At what age does a child have his own personality?
In kindergartens, some children are lively and active; some children are introverted and shy; some are already like small adults at a young age, who can lead the children around them to play games, or help the teachers to coax their homesick crying companions; some like to be alone and unwilling to join group activities... Every child has a distinct personality.
In fact, children already have personalities from the age of 1, but the education of parents, the mode of getting along with children, and the children's living environment are the important factors that ultimately determine the formation of their personality.
How much does a child's personality affect their future development?
There is no good or bad personality, but it can affect how much happiness children can feel in life.
When I go to school, there are always some children who are confident and bold, and dare to raise their hands to answer the teacher's questions, regardless of right or wrong; when they see some classmates being bullied, they will fight and hug, and they are not afraid of retaliation...
They are full of positive energy, just like the heroic characters often seen in Jin Yong martial arts, although they are ordinary, they can awaken the desire of those around them for goodness and beauty.
Why do these children have the courage to move forward from an early age?
Why do some people always have the calmness to give it a go at all costs?
Parents are a bottom card for children, and they are also his confidence in facing social life.
There is a very famous movie, "Forrest Gump", I believe many people have seen it.
Many people are born with deficiencies but not only become university football stars, running all over the United States, but also the Hero of the Vietnam War Forrest Gump is deeply moved.
In fact, behind the silent payment, the firm faith of Forrest Gump's mother is the power to support Forrest Gump to finally throw away the metal bracket and rush like the wind.
A tough mother, knowing that her son is mentally handicapped, she is not an educator, but she knows better than anyone how to educate her son, and she knows that there are some qualities that will be more precious than the wealth of the family.
Forrest Gump's mother told her son "you are no difference than anybody else".
Forrest Gump is not accepted by the school because of lack of intelligence; because of insufficient development of the soles of his feet, he is not favored by anyone for his sports dreams....
All the discrimination he carried, because of his mother's unwavering love and encouragement to accompany him, became the fuel for Forrest Gump to fly on the runway.
Children who are wrapped in firm faith and tenacious love will of course have the courage to go forward, they are not afraid of failure, nor are they afraid of challenges, because they know that there are hands behind their backs that are always waiting to give themselves a hug.
Parents are the child's first teachers, and parents educate their children more than they can learn in school.
If there is magic in the world that can heal everything, then the love of parents must be one of them.
Happy childhood can heal a lifetime, unhappy childhood but to use a lifetime to heal, the child's future behavior concept, in fact, has long been frozen through the parents' education.
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