In "Dream of the Red Chamber", the little girl in the Yihong Courtyard fell, taking advantage of the snow and tianlian poem to eat venison, and stole Ping'er's bracelet.
After the incident, Aunt Song of Yihong Courtyard sent the stolen goods to Wang Xifeng's place, just when Wang Xifeng went out and was stopped by Ping'er.
Ping'er has always known Wang Xifeng's thunderous means and is deeply jealous, but she does not really agree with it in her heart, and often persuades her face or "quietly releases water" behind her back.
Previously, in order to investigate the thieves who stole rose dew from Madame Wang's house, Wang Xifeng ordered dozens of people to be placed under the scorching sun for "human flesh barbecue", and often "gave a meal to a board without no tricks.".
For the next person, he likes to be dangerous and cruel.
This time, the fall of er's hand debt and theft actually stole wang Xifeng's person, how Wang Xifeng would deal with her, thinking about it was terrible.
Even if Wang Xifeng had the heart to act in full accordance with the rules and did not deal with it strictly, the fate would be terrible for Xiang'er.
In the context of Jia Fu, once the maid becomes a sinner with a stain on her back, there is no smooth road in life after that, and there is probably no way to "repent and reform" and start over after that.
Jin Jun'er, who was punched in the face and dismissed by Madame Wang in public, jumped into the well, not because Xue Baochao said that "she is just a stupid person who is not worth it", but because she understands that under the strict pressure of the wind and frost sword, her innocence and reputation are destroyed, and her work bowl is smashed, which is equivalent to being cornered.
Although the event attributes of Falling Er and Jin Jun'er are different, one is theft and the other is "(peach)" incident, but the back road is equally slim and difficult.
Therefore, Ping'er was willing to give her another way, so that Musk Yue and other attackers would find some other reason to quietly send her away after they returned.
In this way, even if Xia'er did not have a good errand in Yihong Courtyard, she would not fall into a desperate situation.
You may say: Since Xiang'er has committed a crime of theft, it is natural and reasonable to be punished, so why should she be extra "open-ended"?
Although it is punishable to be a thief, in the context of Jia Fu, under the influence of unequal factors, there is no real "appropriate and appropriate" sentencing.
Crime and punishment do not match, Ping'er is powerless to change such an institutional pattern, and can only quietly try to solve it in another way.
Of course, Ping'er's move not only wanted to pull The Fallen, but also took into account Baoyu's face, knowing that he most hoped that his servants could give him a long face;
Avoid the responsibility of "dereliction of duty" for attacking people;
At the same time, I sympathized with Qingwen and knew that she couldn't stand her violent temper.
After Baoyu overheard this paragraph, he was very sorry for Xiang'er, sighed and thanked Ping'er, and after relaying it to Qingwen, Qingwen was immediately angry and shouted to call Xiang'er.
At that time, Baoyu was still present, and he stopped Qingwen hard.
Although Bao Yu blocked this momentary move, he could not unravel the resentment in Qingwen's heart, he just casually comforted from his point of view, "What is unbearable about this."
(In fact, from Baoyu's own point of view, he does not have the intense emotions to explode every minute, and he does not need to endure)
But Qingwen was on the verge of having a temper explosion and being forced to stop, exploding and not fully exploding, and her state was naturally different.
After that, Qingwen saw Xiang'er and immediately became angry.
Picking up the hairpin and poking the hand of the fallen child, the degree is quite out of control.
Just imagine, Ping'er is well-intentioned, taking into account the interests and faces of all sides, although there is no "procedural justice", but under the limited conditions of the facts, she can think of the most ideal and least harmful solution.
Since it is good for everyone, why does Qingwen not appreciate it?
Is Qingwen insisting on rules and so-called procedural justice?
Of course not, Qingwen herself's practice of tying her hands with a hairpin is essentially an unruly lynching.
The hierarchy of Jia Fu is strict, the master can beat the slave, and the slave can bully the slave who is lower than his own rank, but if there is no legitimate reason, the above behavior will be considered evil.
When he heard that someone drowned in the well in Fuzhong, Jia Zheng was very shocked and tried his best to make it clear that the three generations of my family were kind to others and had never abused and beaten people, and their attitude was very typical.
At this time, Qingwen gave such a heavy hand to Xia'er in public, but there was no legitimate reason to make it public, in the eyes of people who did not know the truth, this was probably not fundamentally different from "oppressing people with identity" and "abusing the little girls".
After that, Qingwen found a way to send her mother, took away Xiang'er, and quarreled with Xiang'er's mother, completely intensifying the contradiction, which was a complete failure of Ping'er's good intentions.
Does it have to be this way?
Is Qingwen's approach really more effective for cleaning up the atmosphere of Yihong Courtyard? Not necessarily.
In the final analysis, Ping'er has a long-term vision and a thorough approach, while Qingwen is prone to emotional loss of control and weak self-emotional management ability.
First, Qingwen's perception of her "equal" identity with the attacker.
Ping'er's way of handling it is "waiting for the attacker to come back and change the method to open the fall".
Everyone knew that although the raiders and Qingwen were nominally on an equal footing, although they were both reserve aunts and wives that the old lady had placed next to Bao Yu, the actual situation was very different.
The raiders became Madame Wang's lackey confidants, and she was a "reserve aunt" in the true sense.
But Qingwen's situation is becoming more and more dangerous.
Qingwen was not convinced of the "three indiscriminate means" that she lost to the attacker, and she was even more unwilling to admit that her identity was lower than that of the attacker, nor was she willing to wait for the attacker to come back and rule on everything.
Ping'er gave Qingwen enough face when making this arrangement, saying that she had a temper tantrum and couldn't stand it;
This is a very euphemistic way to cover up the cruel facts such as "Qingwen is not a management talent, has no daily disposal experience, and her actual status is much lower than that of attacking people".
Ping'er didn't say anything, but Qingwen still had to turn this point on the table: Why wait for the attacker to come back and dispose of it? I'm going to ask her to roll right now.
Second, the mentality of envy and hatred burns, and the ability to manage emotions is dropped.
Ping'er was so thoughtful that she came up with a way to save almost everyone.
A hundred secrets were overlooked by Baoyu and relayed to Bomb Qingwen.
Rather than saying that Qingwen punishes Xiang'er, completely out of the identity drive of self-awareness that "she belongs to me" and "does not have to wait for the attacker to manage", it is better to say that the more critical axis driving force is the simple sense of justice of "envy and hatred".
Falling Er did evil, and Qingwen was angry far more than Jia Baoyu.
Although Jia Baoyu did not look up to a thief, he was not as emotional as Qingwen.
In terms of the nature of evil, petty theft is certainly a crime, but it is far from the most heinous crime;
Although there are serious problems with the character of Xia'er, they have nothing to do with the words "unforgivable evil" and "the common indignation of man and god".
Qingwen's reaction was not like Xiang'er stealing the bracelet, but rather like Xiang'er doing a great treacherous and evil thing that hurt heaven and earth.
When Qingwen poked Xiang'er's hand with the hairpin, she had the meaning of "hating you so indisputable", as if Xiang'er had lost her face and failed her affection.
The root cause of such a strange emotional reaction is still Qingwen's cognitive confusion.
Baoyu and the attackers are the actual responsible persons for "Falling Er's guilt" and "neglect of management", they still don't feel that "Falling Er makes me ashamed and Angry", but Qingwen can't control her emotions and negative reactions, and she explodes at one point.
Is Qingwen more righteous than Baoyu and Ping'er? Can't rub sand in your eyes?
not necessarily. She's just less able to regulate and control her emotions.
Qingwen could not restrain Yi Hongyuan, and the incident became more and more obvious.
There is no problem with Qingwen's starting point, but there is still a distance of 18,000 miles between a good starting point and a good ending.