions
Get together under this swing frame
At the end of the year
Thank you for all the fateful encounters
Thanks to all fateful arrangements
Everything was just right
The breeze is not dry, and the warm sun is just right
Many netizens gave them blessings, and it is not surprising that many people are very skeptical about this relationship.
Questioning the age gap between the two, Yu Xiuhua is 14 years old; questioning Yang Yangce is for Yu Xiuhua's fame and money, and even satirizing him for "finding a mother". Questioned Yu Xiuhua's old cow eating tender grass.
To all this, Yu Xiuhua did not formally respond. What is right and what is wrong, what is true and what is false, perhaps only time can prove.
She said: "I have never really experienced the love of skin and the love of the soul, and I am not willing yet!" ”
It is better not to be unwilling, without these unwillingness, what to take to resist this impermanent fate?
When it comes to Yu Xiuhua, many people will think of the song "Across Most of China to Sleep with You", which she created in 2014.
It was forwarded by many people crazy, and once became extremely popular, her creative path was getting smoother and smoother.
Some people think that her poetry is direct to the heart, easy to understand, much stronger than those who moan without disease, and some people think that her poetry has a little "yellow", but it is just sensationalism.
Although the reputation is mixed, Yu Xiuhua has become a different firework.
Yu Xiuhua is a native of Hengdian Village, Zhongxiang, Hubei Province, because cerebral palsy has lowered her appearance and has limited mobility.
Yu Xiuhua was ridiculed and ostracized in various ways after going to school. Her psychological repression can only be imagined in words, and words are also self-redemption for her.
In the hearts of her parents, Yu Xiuhua is disabled, the conditions are not good, they will eventually grow old, it is impossible to accompany and take care of their daughters for a lifetime, and they always have to find a man to rely on. They helped their daughter find someone.
The poet "Yu Xiuhua" vigorously "mother-son love" came to an end, Yang Yuce cleared all the videos of him and Yu Xiuhua on the Internet, and Yu Xiuhua had also posted before - "I fell in love with Yang Yuce, he felt that he was piao", telling the love process with Yang Yuce, and in the text, he thanked Yang Yuce many times.
Frankly speaking, Yu Xiuhua is sober, she knows what she wants, she is grateful for having such a young man, let her experience love and being loved, body and soul satisfaction, but for herself who advocates exquisite independence and celibacy, she knows that she cannot fall into the compassionate love of such a boy who is much younger than her.
Netizen message:
He consumes your fame You consume his tenderness Not only you, he, everything has samsaric constraints, it's really transparent, just take what you need.
Yu Xiuhua knows what she thinks, knows what can happen and what cannot last. Her withdrawal is a kind of intelligent withdrawal, a decent farewell, in fact, a kind of inferiority to her own objective situation, but this inferiority is intelligently expressed by her as a higher level of spiritual needs.
Even if Yang does not really love Yu, he can let Yu experience the romantic and happy feeling between men and women, even for one day, we should not be harsh on Yang. Otherwise, do you ask yourself if you are willing to make up for Yu's regrets as a woman in this way?
You live out the way many of us women want and don't dare to try! When love comes, it will be vigorously loved, and when love is gone, it will be dashing and let go, do not desire eternal love, live in the moment, and bless you.
Watching Xiao Yang's live broadcast, I know a lot about you, Xiao Yang is full of poetry and book feelings and kind and transparent, he often says that beauty is not in the bone, he appreciates your talent and spiritual realm, you are the real soul similar people walk together, enjoy the present Mo Qing homecoming, any ending is normal and natural.
Life is not only oil rice chai salt sauce vinegar tea, when the passion fades, the communication between the body becomes a fixed mode, the communication between the spirits, is the only bond between the two to maintain, and the road ahead she advocates is still very long, she has to continue to move forward and continue to write.
Loved, loved, possessed, left, perhaps only in this way, Yu Xiuhua's life will be more complete, which is also an unconventional path that we ordinary people do not understand or dare not try...
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