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Every expectant mother can't escape the law of "the baby is not yet born, prepare a bunch of beautiful clothes", there is a mother-to-be in Hunan, when she is 7 months pregnant, she has prepared hundreds of gorgeous princess dresses.
Because this mother-to-be wants to have a daughter and dresses her like a princess, she can't control herself!
I believe that such mothers are not in the minority, but today I want to "pour cold water" on you, because the clothes you carefully prepared are likely not to enter the baby's eyes!
Wear sandals in winter and cotton boots in summer, flowers and greens on the body, why is the child's aesthetic so strange?
Regarding the aesthetics and dress of children, their parents have the most say: "She does not wear the dress I bought for my daughter, she likes to dress herself like a Christmas tree", which is from a mother's complaint to her daughter.
There are all kinds of beautiful clothes at home that are not worn, but I like camouflage down jackets, and I have to wear them in a gauze skirt, no matter how my mother coaxes, I can't see the clothes my mother chooses.
Even if the aesthetic "strange" is gone, some babies' feelings about temperature are different from ordinary people.
"The weather in the northeast is more than ten degrees below zero, there is snow outside, my daughter has to wear summer sandals, cry and make trouble without eating without wearing them, after putting them on, she is beautiful and nourished, and she walks in the room non-stop", winter sandals and summer jackets, the children's brain circuits are really strange.
The spit of the two mothers is estimated to say that many people have gone to their hearts, sometimes buying beautiful clothes in the mall, turning around and returning home, they don't like it.
And when you like a piece of clothing, you refuse to take it off when you sleep, and when you don't want to wear it, scolding and threatening doesn't work, there is really a reason for the fact that the child wears clothes.
Do you really understand the aesthetics of children?
First of all, the aesthetics of children are single, simply put, they like bright solid colors, they don't care what is exquisite about red and green, as long as they are bright enough, look bright enough Children like.
Secondly, children have a certain degree of creativity in the stage of brain development, especially after the self-awareness becomes strong, they have their own ideas about everything, even if some collocations look ugly and strange, but creativity will make children think it is very interesting.
Finally, what can explain the children's strange aesthetic is "it is difficult to buy me willingly", no matter how good, bad, dirty, ugly, as long as they like, it is the best, the parents buy a brand without Ultraman, no small red flower, but also left aside, so buy clothes must be let the children like it.
Children resist wearing clothes, what should parents do?
The reason is this, but back to reality, you can't let your child wear sandals in the winter!
Therefore, on the one hand, parents must cater to their children's preferences, and on the other hand, they must think of countermeasures to let their children wear clothes obediently. According to experience, the following more common situations and coping methods are summarized for parents to learn and reference.
The first case: the baby is afraid to get dressed
Many children are afraid to wear a pullover, one is because the pullover will experience a short period of darkness, on the other hand, many cartoons have a "sack" scene, which will make the baby think of danger.
How to deal with it: You can play "Guess who I am" with the baby, let the baby understand that it is not dangerous to see for the time being, and when the baby is blindfolded and does not resist the game, you can try to wear a pullover for the baby.
The second case: wearing and dragging too much trouble
When children concentrate on one thing, they hate to be disturbed by people in the middle, but parents like to add a piece of clothing or take off a piece of clothing when the child slide is happiest, and the baby is very resistant at this time, the reason is that they feel troublesome.
How to deal with it: before matching clothes with the baby, look at the temperature first, try not to let the baby feel troublesome, cumbersome, if the weather is unstable, also try to bring some zippers or buttoned clothes, easy to wear and save time.
The third situation: the clothes are uncomfortable to wear
Cousins especially like to buy their daughters small clothes with high necks, they think it is very temperamental to wear, but every time the children will be hooped by the collar to make their faces red, and always shout itchy necks. When the clothes are uncomfortable to wear, children don't like to wear them.
How to deal with it: children's clothes choose pure cotton fabrics better, do not obsess over too many decorations or fancy clothes, it is important to buy clothes for children is simple and comfortable, as for the beauty, just wait until they grow up to choose it!
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What are some strange collocations and aesthetics for your child?