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I saw a quote on the Internet: 'Turns out, being loved really doesn't require you to be pretty, as long as it's you, that's enough.' ”
In this era when people are not very willing to believe in love, it is really not easy to meet someone who truly loves you and is willing to accompany you.
However, the people they meet do not represent how good they are, but that they happen to meet the right person at the right time.
1. The more loved a person is, the more lovely he is
I have seen a blogger who, when the online appearance anxiety discussion is flourishing, asked her husband a question: "Will you dislike me in the future?" ”
Her husband looked up at her, then half-jokingly said, "Disgusted, but I was an old man at that time, don't you hate me?" ”
In fact, many times, why is there always a sense of happiness in this blogger's video? Not because of how high the quality of their lives is, but because of love.
They have known each other for 7 years, married for 4 years, from two young people who know nothing, to now becoming a qualified pair of parents, this way, they have been hand in hand.
In the eyes of the blogger, it is not that there are no troubles, but more often, her troubles are solved by her husband.
He would give her a hug as she tossed and turned at night. When she is extremely unconfident, he will continue to affirm her, give her encouragement and support.
In the matter of being loved, she has never been left behind, even if they have children, in her husband's heart, she will always have a place.
It is precisely because of this that although their lives are not much richer, they have always lived happily and happily.
2. Don't choose someone who makes you unlucky
In fact, some people have been asking similar questions: 'When my significant other does something that disappoints me, do I have to give up?' ‘
These entangled people can't always put it down and can't forget it, and whenever they want to give up, they will always recall the kindness of the other party to themselves.
But it is precisely because of these hesitations and memories that they have dragged down their lives. Also let their other half, with more opportunities, hurt them.
In fact, in the matter of love, there is nothing wrong with quarrels, because many things, people will have conflicts of opinion because of their subjective judgments.
However, if this quarrel includes denigration, depreciation or even a big fight, then you really need to reposition this feeling.
Because, a person who truly loves you, at the very least, will control his own behavior. He wasn't a kid and should know exactly what he was doing.
When we believe in any love, we must first remember that we must not choose the person who makes you unhappy.
No matter what kind of person you are, even if you are really extremely ordinary, you should choose a person who is willing to go in both directions with you.
3. He spoiled her for the rest of his life
I have seen a passage on the Internet: Grandpa has a pension, Grandma does not, Grandma is afraid that her wife will look down on her, so she found a job as a sanitation worker.
However, Grandma couldn't get up so early, so Grandpa went to work for Grandma every morning. That's one way he expresses his love.
Many times, love does not have to be publicized, and it does not need to be known to all, so it is called love.
Like the love stories of the older generation that we have heard, they are actually very subtle and introverted, but they have gone through a lifetime like that.
There are many ways of expressing love, but either way, first of all it should be the existence that makes you happy and happy, not making you constantly doubt yourself.
Because, there are always some people who will come to your life in the name of loving you, and then after messing up your life, they will complain that you are not.
This kind of love will only make the original proud and confident you go away, and it should not be the love you should have.
Even if you can't find someone who spoils you for a lifetime, at least find someone who is willing to listen to you and understand you, that is the love of ordinary days.
4. You can rest assured that he will always appear
Song Xiaojun's "Rain and See You" said: "There are not too many beautiful things in the world, the wind blowing from the other side of the river in the evening of Liqiu, and you who are in your twenties who laugh and want to kill people." “
Please believe that as long as you do your best and seize the encounter, you will always find the right person for you.
Until then, don't wronged yourself, no one deserves you to do that, and the people who love you are even more reluctant to do it.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.