In other words, this "fat cat incident" was originally just a small episode in the entertainment industry, but unexpectedly, it snowballed and got bigger and bigger, and finally evolved into a farce of abuse on the whole network.
And Tu Lei, an emotional mentor known for his sharp words and unique insights, was ruthlessly involved in this turmoil because of the misunderstanding and extension of netizens.
At first, most of the netizens' attacks on Tu Lei were based on out-of-context remarks about his past remarks. They accused Tu Lei of being too extreme in some of his views, and even suspected of "pandering to female fans" and "cutting leeks". In the face of these groundless accusations and abuse, Tu Lei did not choose to remain silent, but bravely stood up and responded.
Tu Lei's response can be said to be full of sincerity and reflection. He first expressed his anger and helplessness at the online violence, but at the same time expressed understanding and tolerance. He admits that as a public figure, his words do need to be more complete and objective.
He also singled out some of his classic statements, such as "home is a place of love, not reason" and "the theory of spending money and loving people", pointing out that these ideas need to be understood in a specific context, rather than simply taken out of context.
In addition to reflecting on his remarks, Tu Lei also deliberately refuted the rumors about his three marriages. He emphasized that he had only been married once and that he had always respected and cherished his family and marriage.
He also denied accusations of pandering to female fans and cutting leeks, saying that the goods he brought were all daily necessities, not the so-called "cutting leeks".
Tu Lei's response can be said to be both sincere and profound. He not only expressed his dissatisfaction and helplessness with online violence, but also deeply reflected and reviewed his remarks.
This attitude has undoubtedly won the support and understanding of many netizens. However, some netizens objected to his response, believing that he was not wronged, and some even thought that he was "whitewashing".
For the doubts of this part of netizens, we may be able to look at it from another angle. First of all, cyber violence itself is an irrational and unjust act. Whether it is Tan Zhu or Tu Lei, they should be evaluated and treated fairly.
Secondly, as public figures, their words and actions will indeed receive more attention and evaluation. However, this does not mean that we can arbitrarily take their meanings out of context and misinterpret them.
On the contrary, we should look at their words and actions more rationally and objectively, and give them the respect and understanding they deserve.
As an emotional mentor, Tu Lei's remarks and opinions really need to be more cautious and objective. After all, his remarks and opinions can affect a lot of people, especially those who are experiencing emotional problems.
Therefore, he should pay more attention to his words and expressions to avoid causing misunderstanding and trouble to netizens.
In general, the "fat cat incident" and the turmoil of Tu Lei's cyberbullying have brought us deep reflection. We should look at the remarks and events on the Internet more rationally and objectively, and avoid being swayed by emotions and biases.
At the same time, we should also give more respect and understanding to public figures, and not arbitrarily take quotes out of context and misinterpret their meanings. Only in this way can we jointly create a more harmonious and rational online environment.