When the thoughts go to the bone, whether it is a man or a woman, it is the same.
Many times, we always think that men's expression of feelings is introverted, in fact, men love to the extreme is the same as women, but the way of expression is different.
He will also toss and turn for love. Because such a performance is something that everyone will have, it won't exist because you're a man or a woman. Everyone will behave like this.
And this kind of performance is the constant thought and sharing. Whatever he does, the first thing he thinks of is you and wants to share the joy with you.
As someone once said, "Love is not divided into men and women, but only on whom it is for whom." Indeed, when you meet someone you like, you will hollow out your mind in order to make him happy.
It's like a person who always wants to make you happy, he must love you very much, because he can't see that you are unhappy, so he always wants to make you happy. Because everything about you affects him. He will focus on you.
For example, the breakup encountered in the relationship, it may seem to many people that men are more likely to get out of the emotion of the breakup than women. This is not the case.
On the contrary, boys are sometimes more difficult to come out, especially a boy who loves to the extreme. It's like once chatting with a friend. He said something about his own.
He said it was his saddest time, and he thought he could give up very easily, but when his girlfriend told him to break up.
At first he felt acceptable, but after two days and three days passed, he began to feel more and more uncomfortable. During that time, he would always think of various ways to save the relationship. But the final result remained unchanged.
But during that time, as he himself said, the sadness in his heart was known only to himself. He pretended to be strong in the face of others. It's like nothing happened. But in fact, his heart was very sad.
So he can only numb himself with work and constantly enrich himself. But whenever the night was quiet, in fact, he was alone in silent tears.
Therefore, whether it is a man or a woman, falling in love with someone is the same, reluctant to leave him, and it is all him in life. Even if you do something small, you can be happy as long as you can always be by his side. Maybe you can have fun all day with one word.
Especially thinking about this era of developed Internet, sharing has become easier, and it can be shared anytime and anywhere without restrictions on space and geography.
It's just that because of the different ways men and women express themselves, more people feel that men don't seem to be so specific about emotions. This is not the case. There are still a lot of men with deep affection.
It is as if I have read such a book,"Love You Like Loving Life," which says that Wang Xiaobo's love for Li Yinhe is said. Just like the title of the book, Wang Xiaobo loves Li Yinhe. If you've read this book.
You will find that between the lines are Wang Xiaobo's love for Li Yinhe, and what a deep love it is, which is inseparable from anything.
As he said, "I am a tacky man, seeing mountains is mountains, seeing the sea is the sea, and seeing flowers is flowers." Only when I saw you, the sea of clouds began to churn, the rivers and lakes began to surge, and the whiskers of insects wrapped around the itch of the whole world. You don't need to open your mouth, I and all things in heaven and earth are running towards you. ”
Yes, what a love story that love can say! Only you and only you can make waves in my heart. This is my love for you, love to the bone marrow.
So when your love reaches its extreme, both men and women are the same. It will be displayed unreservedly, but everyone expresses it in a different way.
But the only thing that is the same is that after seeing each other, you are very happy in your heart, and you always want to share all the happy things with you. Laugh together, make trouble together, and see thousands of mountains and rivers together. Will always want to give you a reliance.
Just as Wang Xiaobo deeply loved Li Yinhe and Shen Fu deeply loved Yunniang, for thousands of years, people have the same heart, the same heart, and those who love deeply are the same. It has nothing to do with gender, only with love or not. Therefore, it is the same that men love to the extreme.
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