Every female teacher is a messenger of love scattered across the world, they have their own families, but they focus on more families; they have children of their own, but they often focus on other people's children.
Today, we want to share with you the stories of four female teachers of Juncheng School, taking you into the real world of teachers and children.
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Be a soul-interesting teacher and mom
Text: Jiang Li
I am Juncheng's teacher, and I am also a mother of two children. Facing my students and daughters, I also face the same problem for many working mothers: how to balance career and family.
It seems to me that mothers who work as teachers can enjoy the benefits of this dual identity. The most harmonious moment with my 10-year-old daughter is to share the interesting stories of the students in our class with her, and this kind of behavior and story with her children of the same age can make her resonate, trigger her thinking, and make her more willing to open up with me; similarly, in the daily relationship and observation with my daughter, I also more keenly capture the characteristics of children of this age, so that I can communicate with my students from an equal point of view. So my dual identity is not addition, but growth together.
My eldest daughter and I love watching crosstalk very much, not only because the language art of crosstalk can bring us joy, but in my opinion: good looks are the same, interesting souls are one and the same. So I set up a cross-talk club, aimed at some of the treasure boys in the class, and took them together to create and perform. The humorous nature of the treasure boys was constantly excavated and amplified in the paradise of the cross-talk club, and we created a lot of fine cross-talk together, which not only appeared on the large-scale Winter Show and video number of the school every year, but also took them to tour the classes regularly, and gained a group of small fans.
Crosstalk not only stimulates children's interest in language arts, but also stimulates their humorous cells and creative passion, and we have also achieved a relationship of mentorship and friendship. We can laugh at each other, talk to each other, laugh.
There is no student who does not like a fun class, an interesting teacher. "Delicious" teacher, is the honorific name given to me by our classmate Zhang Hebao, which comes from a study by Zhang Hebao last semester, "My Teacher": "Teacher Jiang not only makes us 'delicious' in taste, but also makes me feel delicious visually and audibly. Receiving this beautiful name, the teacher is naturally overjoyed.
In my opinion, the Chinese class should be very "delicious", it is the sweet osmanthus fragrance in "Osmanthus Rain", and it is also the warm memory in "Grandfather's Garden", and how to exude these flowing emotional aromas in the classroom is what each of us language teachers needs to practice.
The two identities of teacher and mother brought me a very high happiness index, and I laughed and grew up with them all the time. If the mother's attitude to life is the key factor affecting the growth of children, then the teacher's attitude to life and understanding of life subtly affect a group of students. Wandering between the dual identities of mother and teacher, I enjoyed and was happy. I hope I don't forget my original intention and always keep that interesting soul.
Build a bridge for children's growth with love
Text: Hu Chaoju
Sweet Classmate is a quiet little girl, she always quietly does her own thing, whether in class or after class. In the first week of the new semester, she was called by me to read pinyin by her name, and her voice was very small, although it was not far from me, I did not even hear her voice. But I still praised her for reading accurately and encouraged her to make a louder voice next time.
Sometimes she is afraid that she will not answer correctly, and she often wants to stop talking, at this time I will encourage her in time. After a period of time, Sweetie became more and more confident in class. During recess, they also take the initiative to chat with me and share interesting things about what happened on the weekend.
One morning, When Xiao Tiantian arrived at school, she told me that she had brought an interesting Chinese book today, so I took the opportunity to encourage her to read it well and read it to the students in the reading class... I remember that in the reading class that week, Xiao Tiantian, who had prepared the story in advance, was the first to raise her hand to share the story, and when I sent her photos of reading the story to her mother, her mother was very surprised and said that she couldn't believe that she took the initiative to stand up and share it.
With confidence in her studies, her writing has improved a lot. There are also more and more friends. At the beginning of the second semester, Sweetie's mother sent a message saying: I heard Sweetie say that she is the leader of one of the groups in the art class, is she competing for it herself? I immediately confirmed with the art teacher that it was indeed the child who was competing for the job himself. Hearing the teacher's confirmation, the mother sighed: The child once again gave me a surprise, the progress is too great!
In fact, I would like to say that the growth and breakthrough of children need our timely guidance, and everything can come to fruition. Every child is like a flower, with its own flowering period, so the method of education must also be different. But no matter what the method, it is inseparable from the nourishment of love, which is always the essence of education. This is also inseparable from the concept of a school and the cultural atmosphere of a class.
Lucy is my best partner
Text: Zhou Henan
Daughter Lucy attends kindergarten at Juncheng School, and her first time she participated in the exhibition was at the age of 4.5, and the exhibition venue was at the Mumu Art Museum. As a high school art teacher at Juncheng School, I took this opportunity to help her open the way to creation.
Lucy is a good observer, doing anything first, seeing it, and then slowly integrating and participating. Out of stereotypes and habits, many people say bluntly that she is shy. Afterwards, I told my child that you just had to adapt at your own pace. Integration is fast and slow, but there is no good or bad distinction, so it cannot be compared or conclusive.
Lucy has a great talent for painting. Usually, as long as she has fun, she will sit down and draw quietly. Content involves animated characters and out-of-town activities. She finished drawing them one by one and told me them one by one, so she saved a lot of sketches and semi-finished products. Recording and expressing is her main purpose, and it does not matter whether it is colored or not, whether it is finished.
The exhibition at the Mumu Museum of Art, I say that I care about my heart. I hope that my daughter will actively participate and eventually gain a sense of accomplishment in her mental and physical efforts. Because of this, I had more communication and discussion with her during the whole process.
For the smooth participation in the exhibition, we prepared our works for four consecutive nights.
Before I started, I asked her if it would be okay for us to participate in the exhibition together. She thought about it and said yes.
Is it good to use the largest drawing board in the house? Why, she asked?
I said that I could put all the previous sketches on it, which would be very shocking. She said okay.
After drawing a third, she asked her mother if you could paint for me? I said it was your own work, to be done independently.
Halfway through the painting, she asked her mother if I could paint it for you? I said it was my work, so I had to do it myself.
In the meantime, she experimented with various materials. Seeing that she was getting better, I put on the music and began to touch the fish.
"Mom, you can't be lazy, draw quickly." She finally concentrated and did not lift her head.
During the public welfare session of the exhibition, the curator asked if he agreed to donate the child's work.
I told Lucy what a donation was, and told her that she couldn't get it back after donating, so I had to think about whether I wanted to.
She said, give it to them, I can paint again.
I said are you sure? This painting is the first time you have painted such a big painting, and it has been framed, and you will not be able to see it again.
She said it didn't matter, OK.
From the preparation to the opening, to the photography and visit, the exhibition was very smooth and successful.
The reason for the review is that I regard my child as the best partner and partner.
She felt her importance through communication and naturally showed a mature and stable side.
Sometimes, treating a child can be thought of as a good friend or colleague of his/her own. With respect and cooperation in the hearts of parents, the response of their children will be more exciting. Children are always the best gifts, may the goddesses grow up happily together!
My theory of educational practice of "young and young"
Text: Fan Jing
"The old and the old, the young and the young." I have always believed in this sentence, and I believe that only when a person first cares about his own relatives can he push himself and others and truly care for others.
As a middle school teacher, I am over 30 years old and have a more or less "generation gap" with my students. But because of having children, sometimes they accidentally "connect" the era of students and enter their world.
I remember taking over a new class once, and I was not familiar with the classmates at first. Later, one of the students in the class hummed the theme song of Super Flying Man, and to my surprise, many people in the class hummed the song to the melody, and finally turned into a loud class chorus. I asked these children curiously, how could they be so familiar with this song? They said that because there are younger siblings in the family who love to watch these cartoons. I said my kids like it too. The students immediately got excited and asked how old my child was and how he usually behaved... So I unexpectedly had a common topic with my students.
On the other hand, being a teacher also brings many benefits to my children.
For example, sometimes I would go home and grade the exam papers, unable to accompany my children at the same time. The children walked around me, trying to talk to me from time to time. I thought, why don't you let the child do me a favor and calculate the score of the test paper? At that time, the eldest was in the first grade, so he was very serious about helping me sum up the scores on the roll. Although in the end he only counted the scores of a few papers, I think it was a very good exercise for the child – giving him a real situation of applying mathematical knowledge.
There are many more benefits to children as a teacher. For example, I often prepare lessons at home. Therefore, children know very early on that the teacher's job is not only 40 minutes in class, but also a lot of preparation before class, so they must cherish every minute and second of class.
They also know that teachers work very hard. Sometimes at the end of the day, my throat hurt so much that I couldn't speak. So don't be mischievous, the teacher should listen to it once. To care for and love the teacher, just like to care for and love the mother.
There are also too many benefits.
For example, because I am also a parent, I can understand some things from the perspective of a parent.
When the teacher assigns daily homework, but the child really does not have time to complete, I understand why some carefully designed homework is not executed; when the national online class, I am at home while watching the two babies online class at home. It's so sour that it's unforgettable!
Therefore, when I communicate with my parents, I will understand them more, and I have felt their "inability" and "powerlessness".
"The old and the old, the young and the young." Living in a country with such a beautiful tradition, I am truly grateful, and I am extremely grateful to have such a job and such an identity for me.
On the occasion of Women's Day, I wish all moms, especially those with dual identities, happiness and happiness!