Text/Flying Fish
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In the red dust, it is really sad to meet a person who loves each other very much, but cannot become a husband and wife.
It is said that it is easy to love each other and difficult to keep each other, and if two people who love each other again cannot become husband and wife, it means that there is no husband and wife fate in the future, and can only be handled like this: learn to let go of the unwillingness in the heart, let go of the obsession in the heart, complete each other, and bless each other. Can't become a husband and wife, then be friends, in this life, in fact, there is a close friend, it is also very good.
In fact, who in this life, hopes to find a person who loves each other to stay with each other for a lifetime, but fate makes people, originally thought that they met a person who loves deeply, understand each other, and have a good heart for each other, but because of the trickery of fate, they missed it.
So such two deeply loved people, can not become husband and wife, and what relationship can be maintained, not to be lovers, nor to destroy each other's family, but to become friends, if friends can not do it, then strangers, can not be with each other, just forget each other.
02
Remembering the brilliance in "Thirty-Nine", she and her girlfriend's brother were originally very loving lovers, and the acquaintance of the two people was also because of the girlfriend, so they were together for many years, understanding each other, appreciating each other, and supporting each other.
When Canrong wants to study abroad, her boyfriend is also very supportive, hoping that she will get married when she returns from school, and also said that she will always wait for her.
But I didn't expect that during the period when Canrong went abroad, the boyfriend was calculated and mistakenly believed that the other party was pregnant with his own child, so he had to marry that person.
After marriage, I learned that in fact, the child was not his own, but for the sake of the child, the brother did not file for divorce.
Later, Canrong came back and saw that the person he loved deeply had formed a family with others, and had children, how unwilling and unwilling he was in his heart, but he was always helpless.
Two people meet, two eyes opposite, no matter what, the love in the heart can never be released, whether it is Canrong, or a man, the ripples in the heart in the process of getting along or with the wind and waves.
But both people understand that there is no way to go back, men can't leave their families for Canrong, and Canrong doesn't want to become a third party, although they haven't seen each other for many years, but that feeling is still there, but it is already human. The heart is not on its own, caught in the red dust, unable to extricate itself.
03
And there is such a deep affection in the world, when encountered, it is irresistible, the thoughts are lingering, tossing and turning, only to lower the brow, but on the heart.
In the world, there is a kind of love, as deep as the sea, but it is doomed to not be able to become a husband and wife, and when they reunite again, they can never cross the moral barrier, and no matter how unwilling they are, they can only look at it from a distance and cannot get close.
Later, his brother learned that Canrong had terminal cancer and didn't have many days left, he didn't want to lose her again, he wanted to file for divorce with his wife, and then accompany her through the last days of his life.
But Canrong never wanted to, tell him, just be a friend, don't make the family broken because of me.
Perhaps in Canrong's heart, she also loves very bitterly, because she is always the person who loves and cannot, but when facing each other, she is still very free, since there is no reason to be together, it is better to change the relationship, after all, it is also a fate to meet in life, but not as a lover, but as a friend, when you meet, you can still say hello, and you don't have to miss it anymore.
Love, is beautiful, but imperfect, and always with regrets.
The thrill of the first sight, the sparks that rub out when they are together, the sweet affection, but it is providence to let two deeply loved people separate, perhaps it is arranged in the dark, even if the two people love unforgettable, but always love and can not, no reason for husband and wife, then be friends, even if you can not accompany each other, but you can not be embarrassed when you meet.
04
On the red dust, people who love each other, cherish each other, know each other, but they cannot escape the trickery of fate, they can only be separated from the sea of people, they can only watch each other with others, leaving a heart like a knife to end their feelings.
In the world of love, there are always things that make people feel sad, do not dare to approach, do not dare to touch, dare not say too much, can only keep a distance, can only pay attention to proportions, can only foresight and can not speak.
In this life, there has been a person who has been deeply loved, but can not become a husband and wife, then choose to leave, leave this sad place, and slowly let go. Or choose to change the relationship, whether it is a friend or a stranger, love can only be placed in the bottom of the heart, silently blessed.
In fact, some people, met, loved, is enough. If life is only like the first sight, what autumn wind and sorrow paint fan.
If they are not separated from each other because of a change of heart, then they are also thankful, because there is at least one person in this world who secretly loves themselves.
Although this love is hidden in the heart, it is worth a thousand words.
There is a deep love that cannot be a husband and wife, so keep your distance, bless each other, and be okay with each other.
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