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Love at each age has a different way of expression, young love often only needs a verbal simple "I love you", and adult love is mixed with more material, human, interests and other factors, so as adults in society, we are also eager to find a love that suits us, but in the face of intricate human hearts, we should be more rational and calm.
But there is a point, sincere feelings will certainly show a strong interaction, rather than just know how to take but do not want to pay the hypocrisy, so when we really pay a relationship, if the long-term can not get the due feedback, interaction has become a single action, then we should stop the pace of travel in time, reflect on whether it is worth it, whether it is necessary, on the road of feelings, we need more calm and thinking, less impulsive and fierce, so that we can avoid falling into the inertia of feelings as much as possible.
In September 2020, an uncle surnamed Ma in Hangzhou met the beauty manager of the beauty shop in a consumer dispute at the beauty shop, and the warm and thoughtful service of the beauty manager made Uncle Ma feel the warmth of his heart for a long time, he immediately said that he was engaged in "digital currency", and now he is divorced, he wants to find an object, I don't know what the other party's intention is.
After the beauty manager heard Uncle Ma's self-introduction and confession, he also said that he had been divorced for two years, had a 5-year-old child, if it was appropriate not to rule out the possibility of further contact, the other party's statement made Uncle Ma happy to blossom, he thought that the peach blossom luck had come to his head.
Since then, Uncle Ma has come to the store every two or three days to find the beauty manager to consume, hoping to further create opportunities to contact and understand each other, seeing that Uncle Ma takes care of his business so frequently, the beauty manager has expressed his willingness to have children for Uncle Ma later, which can move Uncle Ma badly, when he learned that the recharge amount of the guest is the assessment standard of the other party's performance, Uncle Ma increased the recharge, from September last year to now a total of more than half a million into it, In fact, a large part of the amount was charged by Uncle Ma's loan.
Uncle Ma owes debt to recharge, he is more than twenty years older than the other party, when asked why the beauty manager is willing to be with himself, Uncle Ma confidently said that the other party must think that he is a potential stock, followed by his own future, although he now owes a lot of debt, but he is engaged in digital currency after all, the prospect is immeasurable, I believe these factors are the beauty manager is willing to follow their own decisive factors.
Just the time has passed more than half a year, Uncle Ma said that the occasion when the two get along is only in the shop, eating is at most the beauty shop across the road from the restaurant, shopping tourism once, Uncle Ma himself is more and more panicked, he feels that the two are not like in love, more like each other and themselves play ambiguous, cheat their feelings, they want to and each other to clarify the relationship but are rejected by the other party, even before they want to invite each other out to eat during the Lantern Festival, they are also categorically rejected, which can annoy Uncle Ma, He exposed the accusation that the beauty manager cheated on his feelings and demanded that the other party return the amount he had recharged.
In the face of the menacing Uncle Ma, the beauty manager at this time was frightened to lock himself in the store, let Uncle Ma how to ask for and unwilling to show up to communicate, helplessly, Uncle Ma found the beauty manager's shop owner, the shop owner said that the private love of employees does not belong to their management category, at the same time, according to their own understanding, the two confirmed the relationship, but also had a relationship, so the emotional dispute between the two should still return to the emotional level, they are still further verifying the specific situation, it is not convenient to make too many comments.
Life is sometimes far more exciting than the TV series, this matter makes people completely subvert the definition of shock, a confused relationship, not even the feelings are ambiguous, this middle-aged uncle in order to take care of the beauty manager business, actually threw more than half a million recharge, and finally when found that the other party does not admit to their love relationship, he realized that he was deceived and teased, making people feel ridiculous and sad.
When the two met because of the consumer dispute, the beauty manager's thoughtful and warm service made Uncle Ma feel at home, and then had a good feeling for it, but this good feeling is a one-sided illusion, because for the beauty manager, it is her service tenet to report warmth to every guest, this is her job, and it is not mixed with any emotional factors, but in uncle Ma's eyes, he will unilaterally expand the interpretation of the beauty manager's warm and thoughtful service behavior.
Of course, there is a saying: love does not know what to do, always deep affection, the generation of feelings is indeed no specific occasion, time or interpersonal relationships and other restrictions, but the existence and continuation of feelings is based on the premise of interaction, unrequited love or one-way interpretation will only let themselves fall into what they think is the illusion of the world.
Not only that, do not fight do not know each other, the two people met for the first time because of the consumer dispute, Uncle Ma immediately indicated his personal emotional identity that he had divorced, bluntly expressed the idea of wanting to deal with each other, and told the other party that he was engaged in the so-called "digital currency" transaction, creating a high-end atmosphere, the result of his disclosure of this information is to obtain the heart of the beauty manager, and in the eyes of the beauty manager full of commercial atmosphere, Uncle Ma has become the best candidate for his "gold lord".
If you first know the real idea of the beauty manager, then this Uncle Ma from September last year to the present for almost half a year, many times a large amount of recharge consumption to take care of the performance of the beauty manager, from the beauty manager's boss, we learned that the two of them have had a relationship, but from uncle Ma's mouth we found that they do not have any similar couples of interactive dating, the interaction between the two people is limited to Uncle Ma's consumption behavior in the beauty shop.
All this seems to be very fascinating, the beauty manager and Uncle Ma have a relationship but do not admit that there is a love relationship between the two, then the purpose of the beauty manager is to become a lice on the bald head, she is using Uncle Ma's good feelings for herself, taking an ambiguous approach, and making some intimate contact with him, and then inducing Uncle Ma to continue to contribute to his so-called performance.
In particular, the beauty manager seized the long-lost inner emptiness of Uncle Ma after his divorce, and touched Uncle Ma with the verbal promise of having a child, although this sentence does not have any bright spots in our view, but in the eyes of Uncle Ma, who has been divorced and single for many years, the lethality of this sentence is no less than the love commitment of a young girl to an ignorant teenager, so in the end, the beauty manager uses the method of indulgence to trap Uncle Ma's heart, because she knows that what she can't get is the most attractive.
It's just that Uncle Ma as a man, he in line with the purpose of wanting to fall in love with the beauty manager to marry the purpose of investing a large amount of money, but under the tug-of-war of time, he found that he did not get anything, from his goal is far away, he has been unilaterally thinking that he is dealing with the object, but the other party refuses to recognize the love relationship between the two, and also refuses to accept Uncle Ma's invitation to dinner on the day of the Lantern Festival, and the ambiguous and to a certain extent the relationship has been unable to meet Uncle Ma's desire for a breakthrough in the further development of the relationship between the two. Therefore, while watching his past loans recharge more than 500,000 yuan, the other party did not make a clear statement on the relationship between the two sides, and then completely angered Uncle Ma, tearing his face became expected.
Money can not buy love, can be bought with money to buy love is often fragile and unsustainable, although the production of adult feelings will be more or less based on certain material factors, but if you abandon the emotional factors, become a pure materialist admirer, then such feelings will inevitably be difficult to go far, Uncle Ma and the beauty manager of this absurd strange thing also gave us a certain enlightenment: feelings to pay for people worthy, desperately selflessly pay for each other, that is not love, nor is the so-called pursuit of the routine, It is just a blind love that highlights one's own humility, moves oneself, but makes the other party indifferent.
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