After pregnancy, large and small need to go through many obstetric examinations, the purpose is to check whether the development of the fetus in the mother's body is normal, and the most concerned issue in the development of the fetus is whether there is a deformity, after all, the deformed child is a heavy blow to both the child itself and the family.
Chunxiao, who lives in Shandong, has been working since she got married, even if she is pregnant, she has not stopped, her job is to be a sorter at the express station, usually it is more difficult, her husband and mother-in-law have always let her not do it and she does not listen.
After five months of pregnancy to do a teratology test, the report shows that the child has hydrocephalus, the doctor and the Chunxiao family said that this situation does not rule out that it will be slowly absorbed back to normal, it may also last until birth, the child is a problem, let them consider the child's whereabouts.
When she returned home, her mother-in-law thought about it in pieces, saying that it was because Chunxiao's usual work was too hard that led to this situation, so she gave up this fetus, in case she gave birth to an abnormal child in the future. Chunxiao, who was already worried, became angry when she heard her mother-in-law say such a thing, she angrily rebuked her mother-in-law for not valuing life, and said that she herself felt the growth of the baby in her belly day by day, which said that she could give up! The doctor said that he might return to normal, and even if it was not normal in the future, she would raise the child for a lifetime.
After the two argued, Chunxiao decided to give birth to the child, although the later pregnancy period was spent in fear and worry, but fortunately the child was born healthy and normal, out of the delivery room Chunxiao husband lay on Chunxiao's ear and cried bitterly, the mother-in-law also cried on the side, and the family's pressure has finally been put down. It's just that Chunxiao's attitude towards her mother-in-law has changed, she still can't forgive her mother-in-law for letting her give up this child in the first place, she doesn't dare to think about how sad and heart-wrenching she would have been if she really gave up her future life!
In fact, the results of the obstetric examination do have a certain degree of uncertainty, and there will indeed be such a situation as Chunxiao, the fetus found a little problem in the initial examination, but it may slowly return to normal, but it is also true that some fetuses will clearly have relevant deformities, so it really needs to be carefully considered by pregnant mothers, so from a certain point of view, Chunxiao's mother-in-law's approach is not wrong, because the birth of a deformed child is a very large burden on a family.
I have been paying attention to a family around me, their children after birth due to congenital diseases caused by a large degree of intellectual and mobility are largely limited, on weekdays need to be fully cared for, food, clothing, housing and toilets need to accompany, but also a fixed time for rehabilitation training, these are hard enough, but in addition to these children to get sick to beat people, a boy nearly one meter eight punched and kicked a thin mother who was only one meter six, want to punch and kick not only physical pain, want to punch and kick bring more than just physical pain, Psychological trauma is the most unbearable! The son he raised himself violently inflicted violence on himself, but this behavior was completely uncontrollable, heartache and heartache were intertwined, and the psychological pressure of the parents of the problem children was unimaginable to ordinary people.
In addition to psychological and physical pressure, raising deformed children also requires a family to bear a very large financial burden, rehabilitation training needs money, treatment needs money, for those deformed children with physical defects need to undergo several plastic surgeries in a lifetime, even if it is to go out to school, some schools for special groups of children are much more expensive than ordinary schools. And the birth of a deformed child is very likely to require parents to bear their life, so these parents will desperately earn money, and it is really not easy to consider the future life without them for the child.
Not only that, but the pressure that deformed children themselves have to bear is no less than the pressure he brings to the family, after all, their "difference" from most people will make them always seem "out of place" in this similar environment.
We do not rule out that some problem children have their own outstanding talents and can stand proudly in the world, but many problem children are tired of themselves and cannot live on their own, they can only endure the pain caused by their bodies helplessly, and helplessly watch the people around them being dragged down by themselves. And those children with intellectual disabilities are even more pitiful, they don't even know who they are, what they live for, and can only spend their lives in confusion.
And the curiosity that everyone has will also become a weapon to seriously injure these problems, when they go out to be treated differently by others, attacked by the language of others, in fact, their hearts are not extremely painful, because the physical defects are not their own choices, they can not get rid of them from birth, which will make them more and more inferior and even depressed.
Obstetric examination during pregnancy is a very necessary means of fetal protection, and the family's hesitation about leaving the fetus when the problem is found is understandable, after all, the hardships that these winged angels may experience in the human world are worth careful consideration.