Zhou Bingkun and Dong Weihong in "The World of Man" do not know each other, but their views on children are surprisingly consistent
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Create Date: 2022-03-2319:52
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In the TV series "The World of Man", Zhou Bingkun and Dong Weihong do not know each other and belong to people who have no intersection at all, but their views on children are surprisingly consistent, that is, children surround you every day to transfer your troubles, and children who have a job will not stay by your side. Of course, although the views are the same, the starting point is different, Zhou Bingkun is frank after seeing life and the true face of life, while understanding Wei Hong is a feeling from the perspective of self-interest.
Although Zhou Bingkun and Dong Weihong did not know each other, they both knew one person, Zhou Bingyi. Zhou Bingkun was Zhou Bingyi's younger brother (as can be seen by name), and Dong Weihong was the second wife of Yao Lisong, Zhou Bingyi's colleague in the same department when he was a soldier in the corps.
After Zhou Nan was admitted to Tsinghua University, Zhou Bingkun was both happy and unwilling. I am glad that I did not have the ability to be admitted to college that year, but my son was out of work and was admitted to Tsinghua. Although Zhou Nan is not his own son, Zhou Bingkun always regards it as his own, when Shui Ziliu wanted to use money to solve Zhou Nan's problem, when Zhou Nan went to Luo Shibin as a son, he had a domineering response - is it that you rich people think that you can solve anything with money, no matter how much money you give, I will not trade my son. The reluctance is that his son Zhou Nan is about to go to beijing for college, and it will take a long time to meet.
However, Zhou Bingkun, who has experienced ups and downs, has lived thoroughly, and he also knows what is called "the love of his parents and sons, and his plans are far-reaching." It is a good thing that Zhou Nan can be admitted to Tsinghua University, not only shining on the lintel, giving Zhou Parents a face, but also good for finding a job and mixing up personal appearances in the future, it can be said that Zhou Bingkun is more pleased at the same time. At this moment, he should also be able to completely understand why his father Zhou Zhigang was happy and proud to lead the whole family to the neighborhood on the first day of the New Year, as Zhou Zhigang said that his children (Zhou Bingyi, Zhou Rong) were admitted to Peking University, there was light on their faces, and they had to take it out to show their posture.
Of course, understanding and understanding, he did not learn Zhou Zhigang, did not show off, and did not take the opportunity to engage in a promotion banquet like Zhou Rong often said that the small citizens took the opportunity to feast on relatives and friends, but was very low-key, only in the Ji Shan Tang Restaurant where he worked and Zheng Juan and Zhou Nan had a meal to celebrate. Perhaps he was afraid that his son Zhou Cong would not have good academic performance like him in the future, did not enter the university, and lived a very ordinary life, if he gave Zhou Nan a grand promotion banquet to hurt his younger son, it was like he was unintentionally hurt by Zhou Zhigang's display.
Looking back on his life, Zhou Bingkun will no longer be as inferior as before, feeling that he is not as inferior as his brother and sister, he has already run to the fourth, but he feels that he is quite successful, although he has not been admitted to Peking University, did not become an official or become a senior intellectual, but his wife and children have hot kangtou, the family is very harmonious, this is what he thinks of happiness, at this time there is no inferiority, some are satisfied. But the son Zhou Cong may be like Zhou Rong said Feng Yue, an age group has an age of understanding, it is impossible to ask Feng Yue's sixteen-year-old children to go according to the ideas of their forties, the same is true of Zhou Cong, the young Zhou Cong will only be as dissatisfied with his father's appearance as he was then, and at the same time full of inferiority. Human maturity really needs to be experienced.
Zheng Juan's happiness is also similar, so she is not at all moved by Luo Shibin's money, and follows the ordinary Zhou Bingkun with a dead heart and lives an ordinary life. However, in the end, it was her mother, who was sad to face parting, and once she cried. Zhou Bingkun couldn't help but say that the more children who came out, the more they had to leave their parents, and you were annoyed when you hung around in front of you that day. Nannan, don't go to Beijing, don't go to college, let your mother tie it with a trouser belt, follow her every day, and see if she is bothered. Zheng Juan only stopped her tears from saying this.
Dong Weihong, who is also a mother, does not treat her children with as much reluctance and tenderness as Zheng Juan, and she holds the same view as Zhou Bingkun. It's just that Zhou Bingkun is true love for the child, and it is for the sake of the child's goodness to let the child be free, and Dong Weihong is more concerned about personal enjoyment, and without sincerity, he can't exchange it for sincerity, so he goes with the child.
When Dong Weihong and her husband Yao Lisong and Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei went to the army to revisit the old place, knowing that Hao Dongmei could not have children, she once comforted that Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei were also very good, and it didn't matter to you when the children were older, and you were annoyed every day when they walked around in front of you, and if they had a chance, they would not stay by your side, so in the end they were still two mouths.
Dong Weihong's words are not polite scene words, but from the heart. She was not so much because she loved to marry Yao Lisong, but rather for profit. In order to get rid of her hard life, she did not hesitate to marry Yao Lisong, the chief of the Propaganda Section of the Third Division, who was ten years older, widowed, and had children, so that she had a layer of protection and did not have to go to the field to do farm work and feed livestock. Yao Lisong is not a fool, he knows what the other party wants, but he doesn't mind the reality, she maps his rich material, he maps her young and beautiful, each taking what he needs. It is the need for the beauty of the other party, that will make Yao Lisong sleep with Dong Weihong in the nest.
As Yao Lisong went to the sea to do business and became the chairman of Shangneng Group, Yao Lisong began to indulge himself. Yao Lisong is not a loyal husband, before there was still a taboo in the system, was supervised more strictly, he also thought about promotion, not to mention that before in the corps Director Dai because of the problem of life style, and many women have a relationship, and then the case of being swept down is still vivid, which dares to mess up. As the old director who admired him died in a traffic accident, the patron was gone, and the future was broken, he joined the state-owned enterprise. At this time, the supervision environment he faced was not strict, but the temptation was more, the flowers and intestines that existed in the original place rose up, coupled with the frustration of the career, it also produced the idea of timely pleasure, and he also traveled at night with candles, and drunkenly did not know the way back in the place of pleasure.
In the face of her husband's depravity, Dong Weihong should have dissuaded her, but she did not, nor was she angry. Why? Because she is also a realistic sober person, really messing with Yao Lisong, she can't get anything, she turns a blind eye or husband and wife, and she can live in a single-family mansion of more than five hundred square meters and continue to be a broad wife. So AnYu and Yao Lisong became a registered husband and wife, and Anyu slept in each house with her husband.
From the point of view of Dong Weihong getting married for the sake of material life and enduring her husband's cheating, Dong Weihong is a realist, who values interests the most, and other things have to give in in the face of interests, just like Zhou Rong's selfishness, what relatives, daughters, and husbands are not as important as her free will, so it is unlikely that zheng juan cares about children as much as she does, and she wants her children to be around all the time, from this point of view, the words she said to Hao Dongmei are really not out of courtesy.
No matter what the angle, Zhou Bingkun and Dong Weihong's view of the child is very much in line with many people's experience ideas, the child really feels annoyed around himself every day, and when looking forward to the stars and the moon, the child will not stay by your side. At this time, he (she) does not belong to you, the excellent him (she) belongs more to the work, belongs to the career, belongs to other things, he (she) can be divided into the small family time is limited, let alone parents. However, when his parents are not there, he (she) will think more and begin to regret not spending more time with his parents, but in fact, even if life can be repeated, his (her) time with his parents will not increase.
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