Fate needs to be fulfilled.
In the red dust, two people have the opportunity to meet, which is only the first step in love.
When you meet a person with a white head, choose a city to grow old.
Love makes people look forward to it, but it is easy to meet and difficult to get along with. In the following time, the two sides can continue to love each other as lovers, which is the biggest challenge for many people.
After becoming a couple, how should everyone manage love?
Before encountering love, we always thought that if two people were true love, they would be able to pass the verification of time.
After going around in love, friends will realize that if you want to complete love, it is not enough to rely on sincerity, but also need everyone to have the skills of love and understand each other's needs, so that they can pass the hurdles in time and successfully protect love.
Blindly paying, can not grasp the love.
In love, women have a sacrificial spirit.
After meeting a boy you like and completely accepting each other, many girls will complete love at any cost.
The bravest thing a woman has ever done is to cross the sea of people and come to the side of her lover.
This sentence is often the true reflection of many girls after encountering love. Women look forward to the arrival of true love, and if one day, they really recognize a boy, they are usually ready to love for a lifetime.
Under the influence of this psychology, women often put love in the most important position.
In order to tie the hearts of men, they will choose to blindly pay, thinking that this will make men grateful and let men always cherish themselves. For example:
Women who can't cook, try to learn to cook, just to keep a man's heart. In order to make a man valued, some women will try to please his family, thinking that this will grasp the direction of emotion.
In fact, the way women love is wrong, not only can not let men pay attention to and favor, but even make the other party become pampered and proud, so that men feel that girls are not worthy of themselves.
Stand at the beginning of fate.
Why would a woman win the favor of a man?
Usually, it is not because a woman makes an act of pleasing a man that the other person's heart will be in his heart. It is because the girl herself has a unique charm, which will make men think day and night, tea and dinner.
In front of the woman he loves, men will become more men.
How to understand this sentence?
From the perspective of love psychology, the woman's own charm, to meet the needs of men's curiosity, and the need for emotional destination, will make men think about the twilight, hoping to turn girls into their wives.
Even if one day, two people become lovers, girls have to realize this.
The reason why men love you is not because you have paid for him, but because the girl has the charm to meet his real needs, to allow men to find psychological comfort, and a long-term sense of solidity.
Many times, it is better to please and please than to "do what is good". Want to tie up a man? Read the four words "vote for it", so that you can get nine out of ten!
Men love face.
When getting along with friends, they value righteousness and often do things that insert knives into the ribs of friends.
And when encountering love, facing the beloved girl, men will stimulate their inner sense of responsibility, regard women's happiness as their own responsibility, and will work hard for it.
From this point of view, if a woman wants to "do what she likes", she may wish to take the initiative to put forward her own needs.
Let men understand that your real needs can not only make the other party realize what the direction of their efforts is, but also further strengthen their responsibilities and play their role in love.
Seeing girls as partners for the rest of their lives, men are happy to shoulder responsibilities.
Taking the initiative to ask for it and let the man meet your needs will effectively stimulate the man's desire to protect, help the development of the relationship between the two people, and also make the love more stable.
Take care of yourself and keep it fresh enough.
Men are a curious species at all times.
Even in the world of emotion, they hope to find enough freshness.
However, every feeling will go from passionate to plain as water. When love enters a dull period, in the face of tasteless mode of getting along, it is difficult for men to adapt if they cannot change their mentality.
Men in love have a curious need.
For girls, everyone can start from this perspective and do "what they like".
Smart women, while loving someone, will also take good care of themselves. They cherish their limited time and continue to maintain the pace of improvement, so that they become more excellent day by day, and they will be full of attraction.
Women who strive to improve themselves will maintain a mysterious charm in men's minds, and will also let men find enough freshness. When men's needs are met, they will treat love consistently.
Give him space and give him a chance to breathe.
Love is two people's you and me.
Many girls will think that if they love each other, they should accompany each other.
Under the influence of this psychology, it is easy for everyone to make clingy moves. When girls grasp all the time and want to stick to men, it is easy to make the other party tired.
You know, in addition to love, men also have to face life and work.
When they encounter confusion, they need the time and space to be alone and think about how to solve it. The way men think determines that they have the need to be alone.
If women do what they like, they may wish to give men a certain opportunity to be alone, so that they can calm down and deal with all aspects of the problem. In this way, men will be grateful to you and will have enough time to accompany you.
The tighter the stickiness, the more it will only make the man breathless. Understanding men's needs and meeting them appropriately will be conducive to the maintenance of two people's feelings and make men care more about you.
Fate is the result of the interaction between two people.
Tethering a man, the clever way, is never to blindly give, but: to do what he likes.
In a relationship, how can a girl grasp the direction of emotion? In addition to cherishing fate, women should start from the psychological state of men, and be the object in men's minds that is worth protecting with the rest of their lives.
Men love face, and girls inspire a sense of responsibility.
Men love to hunt curiosity, and women satisfy his freshness.
The man has to deal with the problem, and the woman gives him enough opportunities to be alone.
When women do this, it is easy to become a sensible and decent lover in the minds of men. When encountering such a girl, men usually guard each other's love with a grateful attitude.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.