Many pregnant mothers are both looking forward to and worried about the arrival of the "unloading" day. I was expecting that my life of being pregnant in October could finally come to an end, and I was worried that I was lying on the delivery bed and did not know what I would face.
Even if you have made sufficient preparations before giving birth, when it comes to the moment of real activation, many pregnant mothers will still panic.
Seeing that the day of the due date is coming, Xiao Ru, who is in the third trimester, begins to be anxious. Xiao Ru was a little afraid of the process of childbirth.
On the one hand, she was afraid of the pain of giving birth to a child, and on the other hand, she was afraid that she would be embarrassed to be surrounded by doctors and nurses.
She has always been a shy and shy girl, a bit "social phobia". She was particularly afraid that when she got to the delivery bed, she would have embarrassing situations such as urinary and urinary incontinence that would make the medical staff dislike her.
Girlfriend Linlin is already a second-born mother, she has a lot of experience in giving birth to children, seeing that Xiaoru is so worried about giving birth to children, she comforted: "There is actually nothing terrible about giving birth to a child, doctors and nurses deliver more people every day, no one will feel embarrassed, and no one will dislike you." ”
The words of her girlfriend Linlin did not reassure Xiao Ru, because she knew that although the medical staff was not surprised by this scene, they were also people after all, and people would always have their own likes and dislikes.
It is true that some of the reactions of medical staff to pregnant women are no longer strange, but they still have their own likes and dislikes. There are four types of pregnant women, which are very headaches for doctors, and even make doctors dislike and hate, I hope you remember not to make mistakes in your heart.
When giving birth, these 4 types of maternity are the most "disliked" by doctors
A mother with a "big miss" temper
Some pregnant women, who are accustomed to pampering themselves at home, also regard themselves as "big misses" when they go to the hospital, and give orders to doctors and nurses.
The medical staff is very disgusted with this kind of "big miss" tempered mother. Medical staff are busy every day, often encountering urgent situations that need to be dealt with. They don't have the time or mood to get used to the arrogance of some women.
If these women are really "spoiled" and need to be paid attention to all the time, they can spend more money to go to some private hospitals and live in the best wards.
If you choose to give birth in an ordinary public hospital, you have to put away some of your bad temper. Because paramedics are not nannies, their task is to help you give birth safely, not to serve you.
And these "big miss" mothers, if they find that they are not concerned, will also lose their temper, and even insult the medical staff or threaten to complain to the medical staff.
People with such a personality are difficult to get along with in ordinary life, and when they give birth, they are even more "disgusted" by medical staff.
Mothers who like to yell
There is also a type of mother, so that doctors and nurses feel headaches, this type of mother before giving birth, did not do the "homework" about childbirth, they do not know how to exert force, do not know how to breathe, will only shout, waste their physical strength.
Although medical technology has advanced a lot, there are certain risks in having a child, just like other surgeries.
If you want to give birth safely, it is best for women to learn some knowledge of childbirth first, some women are very studious, they have begun to practice Ramaze breathing method before they are born, which allows them to maintain calm, correct breathing, correct force during childbirth, such a type of mother is very popular with medical staff.
Overly obese women
There is a kind of mother, the medical staff may frown when they see it, this kind of mother is too obese mother.
During pregnancy, many pregnant mothers neither managed their mouths well, nor opened their legs, every day to pamper themselves, eat and drink, in just a few months, they are like "swelled" up, suddenly become very fat.
For example, some women are very slim before pregnancy, and during pregnancy, they stop self-discipline for the sake of fetal nutrition, and become overly obese if they are not careful.
Of course, there are also some pregnant women, but their own weight base is relatively large, during pregnancy plus the fetus in the abdomen, amniotic fluid and other weights, it is more "bloated".
Doctors and nurses don't like these obese women because of the high risks they pose during childbirth.
It is very difficult for obese women to have a smooth delivery, and it is easy to have physical weakness or difficult childbirth. Therefore, many doctors recommend that overly obese women directly choose caesarean section.
However, caesarean section does not mean "zero risk", obesity will increase the difficulty of caesarean section, and fat liquefaction is also easy to occur at the incision of the mother.
Suspect the doctor's mother at every turn
Some women do not know why, like to doubt everything, lying on the delivery bed, but also do not trust the doctor enough, they always doubt some of the doctor's statements, think that the doctor is not professional enough, when encountering such a woman, the doctors are also very headache.
Some women are in the delivery bed, and even use their mobile phones to check some skills for giving birth, they do not believe in the professional doctors in front of them, but believe the netizens' statements, such behavior makes doctors cry and laugh.
Mothers who do not trust a doctor often have two consequences. Some women make up their own minds, do not trust doctors, do not cooperate with doctors, lengthen their labor process, and suffer many sins for no reason.
There are also some pregnant women who are very stubborn, they do not trust the doctor, do not listen to the doctor's advice, and finally can only be "stillborn" and end in tragedy.
And worries like Xiaoru are actually superfluous, and medical staff will not dislike you because of your incontinence, which they have long seen. In addition, the situation of urinary and urinary incontinence is not artificially changeable.
Parenting message
The goals of doctors and nurses are actually the same as those of mothers, and they, like you, want the baby to be born smoothly and the mother and child to be safe. If you want to become a mother that the doctor likes, you must control your weight, avoid shouting during childbirth, fully trust the doctor, respect the doctor, and cooperate with the doctor.
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