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I wanted to let go, but I couldn't help it, and I didn't know how to choose in the face of the person I liked, because I fell in love with a boy who was 8 years younger than myself.
My name is Zou Fei (pseudonym), 35 years old, and I am a single mother. Last summer, I took my children to learn to swim and met a sunny and handsome male coach.
We had a great time together when we learned to swim with him, and I didn't think about it at the time because he was 8 years younger than me, but then I found myself slowly falling in love with him, but I knew it was impossible, and he also had a girlfriend.
After the child started school in the summer, I had less opportunity to go to the swimming pool, but sometimes we would still chat in WeChat, and most of them were he who took the initiative to talk to me.
One night, I had just put my child to sleep and was about to go to bed when I suddenly got a call from him saying that he was at the bar, had drunk too much, and could he let me drive him home.
From the phone, I seemed to hear a slight cry in his voice, and I hurried out the door to the bar. I saw him lying drunk on the table with tear stains all over his face, and I was so distressed that I asked the bartender to help get him into the car and drive him home.
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When I got to his house, he seemed to be a little more awake, and I helped him to lie down on the couch, and then I made him a glass of honey water and fed him a drink.
He looked at me and suddenly said sadly, "Sister, if she is like you, how nice it would be." ”
I asked him what had happened and he said his girlfriend had broken up with him and he was in pain.
Seriously, when I heard him say he broke up with his girlfriend, I was secretly happy, because he was single, and I had the opportunity to confess to him.
That night, I really wanted to tell him that I liked him and I wanted to be with him, but reason still told me that I was so much older than him, and what qualifications did I have to like him?
Since he lost love, our contact has also increased, every night he will take the initiative to chat with me on WeChat for a while, every weekend he will ask me and my children to swim in the swimming pool, and sometimes invite us to go to the movies together.
In those days, I felt that we were like a family, very close, but I don't know what he really thought in his heart, was it because he would often come to me after the loneliness of the lost love, or because he also liked me?
I wanted to confess to him, but the other person was so much younger than me that I felt like I was delusional. My heart was in pain, I wanted to let go but I couldn't help it, I didn't know what to do.
I wonder if he likes me in his heart, but how can I judge what he means to me?
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I believe that there are many girls who will also encounter the same troubles as Zou Fei, like a boy who wants to confess, but does not know whether the other party also likes you, so they have been wandering.
In fact, it is very simple to know whether a boy loves a girl, just look at how he behaves to you, I help you summarize the three-point performance of boys falling in love with girls.
First, if a guy really falls in love with a girl, he will care about the girl in particular.
This is the most obvious, if the other person really falls in love with you, then when you chat together or eat together, he will pay special attention to you.
For example: When it rains, send you WeChat to ask if you have an umbrella? When eating, you will also order foods that you like to eat, etc.
His initiative to show kindness is to your heart, because you are so concerned about you in your heart.
Second, if a guy really falls in love with a girl, he will be jealous of the other opposite sex.
When you talk about the colleagues around you, you will find that when you praise other people of the opposite sex, although he does not say anything, but there is obviously some unhappiness on his face, it proves that he is jealous.
The reason why he is unhappy is because he is uncomfortable in his heart, he is worried that he is not good enough in your eyes, and he is also worried that you will be robbed by other men, so he will have a jealous performance.
Third, if a boy really falls in love with a girl, he will be especially willing to help the girl.
This is very true, if a man really loves a girl, then he will usually be especially willing to help the girl do something.
And as long as the girl has something to help, no matter how difficult it is, he will do his best to help the girl.
Even if he pays a lot during this period, he will not show his credit in front of the girls, because as long as the girl he loves is happy, it is his greatest happiness.
In summary, if you meet a boy who is particularly concerned about you, will be jealous of you, and will also make a fool of yourself, then you must seize this opportunity and don't always wait for the other party to open his mouth to confess to you.
He is so good to you, you first say that you like him, and what is there to hesitate about? Are you right?