As the old saying goes, "There is an old family, if there is a treasure", the recent hit "Old Girlfriend" has vividly interpreted several living conditions of the elderly.
Erin, a fashion model teacher whose son lives alone abroad; Aunt Mei, who sends black haired people and runs a café to live a "difficult" life; Dr. Liu, who is shrewd and capable, clean and controlling; Red Sister, who is big grinning, enthusiastic and straightforward; Song Lina, who has a large nerve and loves to spoil.
Of these, Irene was the brightest one to look at. Fashionably dressed and noble, he is a teacher of the model team and is very popular and respected.
But privately, when you go out, you have to wear diapers. The sons were abroad and had not seen each other once in a few years. The son got married, because Irene had a physical problem, so he couldn't go, the son didn't care, and the phone hung up before he finished.
Such a life, heartache can only be experienced by Irene herself.
Just like the elderly living alone in reality, the children are out of town, the elderly are not used to the rhythm of the city, they can only be at home, and they can only carry their own illness.
Aunt Mei, her son died unexpectedly while working as a volunteer teacher. Leave her alone in the café, superficially looking giggly, for everyone who comes to the store intimate service, seeing unfair things will come out.
But the wounds in her heart could only be healed by herself in the dead of night.
Dr. Liu, a retired doctor, should be the most passionate one in life. The profession of a doctor makes her too demanding of life, and every aspect must be perfect, and there can be no mistakes.
Not only demanding herself, but also asking others to do what she wanted, and neither the nanny nor her son could stand her control.
Like a strong mother in life, asking her son and daughter-in-law to come according to her standards and listen to her arrangements, a little out of her mind, the family is a chicken flying dog jumping.
If in the later plot, Dr. Liu can think of opening up and no longer interfere in too many children's affairs, then she is really a treasure with a kind heart.
Red sister, like ordinary mothers, loves to nag and urge marriage, but she is the most grounded one.
When you are happy, the child is a treasure, and when you are unhappy, it is a pump. Soft-hearted, easily deceived; upright, can't see others being bullied.
Red sister belongs to people who do not have too many hearts and eyes, and can reflect on themselves, and her husband and children are also obedient, which is a very happy one. Like Hongjie, even if she becomes a mother-in-law in the future, she should not get along too badly with her daughter-in-law.
Song Lina, with the mentality of a little princess, mobile phone cases are cute types, when encountering any trouble, she will call her girlfriend, and her speech is also delicate.
"A woman who will be spoiled is the best life", Song Lina is like this, always giving people a soft and weak feeling, speaking is not hurried or slow, making people want to get angry and can't get up.
She was the happiest of several people, the kind of person who was spoiled at home, but it was rare in life. Women in life at this age, generally live to become "Iron Man".
"Old age is dependent", being able to spend the old age with children and spending the old age happily is the most ideal way for the elderly to provide for the elderly, but seemingly simple things are not easy to do.
Generations living together have different concepts and different lifestyles. This is the fuse that causes contradictions, and when you meet a strong person, the family is really in hot water.
Therefore, if you want to live a stable old age, you must first have a good attitude. Live with your children, don't care about things that shouldn't be taken care of, and don't care about things that can be laughed at and laugh. The mood is better, the body is better, and there are fewer things at home.
If you really don't want to live with the children, you must take good care of your body, try not to live too far away from the children, in case something happens, the children can take care of it in time.
After a lifetime of hard work, I hope to live the rest of my life in peace and stability in old age. So don't look at how others live, according to the situation in your own home, choose the most important thing that suits you.