Many parents always feel that their children are not angry, children make mistakes will only scold, but the effect of scolding is not obvious at all, children still make mistakes, parents have to continue to scold, thus falling into a vicious circle. Many parents feel that their children cannot teach.
In fact, it is not at all that the child cannot teach, but that you cannot teach at all. The effect of scolding on your child is very low, and the harm is endless, and your child will hate you forever.
So how should we teach the right path? "Forrest Gump" tells us a good answer.
Forrest Gump, the protagonist of Forrest Gump, is a low-intelligence child with an IQ of only 75, but what? The people around him were smarter than him, but no one lived as successfully as he did. Why did Forrest Gump achieve such success? This has a lot to do with his mother's approach to education.
At first, Forrest Gump had to walk with his feet propped up, but then he got stuck. It took a lot of effort for his mother to pull him out. The people around him cast contemptuous glances at Forrest Gump. Forrest Gump's mother was furious with the men and told Forrest Gump, "Don't let the family say he is better than you, if God's will is for everyone to be equal, then He will put a foot brace on everyone." Forrest Gump's mother would always make him understand all kinds of truths in a way that Forrest Gump could understand.
When she got home, Forrest Gump's mother told Forrest Gump, "You're the same as everyone else. This phrase appears in many later episodes.
When Forrest Gump's mother sent Forrest Gump to school, the teacher refused to accept Forrest Gump on the grounds that Forrest Gump only had an IQ of 75. But Forrest Gump's mother insisted on letting Forrest Gump go to normal school, and did a lot of struggle with the teacher, and finally let Forrest Gump go to normal school.
Finally, when Forrest Gump's mother was critically ill, Forrest Gump came to visit her mother. His mother told him the secret of death: "Death is only a part of life, it is destined to be faced." And said the classic line: "Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what your next piece will taste like.".
See, this is the education of Forrest Gump's mother: Forrest Gump's mother did not abandon her son because he was mentally handicapped, but accepted this fact, educated Him in a way that Forrest Gump could understand, and made Forrest Gump understand a lot of truths. All of this became the driving force for Forrest Gump's great success in the future. Such parents are really great.
Chinese parents, you always feel that your children are not angry. I want to ask you, how many of you are as enlightened as Forrest Gump's mother? If all of you could do what Forrest Gump did, would you still have to worry about your child bear?
Chinese parents, I hope you will learn from forrest Gump's mother's approach to education. This does not mean that your child has high achievements, at least he will not live so badly.