"You're still young, let me come!" In the matter of doing housework, many parents seem to try their best to do it.
Some people say: "Children are too small, and when they are older, they will naturally become." ”
Some said: "The main task of children is to study, and doing housework is too delayed!" ”
Others said: "The child is clumsy, the old help is not as good as me!" ”
But if the child does not do housework and concentrates on learning, will he be better?
A 20-year study by Harvard University showed:
"Children who love housework have a 15:1 employment rate compared to children who don't, the former earns 20% more than the latter, and the marriage is happier."
The Chinese Academy of Educational Sciences conducted a similar survey, and the results showed:
"Children who love housework are 27 times better than children who don't love housework!"
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Why is it so important to do housework?
It can improve the child's physical coordination ability
During the golden age of your baby's hand development, you will find that they have a "special love" for housework!
Although letting the baby dry will slow down the pace of our work, but at this time try not to stop, let the baby try.
This process not only improves the baby's physical coordination, but also makes them psychologically satisfied.
Can exercise the ability to take care of themselves
Today's children are the treasures of the family, especially the old people, who are reluctant to let the baby do this and that.
Until the child is in kindergarten, he will not be able to wear clothes and cannot eat by himself.
Maybe you think that the bigger will naturally be, but in school, others will, they will not, children will also be inferior.
Teaching children the basic self-care ability of life is our responsibility and obligation as parents.
Make your child more responsible
Doing housework makes children more aware that they are part of the family.
Let the baby have a more sense of responsibility, and will not develop the habit of opening his mouth with food and reaching out with clothes.
Especially for baby boys, who do housework from an early age, will not feel that doing housework is a woman's business when they grow up.
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However, it is important to assign household chores to your children that match their age characteristics!
The age list of children doing housework published by the People's Daily can be used for parents' reference!
Children learn to do housework comparison table
How to turn chores into parent-child games?
How do you make your child fall in love with housework?
Should you pay attention to these six points when guiding your child to do housework?
Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans for it!
Compared with the study of knowledge, sometimes the ability of practical life can make children independent of society and go further!
The child is like a knife, only by constantly polishing him, will bloom out of the original sharpness, has been idle, will only let him rust.
Doing housework is an ability, is the invisible wealth that accompanies the child's life, the child must master, a child who can do housework, is the creator of a happy life.
The child goes further, the adult takes a step back, this is called growth.