Taking the time to brush up on a few episodes of "Heart Residence", although the praise and criticism are mixed, the human nature reflected in the house and the plight of the Chinese-style family, as well as the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the relationship between sister-in-law and sister-in-law, etc., are still considered to be grounded reality.
As the saying goes, the family has a difficult scripture, and in the eyes of the eldest sister Gu Qingyu, Feng Xiaoqin is good at calculation. From getting pregnant before marriage and marrying Gu Lei and entering the Shanghai family, to opening his mouth to borrow 1 million yuan to buy his own house, all of it is to calculate the Gu family and calculate his brother Gu Lei. Even if it is a school district house that is required in the name of the little tiger going to school. For Feng Xiaoqin, who has no education, no skills, and is less than twenty years old, he wants to have a place in Shanghai, and the shortcut to changing himself or even changing his family's destiny is to get married. Marrying Gu Lei was one of her opportunities, so she seized it, neither harming others nor hurting others: fighting when it was time to fight, and content when it was time to be content.
No matter what her motivation for entering the family, she is competent in family affairs, working hard and complaining, waiting for her grandmother and father-in-law, raising her son, taking care of her giant baby husband, relying on her aunt to sniffle life, and when the contradiction intensifies, she must also do a small low at any time to express goodwill. She has a kind and sincere nature, does not shirk responsibility, even if she tries to buy a new house for her husband, she promises to continue to take care of her father-in-law and grandmother and take care of the housework of the extended family.
From the eldest sister Gu Qingyu, to the great aunt, to the aunt, they all think that Feng Xiaoqin is calculating, in fact, they are the best at calculation. Especially when Feng Xiaoqin proposed to buy a house, a large number of people exposed their nature, no one was towards her, coupled with Gu Qingyu's "help", everyone's words are open guns and dark arrows, in fact, it is not difficult to see, even if you buy a house, Feng Xiaoqin is still not respected in this family, if the husband Gu Lei can be tough, but Gu Lei is also a dou who can't afford it, especially in the comparison of such a strong and capable sister, it is even more muddy that can't support the wall, such a home is just an empty shell , no warmth.
Why didn't the eldest sister lend her money? It is worried that after buying a new house, Feng Xiaoqin also does the hand-throwing treasurer, even if she can continue to take care of the family, it is impossible to take care of Gu Dad and Grandma 24 hours a day anytime, anywhere, not to mention, Grandma should have been taken care of by uncle, aunt and Gu Dad. Instead of all falling on the body of granddaughter-in-law Feng Xiaoqin.
No matter how Feng Xiaoqin calculated at the beginning to marry Gu Lei and successfully entered this Shanghai family. Since they were able to accept Feng Xiaoqin at the beginning, they tacitly accepted the status and role of Feng Xiaoqin's daughter-in-law. Even if it's a free babysitter. There's no doubt about that. Because no one is going to make a loss-making trade. In this regard, Feng Xiaoqin also has no objection, just as Feng Xiaoqin himself said, it is a nanny, and the salary of these eight years is also hundreds of thousands. Not to mention that she also gave birth to a little tiger for them, so that four generations of the family were in the same house.
Haiqing, the actor of Feng Xiaoqin, said in an interview, "I can understand Feng Xiaoqin's 'calculation'", she just wants to be able to really gain a foothold in Shanghai and have a small family of her own. To the depths, it is just to have a life that you have the final say. Because in that big family, she had no right to speak, no life of her own, and had nothing to gain except to take care of a large family of people to eat and drink.
Why did Gu Qingyu move out, in addition to her good economic conditions, was it not to have a quiet space of her own? Because she is older and unmarried, as long as she sees the seven aunts and eight aunts, she will hear them discuss their life's events one by one, and there are seriously no boundaries.
After a child gets married and has children and becomes a family, the small family to which he belongs and the parents' family are two families, not to mention the sister. The biggest problem of the Gu family is that the sister directly or indirectly participates in and interferes in the life of Feng Xiaoqin's small family with the posture of the eldest sister as a mother, how can this not make Feng Xiaoqin like a terrier in the throat? I want to have my own small house, have a small space of my own, and no longer accept the pointing of others, it is reasonable.
In fact, what Feng Xiaoqin wants is not only a tangible house where the flesh is placed and sheltered from the wind and rain, but also an invisible home that can place the soul and the heart, and it is also a key to control her own destiny and life.