The child fell into the gap of the high-speed rail station, the mother jumped down to rescue the first time, but the father blamed on the side

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For parents, children are their own "treasure in the palm" and "heart meat", and it is most difficult to see children being hurt a little, so the safety of children cannot be ignored.

However, even if parents are very careful, it is inevitable that there will be times of neglect, and when parents see their children having an accident, the first reaction is to save the child or blame each other?

The child fell into the gap of the high-speed rail station, the mother jumped down to rescue, and the father blamed it

There is a video on the Internet that has aroused heated discussion among netizens. In the video, a couple with their children waiting for the train next to the high-speed rail platform, because there is still a period of time before the high-speed rail arrives, the parents brush up the mobile phone, and the child follows the mother.

At first, the child still held his mother's hand, but somehow, the child suddenly spread his hand and ran to the tracks of the opposite high-speed rail, only to step on the air and fall into the gap of the high-speed rail station. Unfortunately, the high-speed train opposite is about to arrive at the time to prepare for departure, and the situation at that time was really very dangerous.

The mother found that the child fell into the gap of the high-speed rail station, but also frightened, the first time jumped down to save the child, this time the child's father found out, but also rushed to check.

However, unlike the mother's first reaction, the father is lying on the platform looking at his wife and children, and does not forget to complain about his wife: let you look at the child, what are you doing?

The wife did not have time to distinguish at this time, hurriedly put the child up, handed it to the child's father, and explained "sorry" while crying, which seemed to be not lightly frightened. Fortunately, the staff stopped the high-speed rail to avoid the tragedy.

When the child encounters danger, the reactions of the mother and father are very different, which is hotly discussed by netizens

Although no one was hurt in the end, when the child encountered danger, the two parents' completely different attitudes made netizens talk about it.

As can be seen from the video, when the child is found to have fallen into the gap of the high-speed rail, the mother's first reaction is to jump down to save the child, and when faced with the wife and the child in the track at the same time, the father is not the first time to jump, nor is it to pull the wife, but to complain that the wife does not look after the child.

After taking over the child, he directly turned around and walked away, not caring about his wife who was still in the gap. For the father's such a practice, netizens have condemned: Why is it the fault of the mother to look at the child badly? Isn't Dad responsible?

Moreover, when the child is in danger, the father is not to save the child at the first time, but to blame the wife's responsibility, and after taking over the child, he does not care about the wife's safety, so that the man is simply selfish and cold-blooded.

I have to say that the father's approach in the video is no wonder that he was complained about, and when an accident occurred, he only cared about blaming each other, rather than reviewing his own faults, the child is a husband and wife, and both husband and wife have the responsibility and obligation to take care of it.

And the child has an accident, the mother jumped down for the first time out of the instinctive reaction of parents, but when the child goes up, perhaps she will also feel afraid, after all, once the high-speed rail is turned on at this time, it is life-threatening.

As a husband, instead of comforting or pulling his wife, he left on his own, is this a performance that a qualified husband should have?

It's not just the mother's responsibility that the child is not well taken care of

Many mothers with babies have reflected: from the birth of the child to the present, it is the mother alone in the care and companionship, the child is well raised no one will understand and praise, once there is a problem with the disease, the first reaction of the family is that the mother did not bring well, and even the words always have the meaning of blame.

It seems that in everyone's eyes, taking children is a matter for the mother alone, and it is all the responsibility of the mother to do things, and such an experience makes many mothers feel deeply wronged.

The main reason for this phenomenon is the "insufficient responsibility" of fathers in the process of taking care of their children. From the birth of the baby, the responsibility of raising the child falls on the mother, and the father is rarely exposed to the work of parenting, and over time, the father who lacks parenting experience will choose to quit from the parenting process.

In fact, Tuanzi's mother also made the same mistake in taking care of her children at that time. At that time, the child's father wanted to make milk powder for the baby, and as a result, as soon as he got started, I directly refused on the grounds of "you will not", which directly extinguished the father's impulse to take care of the child.

And such a parenting contradiction, will naturally assume that the mother should assume the full responsibility of raising the child, once the child is not well taken care of, as a full-time mother who takes care of the child, it is rightful to become the target of the spearhead.

In fact, in family life, everyone needs to pay, and family responsibilities need to be shared by both husband and wife.

The composition of a family requires mom and dad to work together to maintain its integrity. When the child has a problem, what parents have to do is not to shirk responsibility from each other, but to need mutual understanding and tolerance between family members, and more importantly, a good communication.

Especially husbands and fathers, who are the core strength of the family, should give their wives and children a sense of dependence and enough security and trust, so that they can increase their happiness because they are around.

Today's topic: What do you think about the practice of two parents?