In this life, we all long for happiness, but life is impermanent, and fate will always give us some sudden blows.
Sometimes we can fight setbacks through hard work, and sometimes we are powerless under the blow of fate and can only watch ourselves leave regrets.
In a hospital ward, there was a young guy, looking at the 3 boys around him, the children did not understand the world, still bouncing, the sister next to the tears rained down, she let the brother must be treated well, but the brother shook his head, wanted the sister to agree to his wish, that is, to help him raise 3 sons.
This makes one wonder, what about the children's mothers? Why is it missing.
The man was terminally ill and 3 children could not put it down
The man's name is Guo Zengxin, and he originally had a happy home.
After marrying his wife, he gave birth to a son, who later became pregnant and gave birth to a pair of boy twins.
There are 3 boys in the family, Guo Zengxin is working hard outside, trying to give his wife a good living condition, originally had a good relationship with his wife, but slowly, it may be that the pressure with children is high, and the wife often loses her temper.
Once entrusted the children to the mother-in-law, the wife ran away from home with the box, Guo Zengxin knew, rushed home to find his wife, the phone did not answer, and no one could find it.
He went to his mother-in-law's house to inquire, and the mother-in-law said that she did not know, the daughter was the in-laws after she got married, he should not come to himself, look at the attitude of the mother-in-law, she knows the whereabouts of her daughter, but she refuses to say, Guo Zengxin has no way.
Parents are old, Guo Zengxin does not dare to go out to work, can only do odd jobs while taking children at home, but the house leaks in the overnight rain, Guo Zengxin fell ill, went to the hospital to check is cirrhosis, if you want to be cured, you can only do liver transplant procedures, which requires hundreds of thousands of costs.
The family does not even have the money to raise children, where is the money to see a doctor, the sister and brother-in-law know, do not hesitate to take out all their savings, to help the younger brother to treat the disease.
But the problem is that the sister has limited income, she cried and said: "I can't save the children if I save my brother, and I can't save my brother if I save the children. ”
It is enough to see that the money is not a lot, if all of it is used for medical treatment, it may not be able to raise 3 nephews, so how can she not be heartbroken.
On the other hand, Guo Zengxin's wife just did not come back, the mother-in-law said that her daughter has not returned home, she also refused to help take care of 3 children, so that Guo Zengxin was helpless, looking at the 3 children has a deep sense of powerlessness.
The sister is very affectionate, and the brother-in-law has no choice but to grit his teeth and hold on
Speaking of Guo Zengxin's sister Guo Fenglian, everyone in the village gave a thumbs up.
This sister is really good to her brother, her parents died of illness in the same year, all the medical expenses were taken by the sister and brother-in-law, when doing the father's affairs, it coincided with heavy rain, the house leaked rain, the mother lay on the bed, and made a wish to her daughter, that is, to cover the house and not let the house leak.
In order to meet her mother's wishes, Guo Fenglian and her husband took out 300,000 yuan to help their brother build a 2-story small building, and did simple decoration, thinking that his brother could live a better life, and his sister-in-law would also go home to live a good life.
As a result, her brother is sick again, so that she has been unable to bear it, the brother-in-law is doing a small business, the reason why she is willing to help is also because the husband and wife have a good relationship, help Guo Fenglian's family to do one thing after another, and have already emptied the brother-in-law's savings.
But there is also a real problem, the younger brother's illness to be cured, the sister can not do it, the brother-in-law can only find a way to borrow money, perhaps knowing that he has little time, lying on the bed Guo Zengxin's eyes are yellow, weak, watching the 2 youngest sons jumping, he can only tell the eldest son to take care of his brothers.
But the eldest son is also more than 4 years old, and the twin boys are more than 2 years old, how can they take care of themselves?
There was no way, Guo Zengxin could only ask his sister for help: "Don't treat me, I admit my fate, the only thing that can't be assured is 3 children, please take good care of them and raise them to grow up." ”
The sister couldn't cry, nodded her head and agreed: "I want to eat and take the children with me, you can rest assured, the disease still has to be cured, I will find a way." ”
The brother-in-law stood aside, turned his head and went out, saw Guo Fenglian come out, he asked: "3 boys, what do you take?" We don't know the situation of our family, there is no money, my business can not be turned around, I really can't bear it. ”
Guo Fenglian cried: "Then what to do, he is my brother, I can't look at it and not save, or we will divorce it, I will not drag you down." ”
For the sake of her brother, sister and brother-in-law want to divorce, so that their daughter is uncomfortable, she is only a teenager, crying into the camera: "Auntie, please come back, uncle's illness you can not care, their sons can not not do it." ”
Heartache, sometimes dragging down a family, a disease of a loved one is enough.
Life is not long in Japan, be kind to the people in front of you
There is such a line in the movie "This Killer Is Not Too Cold".
"Is life always so hard? Or only childhood. ”
"Always."
People come and go, and where there is a long way to come, it is more of a dilemma and test that cannot be prevented.
Sometimes, what makes us feel powerless is that we have no choice at all, and can only be pushed forward by fate.
Guo Fenglian and her husband are like this, they quarrel with each other, the brother-in-law still did not give up help, he borrowed money everywhere to help Guo Zengxin pay medical bills, and the sister has been staying in the hospital to take care of her brother.
After the incident was exposed, some caring people also reached out to help, so that the plight of medical expenses was alleviated.
However, Guo Zengxin's wife still did not show up, and the 3 children seemed to understand something, not noisy in the hospital, and would accompany their father, even if the father just lay quietly, at least it was the people who cared about them.
After reading their experience, netizens were also very touched.
Some people say: "Husband and wife should share the same hardships and hardships, can not escape because of contradictions, you can ignore the husband, but how willfully abandon 3 young children." ”
Some people also said: "The family is poor, why should they have so many children, it is also irresponsible, the most pitiful is also the children, their reading and growth, is destined to be more difficult than other children." 」 ”
Someone else said, "Can I say sister and brother?" He tried his own family to help his brother's family, let his daughter suffer with him, and threatened her husband to divorce, but he could only say that his brother-in-law was kind. ”
There is everything to say, but this matter can not be easily conclusive, after all, no one can watch his brother sick, and do not ask, and then say that 3 children are innocent, raising children to grow up, but also the responsibility of the family.
It's just that this matter is too heavy, none of us can stand on the moral high ground to judge, only blessings, I hope that Guo Zengxin's illness can get better, the children's mother can come back, let the children feel the mother's love.
Here, I also want to tell my friends that we must pay attention to physical health, no matter how busy life is, we must also exercise appropriately, and when we lose it, we will understand that physical health is our most important wealth.
Give it a thumbs up and go! Do you think your sister should raise her brother's 3 children?