Author | Uncle Nan & Xin He
When did you realize you were going to break up with him?
I know that there is a subject who says:
"When he said countless times to love me, but never did anything useful for me."
She said she and her boyfriend had been in a relationship since college, had been together for five or six years, and had a stable relationship.
When she proposed the two words of breaking up, her heart was like a knife. But when she thinks about what her boyfriend has done over the years, she is relieved.
Her boyfriend is a very obedient person, no flower intestines, no warblers and swallows around, never ambiguous with other girls, mobile phone she can check at any time.
And he's very humorous and will tell jokes to make her happy. His temper was good, and he never said a word seriously to her.
But his good is limited to this.
In five or six years in love, he hadn't had a birthday or Valentine's Day for her. At school, he said he was tight on his hands, he was still a student, and he didn't have that much money. After work, he said that they were all adults, don't make those false.
They were talking about a long-distance relationship, and every time they met, it was the girls who went to find the boys.
The girl goes there, stays, eats, hitchsee, plays, all the expenses, she pays herself.
On the day of the breakup, the Internet was popular with the "autumn milk tea" stem, and the girl also sent this to the boy, telling him:
"I also want to drink the first cup of milk tea in autumn."
Actually she just wanted to try her, not really wanted to drink.
As a result, he said, "How old are you, and you still play this set." ”
Then he sent a red envelope of 0.01 and joked:
"Take it, don't say I'm reluctant to spend money for you."
After the girl clicked on the red packet, she proposed to break up at that time.
Ritual is not expensive, and poverty and perfunctory are two different things.
If you are seventeen or eighteen years old and see love as more important than anything else, you may feel that it is nothing, as long as your heart is in me.
But at the age of twenty-seven or eight, no amount of sea oath mountain alliance is as solid as a cup of soy milk in the morning, and a bowl of noodles steaming on the dinner table when the stomach is hungry.
As Wang Manni said:
"At my age, I only like things that can be seen, touched, and grasped."
A hundred sentences of "I love you" are not as good as a sentence of "you hold it" and "I will pick you up".
Probably many girls have met boys like this:
He especially likes to promise you something.
Saying anything will definitely be good for you, will take good care of you, and will make you happy.
When weChat chats, whatever you say, he responds to you.
But in real life, when you need him, he will never be there.
When it gets dark, you don't dare to go home alone, hoping that he will pick you up, but he doesn't answer the phone, just plays mobile phones and games.
If you are unwell, you want him to accompany you, but he only tells you not to be pretentious, or to let you drink more hot water.
When there is a problem you need his help, he deliberately turns a blind eye and listens without hearing.
Zhang Ailing said a passage:
"There is always time and opportunity to do things, and there are always excuses for things not to do."
No matter how much a person says he loves you, if he doesn't show it with action, then no amount of love is a lie. ”
Because love is not only a noun, but also a verb, action is its best instruction.
The most distant distance in the world is not life and death, not love and no love, but you say you love me, but I don't feel this intention at all.
Because you haven't made any representations, you can make me feel different from me.
This kind of love that only stays on the lips, just listen to it.
Some people say that to see if a man really cares about you, it depends on whether he sincerely puts his so-called love into action.
Because in love, deep affection is not as good as long-term companionship, and there is no need to say much about love.
Some time ago, Luo Jin went to visit Ban Tang Yan, and then took her hand and left the set, and the photo was spread wildly on the Internet.
Everyone said that Luo Jin really treated Tang Yan as a child in favor, and Tang Yan, who was married to love, was really happy.
It is said that once, Luo Jin went on a business trip and came back with a lot of pink dolls, which he specially brought for Tang Yan, because she liked this pink doll very much.
Also at the scene of the event, Tang Yan's shoelaces were opened, and Luo Jin'er squatted down in front of the whole audience without saying a word to tie her shoelaces.
What's even sweeter is that most of the daily life photos on Tang Yan's Weibo are actually taken by Luo Jin.
He really had the love for her to "do" into every detail.
True care and concern are visible.
"If a person says he likes you, wait until he takes good care of you before believing it;
If he promises to take you on a trip, wait until he has booked a ticket and be happy;
If he says he wants to marry you, wait until he buys the ring and kneels in front of you before moving. ”
Because as an adult, love someone, do it.
His love for you is never just talking.
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