Although it is now open to the second and third births, for various reasons, many women do not want to have so many children. For many couples, they feel that it is enough to have one child, and it is no longer the time to have a son and pass on the generations. Regardless of boys and girls, it is enough to have one child in their own family, and they do not want more children. It is just that the opposite is that women are typical of "easy to conceive", all relying on these "good pregnancy" habits to bless, but more attention to contraception.
"Fertile physique" is well understood, that is, the female body is the type of person who is easy to get pregnant. In general, women who have an infertile constitution have many of the same characteristics. The basic age of these women is between 25 and 35 years old, which is not understandable. This is also the best time for pregnancy in medicine, and the human body is going downhill with time. The age of 25-35 is the best age to conceive life, and the female body is also in the best condition.
Many people say that 35 years old is understandable, which is also what doctors often say about advanced maternal age. Why after the age of 25, before the age of 25? This can be analyzed from both physical and psychological aspects. Physiologically, a woman's body is not yet mature and not very suitable for having children. Psychologically speaking, women at this time have just graduated from school and are not yet able to take on the responsibility of being mothers.
In addition to this characteristic of age specificity, weight is also an aspect, and people who are not fat or thin are more likely to get pregnant. If the weight is light, the situation is divided into two kinds, how to eat not fat, it may be a problem with body absorption, these women will basically have anemia and malnutrition. There is also a case where the body fat rate is too low, so it will affect the level of hormones in the body. In this way, women generally do not ovulate normally, so it is not easy to get pregnant.
If women are overweight, they themselves belong to a sub-healthy state. The body is an endocrine disorder, which can also affect pregnancy. Even if pregnant, it is easy to have high incidence of high blood pressure and diabetes. Therefore, maintaining a standard weight is also good for pregnancy.
The uterus is a very important organ for women, and of course it is also the organ that conceives the baby. The maintenance of the uterus depends on the menstruation of the female friend. Usually, the uterus will be healthier in women with regular menstruation. Menstrual regularity can also accurately speculate about the ovulation period, so that the chance of pregnancy is greater.
Although many women are prone to pregnancy, they still do not want to have a second child, which is caused by many factors. This era is different from the past era, especially now that many parents are post-80s.90, they feel that raising a child is more important than having a few more. It is not easy to raise a child now, not only to feed him and clothe him, but also to let him read more books and go to a good university, in addition, cultivating more hobbies is also the focus.
Even though the economic conditions are much better now than in the past, and family incomes are increasing, it is not so easy to raise two children. Milk powder, diapers are not wet, daily necessities are not a small expense, coupled with the money to cultivate hobbies, so that many parents have no way to consider the second child.
If a baby is a daughter, it is okay to cultivate it well. If you are a boy, you have more to consider. After all, many boys can't marry a lot of wives because of the dowry problem, although it is a bit long-term for parents to consider this problem now, but the raising of children is one hundred years old, and the long-term worry is ninety-nine. As a parent, there is no way not to think more about your child.
In fact, having a second child also has the benefit of having a second child. The simplest reason is to give Dabao a companion. Many families, Dabao is spoiled, and his personality is very selfish. When the family had the second treasure, Dabao instead had the sense of responsibility of being an older brother and sister, and began to protect his younger brothers and sisters. This is also a good thing for Dabao's character.
Now many post-80s and post-90s face problems in middle age, that is, four elderly people, and one child below. The pressure of the elderly is very large, not only economically, but also energetically. They don't want their children to face the same problems in the future. The birth of the second treasure can also reduce the pressure of Dabao's pension, and his future pension life is also easier.
Regardless of whether the family wants to have a second treasure or not, it is a joint decision of the husband and wife. If you do not want the second treasure, and you are pregnant, you must do a good job of contraception. After all, miscarriage is also a kind of harm to the mother's body, and it is also sorry for the baby with the stomach. There are also many types of contraception, and couples can also choose according to the actual situation.
If you decide to have a second treasure, you must take on the responsibility of parents and accompany your baby to grow up. For the big treasure and the second treasure, a bowl of water is flat, there is no excessive coddling, and the family relationship is coordinated, so as to make the family life more satisfactory.