I believe that many parents have such an experience, the baby will suddenly repel some people, and even see them suddenly cry.
This makes many elders do not understand, and sometimes reprimand the baby, but as a parent, you must know the reason.
After giving birth to the baby, Xiao Li happened to catch up with the cold winter, so she almost never took the baby out.
Recently, it was the spring of March, and Xiao Li decided to take the baby to the community every afternoon for a walk.
On this day, Xiao Li held the baby in the community's fitness equipment to play, and Grandma Wang, who used to meet often, just came over, she had never seen Xiao Li's baby, so she approached those who were ready to tease the baby to play.
Xiao Li and Grandma Wang are very familiar, and naturally they hold the baby and greet them.
Unexpectedly, the baby who was still laughing with his mother just now suddenly cried, which made Xiao Li unclear, so he felt very embarrassed.
Grandma Wang did not force the baby to see the situation, but just said a few words to Xiao Li, and then muttered a few words "Is it that I have bad luck recently" and left.
After finding out that Grandma Wang was gone, the baby who was still crying just now stopped crying, and then Xiao Li knew that the baby was afraid of Grandma Wang, so he would cry.
Many elders are not clear, but the parents' psychology should be counted, and the baby's crying is not superstition, but in the recognition period.
Why is this sometimes happening to babies?
1. Normal admission period
After the baby grows to a certain stage, there will be a recognition period, and the baby at this stage will not reach out and pounce on it as long as someone wants to hold it as before, but will twist the body and lean tighter on the mother's body, but there is a posture of not being close to the living.
At this time, they can only show their fear by crying, because they like to stay in a familiar environment and play with familiar people.
Once their small territory has some people that they don't usually come into contact with, the baby subconsciously feels that he is in danger.
2. Highly sensitive period
Although babies are very young, they also have their own judgment and observation, and sometimes more comprehensive than their parents.
For example, many adults are easy to ignore the changes in the external environment, including the level of temperature, the good and evil of people's expressions, the baby will look in the eyes.
Therefore, when babies are exposed to people and things from the outside world, sometimes because their sensitivity is too high, resulting in them being more susceptible to the influence of the external environment.
So they see someone suddenly crying, maybe just because the other person makes them feel uncomfortable.
3. Discern between beauty and ugliness
Generally speaking, the events of babies at a young age are very vague, and even if people get closer, it is difficult for them to clearly see people's faces.
But even so, babies can react differently to people with different looks through blurred vision.
Those who are young and beautiful will respect the baby's welcome, and those with exquisite facial features will be more likely to be liked by the baby.
On the contrary, those who are older will cause the baby to feel repulsive due to the increase in facial wrinkles and the obvious sagging of eye bags.
So even if the baby doesn't understand anything, subconsciously he still likes beautiful things, or looks at people.
They will show kindness to the person they like, but at the same time they will cry because they reject someone, which is actually a normal reaction.
As a parent, you should help your baby to pass through the birth period as smoothly as possible, and encourage your baby to contact and play with others.
In this way, the baby's adaptability will be enhanced, and naturally it will be able to avoid the sudden crying of strangers to a certain extent.