When your child reaches the age of three, have you ever experienced the time when your baby peed his pants? Especially after the child goes to school, he will often pee his pants, at this time, do you prepare a lot of pants without waves, let the teacher usually change the pants for the baby, or will you teach your baby, when you want to pee, you have to tell the teacher or mother? I think most moms will teach their children, but some moms are an exception.
The child wears wet pants to go home, the mother group finds trouble with the kindergarten teacher, and the other parents reply domineeringly
A friend of mine who was a kindergarten teacher recently had a very disturbing incident, and there was a special child in her class. This child will not do anything because of the love of his grandparents. He is a child with poor self-care ability, who needs help to eat, walk, and go to the toilet, and his language skills are also very poor.
Since the child went to kindergarten, he often carried several pairs of pants in his bag, ready for him to replace after he peed his pants. The teacher always observed him carefully, and quickly changed his pants when he peed.
At night, the child's mother sent some very unpleasant words in the group, and it turned out that the child's pants were wet when he came home. The mother said: "You teachers are also too unqualified, my child handed over to you, just wear wet pants for a day, will your own children be distressed?" ”
The teacher felt very aggrieved, because he had just changed his pants before school, and he may have urinated on the way out of school. However, the parents just did not forgive, and said that they would go to the kindergarten leaders to evaluate.
As a result, some parents really can't see it, and replied to the mother: "Our other dozens of children will not have such a situation, you don't look for reasons from your own children, you will only rely on the teacher, the teacher is good enough to talk, this thing is not bad for the teacher." Things are deadlocked, is your child planning to transfer schools? As a result, the parent really did not make a fuss, she did not say anything more, and the child continued to go to the kindergarten normally.
The relationship between teachers and parents is also very close, because of the connection of children, they can also be regarded as partners. Teachers are not good for children, parents must not agree, but parents do not respect teachers, there is no benefit to their children. Every family's children have different situations, and only good communication between teachers and parents is the most beneficial to the growth of children.
There are teachers in kindergartens to take care of children, but they will not take care of children one-on-one like parents, and many things still require children to learn to do it themselves a little bit. Therefore, before children go to kindergarten, we should cultivate these basic abilities in order to make it easier for children to adapt to kindergarten life, rather than blaming teachers for not being responsible.
▼ Train children to express themselves well.
Children get along with their parents at home, and many parents guess their children's minds without their children talking, or they have taken care of everything for their children without their children talking. However, if the child goes to kindergarten and is still in this state, he may have to suffer.
For example, some children who can't find their own cup of water to drink, and are not willing to ask others for help, may not be able to drink water for a day. Some children wet their pants and did not dare to talk to the teacher, so they wore wet pants for a day. Children are bullied by others, do not dare to tell the teacher, can only bear it themselves. These things are very uncomfortable for children, but the teacher does not know, which will cause deep misunderstandings.
Of course, the teacher has the responsibility to carefully observe each child, but if the child can express it well, he can avoid some accidents. Therefore, those children who can speak the Tao, basically do not have too many difficulties in kindergarten, and most of them have a more pleasant life.
▼ Train children's self-care ability.
Children must have some self-care ability to go to kindergarten, which is something that parents must keep in mind. It's not that the teacher doesn't take care of the child, but because if someone else's child eats, drinks, goes to the toilet, and gets dressed, only your child needs the teacher's help, and the child may be ridiculed by others.
Children with strong self-care ability will be super confident in kindergarten, just like children who often score 100 points in mathematics and Chinese in primary school. Therefore, there are some necessary things that the child must do on his own.
▼ Children learn to get along well with other children.
In addition to exercising their self-care ability, learning some knowledge, and developing good living habits in kindergarten, there is also a very important content to learn to interact with other children.
If the child is particularly selfish at home, going to kindergarten may be isolated, unable to make friends, and kindergarten life is boring or painful. Our children, before going to kindergarten, must also learn to get along with the elders, the rules of getting along with other children, in order to live happily in kindergarten.
▼ Children have a basic sense of safety.
Children often have some small accidents in kindergarten, which cannot be avoided, but we should avoid big injuries to children. For example, corporal punishment by teachers, for example, safety on the way home from school. Before our children go to kindergarten, we should instill some basic common sense to protect ourselves, do not walk with strangers, no matter who they are, they cannot touch your body at will, the safety of the car on the road, and so on. Be a safety-conscious child, live a safe and happy life, and grow up healthy and healthy.
Children from birth to teeth and teeth to school, are all the way in learning, before the age of three is the parents in education, after the age of three is the teacher in education, but the child's living habits and self-care ability, or need parents to teach and guide.
After the child goes to kindergarten, it is to adapt to the collective life, although the teacher in the kindergarten is teaching the baby, but the parents should also have a heart with the teacher to let the baby grow better.