Before this, many people paid attention to the difference between women who have not yet given birth to children and women who have given birth, few people have paid attention to, in fact, there are no small differences between women who have given birth, especially the first and second mothers, but many times they are ignored by everyone.
Case: The first-born mother and the second-child mother stand together, and the difference is seen by the elderly at a glance
Ms. Zhang took her children to bask in the sun downstairs of the community two days ago, because the weather is better, so many people are downstairs basking in the sun for warmth. We live in the same neighborhood, so we all have a lot of topics, not to mention that we are all with children.
At that time, Ms. Zhang also had a mother with a child next to her, and her age looked about the same age as her. During this time, an old man suddenly asked, "You should be the second child." As soon as this sentence came out, the mother felt very surprised, "How do you know?" ”
The old man smiled and said, "I also know that this precious mother next to you has just given birth to this first one." "At this time, it is Ms. Zhang. Ms. Zhang and the mother both felt incredible, and then the old man explained, "I see people a lot, and I usually like to observe these, so I like to verify my ideas when there is nothing to do, and later I found that eight or nine are not far from ten." ”
This next lady Zhang was more curious, and the old man continued, "The size of your two crotches is different, and the degree of sagging of your chest is not a small difference, just these two points, you can guess a rough idea." Later, Ms. Zhang made a comparison with the mother, and found that it was really the same thing, and it seemed that the body was the least likely to lie.
01 The characteristics of these three parts of the body are more obvious than those of the first mother, and it is difficult to hide
Now many women will choose to have a second child, may feel that anyway, after giving birth to a child, there is no difference in having another one, but in fact, the difference between a mother and a mother of a second child is still quite large.
First of all, take the crotch as an example, if the mothers carefully compare, they will find that there are many second-child mothers whose crotches are wider than those of the first-born mother, mainly because after the second-child mother has experienced a childbirth, when the second child is delivered, the crotch will open again, and at this time, the elasticity of the muscle groups near the crotch and the ligaments will still change, resulting in the crotch becoming wider.
A friend of mine is like this, because she has always been more concerned about her body, so after giving birth to a child, she also went to do postpartum rehabilitation, afraid that the gap between the crotch and the pre-pregnancy is too large. Later, after rehabilitation training, even if I recovered a lot, there was still a gap.
However, after that, she gave birth to a second child, and when she first gave birth to her second child, her crotch was larger than that of the first child, and she thought that as long as the postpartum recovery was done well, she could still recover. But who knows, it may be that after two pregnancies, even if the friend spent double the recovery time, he could not recover to the effect of a child after childbirth, and the dimension of the crotch was about two centimeters larger than that of a child after childbirth, which really made her feel heartbroken.
Therefore, in view of this, I also hope that the second-born mothers should also pay attention to more rehabilitation training after childbirth, you know, even if they have second-child mothers who have postpartum rehabilitation training, the crotch changes are more obvious, not to mention those who do not do rehabilitation training, I am afraid it will be more obvious. Of course, there are also some mothers who recover better because of the difference in personal physique, but they still hope to do a good job of postpartum rehabilitation training, otherwise if they wait for the crotch pelvis to recover on their own, the effect is minimal for most mothers.
Secondly, there is the female breast, after the mothers give birth to the first child, the chest will occur more obvious sagging state. After giving birth to the second child, in fact, the chest will undergo more obvious changes, mainly because after the re-pregnancy, as well as the postpartum lactation period, will make the second child's mother's chest become larger, and after the end of the second child's lactation period, the chest will shrink again, and the degree of change is more obvious than that of the first child, which also leads to a more obvious degree of sagging.
Of course, because there is now a support and protection effect of underwear, it is almost impossible to see any difference, but only the mothers themselves can understand that in fact, the changes are not small.
In addition, there is a change in the body part of the second child mother than the first child mother, that is, the trapezius muscle part, careful comparison will find that the second child mother because of the long-term baby, coupled with the pressure of the two children, resulting in the trapezius muscle long-term effect, so it will become thicker, larger, the whole person also appears more old. But this part is still relatively controllable, as long as the mother pays more attention to the posture and other aspects in the process of taking the baby, it is still easy to correct, but the fact is that it is difficult for the mother to pay attention to these details, after all, the baby is already hard enough, how can you care about these?
Conclusion: Although for the second-born mother, the changes in these parts of the body are obvious, as long as the baby is healthy, in fact, the mothers also feel worthwhile.