Yesterday, Xiaobian released an article about restructuring the family, what is the most rare? That is the mutual trust between husband and wife.
Today, let's talk about the situation of the children in the restructured family.
Of course, if you reorganize the family and neither party has children, it is the best.
But, the point is, what about children in the restructured family? For example, if the man who reorganizes the family has a daughter, maybe the Internet will call this kind of child a drag oil bottle, but I don't like this title. After all, the child is their own birth, from childhood to adulthood, as a parent, no matter how bad, do not dislike their children are dragging oil bottles, people with this view, is not a qualified parent.
When I was a child, I heard a song:, the name is called: Beautiful Xishuangbanna, can't keep my dad. Shanghai is so big, there is no home for me, a home for my father, a home for my mother, and the rest of myself, as if it is superfluous... The lyrics are sad and sing the voice of a child. Don't cry, my dear little child.
Then on, the divorced man has a daughter and later finds the other half, remarried this kind of remarriage family. As children in this family, girls or boys. Will be more sensitive than children of the same age, mature earlier, more sensible.
This kind of child, perhaps some children of the original family, will envy them to have two fathers and two mothers, many people love, many people buy toys.
Although they will act more like a little adult on the surface, in fact, there is a trauma in their hearts. It was an untouchable pain in the heart. Maybe they will hide in the bed late at night and secretly wipe their tears, missing the home they once had and the parents who loved him the most. Of course, Xiaobian is not saying that the parents who reorganize the family do not love their children.
Finally, whatever.
Every child deserves to be guarded, they are angels who come to this earth and bring us hope and happiness. May every child be loved by their parents and may they all thrive!