Recently, a father was on social media
Uploaded a video
In the video
My 4-year-old daughter is flipping through books
Suddenly to him
"Dad, I want to be a cleaner in the future."
The father was slightly stunned
Ask your daughter why?
Daughter replied
"Because, the cleaner can sweep the floor,
Doing so will make our planet cleaner. ”
Father asked again
"Then if you want to be a cleaner,
What are you going to do now? ”
The daughter answered
"First do it yourself to love clean,
in order to sweep the floor. ”
So the father told his daughter
Be diligent as a cleaner
"So you have to get into the habit of hard work now."
This video has aroused heated discussion among netizens
The father said
The eldest daughter was reading one
A picture book about environmental protection
"A while ago the kindergarten taught garbage sorting,
She's very serious about learning,
Every day when I came home, I was supervised to sort my garbage. ”
He confessed that he heard his daughter say she wanted to work as a cleaner
It was really "stunned"
"I was thinking, how to reply to her,
Just follow the original method,
Whatever career she wants to pursue,
I'm leading her to think,
What kind of traits need to be cultivated. ”
He said that his educational philosophy is,
I hope that the child is healthy and has a sound personality
"To be a value to oneself,
People who are valuable to society. ”
01
Children's ideas are always more "whimsical" than adults
Table tennis player Deng Yaping
While participating in a variety show
Revealed that his son once liked to play games
And want to become a professional esports player
She expressed respect for the child's ideas
He also visited two top clubs for his son
This matter was also once on the Weibo hot search
Deng Yaping said
Like all teenagers
My son also really enjoys playing games
Hence the idea of playing esports
As a mom
Deng Yaping not only did not object
On the contrary, it is very supportive
Deng Yaping said that she has great respect for every sports person
"Even if there is a certain misunderstanding of esports,
But as a supplement to traditional sports,
Esports players
It also exudes a strong sportsmanship.
I said to the child,
Indeed, if you are interested in esports,
You can try it.
World champion in esports
No different from the table tennis world champion,
They are all the pinnacle of their respective sports in the field of sports. ”
To this end, she went to two e-sports clubs
Help the child to understand more
Professional training, daily routine
It's not easy to experience professional players first-hand
I believe that many teenagers with e-sports dreams
I hope to have the same parents
However, the result was unexpected
Even if it's already in a game
Won the first place in Beijing
But the son still fought back
Because he heard
Esports trains 12 hours a day
This amount of training is even greater than playing table tennis
Deng Yaping's parenting style
Let many netizens like
Everyone thinks so
Professional esports is not as good as it seems to outsiders
The road is still very difficult
02
What do you want to do when you grow up
This is a problem that every child will face
You don't know about everyday life
Which scene which detail
It will leave a deep impression on the child's heart
Thus sowing the seeds of a career dream
Help your child establish the right professional values
It has also become a "compulsory course" for parents.
1 Correct career outlook can help children establish correct career cognition.
2 The correct concept of occupation can make children consciously match their interests with occupations and lay the foundation for entering society.
3 The correct concept of occupation can enable children to understand society, contact a variety of occupations, conduct experiential learning, improve the ability to find problems and solve problems, and better adapt to society.
When we show our children all walks of life
Don't add subjective assumptions
In recent years
There are many college graduates who choose
A different major and a different job than the one you have studied before
Some go home and farm
Some sell pork
Some go to deliver couriers
Some people on the Internet have commented on the violent nature of the object
The state spends so many resources
Parents spend so much effort
This practice is eye-catching
Brush traffic, do not do the right thing
But is it really not doing the right thing?
Of course not
These good kids tend to have more diverse ideas
Rich in creativity
Brings a lot of different things from the original industry
Even many outstanding graduates who returned home
Lead the villagers to live a richer life
Maybe in the eyes of others
They don't make as much money as they do in the metropolis
The status is also not as high as in some industries
But no matter how much money with status
None of them can be compared to what they want to do
We should tell the child
Don't steal, don't grab
Work with your own hands
All labor that contributes to the progress of society
Should all be respected
All are glorious and noble
Whether it's physical or mental work
They are all contributing to the progress and development of mankind
Children in the process of learning about various professions
I also learned the meaning of these professions
It is with the help of all walks of life
We can live a better life
03
When a child says he wants to pursue a certain profession
How do I respond?
In fact, two basic principles can be grasped:
1 Respect the child's ideas and agree with any reason he has;
2 Homeopathic guidance and inspiration, through the form of questions, to help children more comprehensive and deeper understanding and understand the characteristics of this position.
Just like the father mentioned above
Let the child know the advantages of the cleaner profession
And transformed into a good character in the current life
For example, responsibility, persistence, diligence, hard-working
Empathy, respect for the fruits of other people's labor, and so on
Don't easily set limits for your child
Tell them about their career aspirations
Let them "have a choice"
This is an important thing
When children say what they want to do
It doesn't have to be really such a professional person
Children's eyes on the world are one-sided
They don't know the sociality behind the profession
But we adults can do it
Give information and guidance
By relieving the children's expressed needs
Take them to find their true dreams
Never subconsciously let children know
Whether a certain job is a good job
And don't laugh at it
Every job deserves a tribute
Every hard worker
All need to be encouraged
For example, when you meet sanitation workers
Tell your child about their hard work
Get up early every day and get dark
It is to let everyone have a clean environment
For example, I came across a mall salesman
Make your child polite
Tell her aunt is hard
To serve every customer with enthusiasm
Also tidy up the goods
Ensure the safety and hygiene of goods
For example, when you meet a teacher
Tell your child to understand the hardships of the teacher
Every day when you show up in the classroom
The teacher has arrived
When you go
The teacher has not gone
When you rest
The teacher did not rest either
So many students in the class
Every teacher has to be guarded and taken care of
The child's life belongs to himself
His happiness is in his own hands
Whatever they want to do
No matter how ridiculous their dreams sound
Please don't be in a hurry to hit him, reprimand him, or teach him
It is good to respect and choose those who are good and guide them
As for the rest, leave it to time and himself
Let the child have the correct understanding
One profession, one job, one post
And tell them honestly
What are the pros and cons of the "profession" you want to pursue
How to become the "person" you want to be
That's what we should do
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Some of the materials in this article are synthesized from Xiaoxiang Morning News, News Morning News, Love Toddlers, Jing'er Zhizi Academy, DeepIn parenting, Qian Zhiliang Studio, etc
Edit: Joe Belle
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