In the outpatient clinic of the hospital, I can always see all kinds of patients and hear all kinds of problems. They were either in a hurry or with a bleak face, some of whom were grumpy like a barrel of explosives, one point at a time, completely impatient; some had already run to many hospitals and seen N doctors before they came. Some people have taken many detours on their way to the clinic. Many patients have a greater problem in the mentality, in the face of infertility, what kind of mentality should you have, how to face your own condition?
Many couples mostly have the following two mentalities during the infertility stage, so that they constantly delay the timing of good pregnancy, miss the best treatment time and childbearing age, and eventually wear out their patience, resulting in the tragedy of emotional breakdown.
First, infertility is the most likely to derive the two mentalities
The first: fear of trouble
The psychological state of such people in real life is "fear, fear of trouble, escape, dare not face", can not expose the disease in front of doctors, friends as far as possible to hide, privately try a variety of "earthwork" and "ancestral secret recipes", etc., and the final development is often not effective, but also delayed the time for treatment!
The second type: partial listening and partial belief
The psychological state of such people is "nervousness, anxiety, fear", often holding, hearing what is what, what can be tried mentality, more sensitive to external factors, impatient for treatment, feel that there is no effect on the immediate change of doctor, large and small hospitals ran a lot, over-examination, over-treatment is very common.
Second, we cannot be in a hurry, let alone rush to the hospital
As we all know, there are many causes of infertility, but also very complex, often caused by various diseases of the reproductive system, coupled with the fast pace of modern life, stress, late marriage and late childbearing, abortion, environmental pollution and other factors, the incidence of infertility is increasing. Infertile families must choose a regular and qualified reproductive specialist hospital for examination and treatment, adjust their mentality, believe that doctors also believe in themselves, find out the real symptoms of the right medicine for fertility treatment, believe that good pregnancy is waiting for you not far away!
Third, pay attention to the following points, I hope to help you
1 Do not rush to achieve results
Treatment of infertility is a tedious and complicated process, in the treatment process to communicate with the doctor more, do not rush, frequent changes of doctors will sometimes only backfire.
2 Don't "force yourself to be" a doctor
Recognize your role, believe in the doctor, give everything to the doctor, and don't "force" yourself to become a doctor.
3 Do not take it out of context
Medicine is a practical science, and if it is not applied mechanically in connection with its own situation, it will not be fast, and it is easy to make the mistake of "talking on paper".
4 Avoid overcorrection
Overcorrection is another mistake that infertile patients are prone to make, focusing all their attention on their own condition, and being too nervous is not conducive to pregnancy.
5 Communication and cooperation between husband and wife is very important
Don't blame the woman for the problem, when screening for the cause of infertility, men should take the initiative to cooperate with some tests. No matter which side of the problem, we must understand each other, encourage each other, and face the problem with a positive attitude.