Text/Flying Fish
01
The reason why many people live very bitterly is because they are too attached, they care too much, they can't put things down, they can't see it, they can't see it, and they are grumpy, so the more you care about something, the more it will torture you, and the more you cling to it, the more painful it is.
Life, no matter what happens, we must look at it with a normal heart, face it with a natural mentality, don't care too much, don't think too much, in order to be less troublesome.
I know that you must have a lot of grievances in your heart, and there are also a lot of dissatisfaction, but the more you care, the more you torture yourself, and it is you who makes others laugh.
Many people's hearts actually don't care about you at all, and you take yourself too seriously, care too much about what others think of you, and care too much about your position in the hearts of others, so the more you care, the more disappointed you are.
No matter when people, they must lower some expectations, do not overestimate their position in the hearts of others, otherwise the clown is themselves, when you learn not to care, you can control your emotions and be the master of emotions.
02
Life is hurried, everyone is a passerby, why a thousand knots, why care too much.
In the face of people who leave, we don't have to live with ourselves, and we don't have to live with others, because those who should leave will always leave.
Some people, leave you, and you still care, you still stand still thinking that the other party will come back, in fact, the other party does not think so at all, he feels happy for his departure, because he can start a new life again, he left you, in the blink of an eye with others, the days are still very happy.
And you're still here crying for him, waiting for him, then you're going to pay for your stupidity.
Don't care, let yourself go, forget the person who is not worthy, start your life again, in order to meet the happiness that really belongs to you again.
03
People who are related to you will meet no matter what, and people who are not related to you will leave even if they meet, so don't worry too much. You come, I welcome, you go, I don't send.
Between people, no one is right or wrong, but our respective purposes are different, different views, so, can not come together, that does not have to be entangled, do not have to care, learn to relax, to complete others are also to let themselves go.
Life should not be harsh on others to be good to you, do not be harsh on others must revolve around you, everyone has their own life, the more you cling to a small matter, the more you care, then the only one who loses is yourself.
When you learn not to care, you can win. Not to win others, but to overcome your own heart and give yourself a good life.
04
Some people say that the more people grow up, the lonelier they become, and there are so many people in the address book, but they can never find a person who can speak from the heart. Many times, send out a circle of friends, if the person you care about does not give themselves likes or comments, then they will be unhappy.
In the final analysis, it is that I care too much, care that others will reject me, care that others do not care about themselves, care that others do not brush their own sense of existence, and so on.
In fact, when you send a circle of friends, really want others to like, to comment, then you can not send, really no need for this, because your purpose is too strong, once no one gives you likes, sad and sad is yourself.
So, you don't have to do this at all, and living like this will only make you more and more tired. On the contrary, people's hearts are simpler, don't live too complicated, don't care too much, what life should be like, what it is, don't try to change, don't try to test the hearts of others.
The human heart cannot be tempted, and only by learning to be confused can we understand that when we don't care, our hearts will be so relaxed.
05
In this life, people get and lose, don't care too much, when the heart is unhappy, you must learn to be happy, release your emotions, don't let yourself carry negative energy, everything wants to open a little, the heart does not care, people will be relaxed.
There is nothing in life that cannot be passed, some things, quite a stand, some people, give themselves a little time, they forget. It's a little bitter, and it's okay to smile.
No matter how big things are, no matter how bad things are, take your time, don't worry, it will always pass, everything will be fine, life is like a dandelion, seemingly free, and involuntarily.
Then people live in this world, not that you care, things will change, people can come back, but care, can not do anything, just increase the trouble.
When you learn not to care, to look down on all people and things, then you win.
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