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I saw a question on the Internet: "If one day your ex suddenly came to you, what would you do?" ”
The first thing that comes to many people's minds is whether they want to get back together with their ex, after all, they really care about each other.
But they never realized one thing: since you would have been separated, how could you be sure that all this would not be a repeat of the mistakes of the past?
1. You are still my intentions
When did people realize that there is someone who is important to them? A lot of people are after a breakup.
At the beginning, they had such a person, talked about the future with him, looked forward to tomorrow with him, and lived with him in the present.
However, at that time, they slowly changed from nothing to talk about, to nothing to say, and finally, like everyone else, chose to go their separate ways.
After separation, there is actually not much gap in life, we still live as before, work, study, eat and sleep.
It was only by chance that one day, I was just walking on the road and suddenly saw someone in front of me, from the dressing style to the speech and demeanor that was very similar to you.
I unconsciously followed the man for a long distance, even deviating from where I originally wanted to go, until I found out that the person was not you.
It was also at this time that I suddenly realized that after all that I had been saying for so long, I had never let go.
There are all the regrets about you, all the regrets about us, that are real. They were only temporarily sealed by me.
2. Would you like to come back to me?
In fact, for the compound matter, more people will still choose to hesitate, on the one hand, hope, on the other hand, do not dare.
The reason for hope is nothing more than that he can't put it down, after all, that person once amazed himself in his ordinary time, even with some bad memories.
And the reason for not daring to look back is even simpler, because no one is not afraid to repeat the same mistakes, afraid of the reason of the past, to hurt themselves again.
Once I was, in order to love you has been scarred, I spent a lot of time and energy, it is difficult to summon up the spirit to face the new life.
Just because your sudden appearance shattered all my disguises, at that moment, I suddenly understood what it meant to throw away my armor and what it meant to run away in a hurry.
For the ex, it is best to choose not to mention it. No matter how good the past of two people is, it has become a thing of the past after all.
And in the time after that, we always have to have a new life. This new life should not include each other.
Since you don't love anymore, don't look back at the person you once loved. You can deceive the other person, but you can't deceive your own heart.
3. There is something about, he loves you
What exactly is love? What kind of love is worth continuing without hesitation? In fact, there has been no clear answer to this question.
Because, just like 'in the eyes of a thousand people, there are a thousand Hamlets', in the eyes of different people, love is completely different.
Some people expect love, and that is giving. It's when you like me, you need to tell me without reservation how much you love me.
They like to express their love in front of everyone, and this kind of love, like a red rose, is warm and unrestrained, but it does not apply to all people.
There are also people who like to be quiet and silent, plain and bland three meals a day, when needed, some people boo cold and warm, this is what they need love.
Perhaps, in the eyes of others, that person is not perfect, but in their own eyes, that person is their most perfect choice.
As Wang Xiaobo wrote in the book: "I give you the whole soul, along with his skin, playing with small temper, 1800 kinds of bad diseases, he really hates, only a little good, love you." 」 ”
But no matter what kind of love it is, it will definitely have quarrels, concessions and mutual forgiveness, because no matter how strong the feelings, fading the color, that is life.
4. Don't repeat the mistakes of the past
When you one day decide to go on with a love that has ended, think about it, what did you do in the first place?
Some people, who have managed to climb out of the abyss, have fallen into the abyss again. It is because of their regrets and reluctance.
However, repeating the mistakes of the past is risky, and if you want to choose, think twice.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.