When the pandemic first came, we thought it would soon pass. But unconsciously, under the influence of the epidemic, we have lived for 3 years.
How long the outbreak will last, no one can give a specific time limit. The recurrence of the epidemic has also made people lose their temper.
In the past, we could go wherever we wanted, but now we can't go anywhere. "Nothing less to go out" has become a slogan for everyone.
"Staying at home" has become the norm of our lives, and slowly people have lost contact and communication with each other.
An epidemic also makes us understand that some people are destined to disperse, and some people are destined to meet.
First, about family affection
Some time ago, the drama "The World of Man" was very popular, although I did not watch the play, but I liked this song very much, and every lyric was written so through people's hearts that people were mesmerized.
" I wish you to step through a thousand waves, to stay by your lover's side, to listen to her slowly talk about her childhood when your mother is old, and I also wish you not to forget your youth, and you are not afraid of the white-haired sky, if the years will eventually be forgotten, remember you and me, love like fire, the world is worth it..."
As we grow up, our parents continue to grow older.
But you must always remember that no matter how far you go, it is the concern of your parents.
When we were young, we looked forward to growing up, and when we grew up, we all wanted to go back to our childhood. Now that I think about it, I was stupid as a child.
Sometimes, we care less about our parents because we are busy, and at the end of the year, we can come home a few times.
However, in such a busy life, there is often a simple sentence from parents:
"It's cold, remember to dress more and take care of yourself.
Recently, the epidemic situation is more serious, wear a mask when going out, don't go out when you have nothing to do, and so on. ”
Seemingly the simplest words, but pinned on the love of our parents for us.
They may not have a rich vocabulary, and they can say a few words every time they turn them over, but they are worth a thousand words.
Looking back, do you still have people around you who care about you like your parents?
The world is bustling, all for profit; the world is bustling, all are for profit.
Only the love of our parents for us does not ask for anything in return.
From childhood to adulthood, as long as I went out, no matter how close the distance, my father would tell me that when it was time to report peace.
Sometimes I forget that my father will call to greet you, which is the most ordinary and precious love.
Some people walk and disperse, but in the warmest place in our hearts, there is always affection.
Even if they are far apart, your parents will always be the ones who initiate contact you.
This feeling will not be alienated because of time or distance, and it is also an eternal debt in our hearts that we cannot repay.
For the rest of your life, please be kind to your loved ones, even if you are far away, don't forget the way home.
Second, about love
What is it like to love someone?
This is the most complex and simplest emotion, and everyone feels differently. Some people want to possess, and some people want to give.
Wang Xiaobo wrote in "Loving You Like Loving Life":
"I really don't know how to get close to you, you seem to be an unattainable target, I can't figure it out, I can't catch up, so I sat down and cried."
Confident as Wang Xiaobo, but in love, Teacher Wang is sometimes really like a child, cute and brave.
He sincerely expressed his love, but did not get a response and felt frustrated.
However, this did not prevent him from paying attention to this feeling, because he really loved Li Yinhe, fortunately, heaven did not treat him badly.
The beloved mountains and seas, mountains and seas can be leveled. You are so fearless, I will be brave, nothing will let me leave.
In fact, the biggest routine in feelings is sincerity.
When you like someone, you can't help but want to be close to her, care about her, and can't help but message the other person.
We often say that if a person likes you, you will definitely take the initiative, and not taking the initiative is not so like or dislike, which also makes sense.
Vladimir Nabokov's novel Lolita writes:
"There are three things that cannot be hidden, cough, poverty and love, and the more you try to hide, the more you want to cover up." 」
He can't bear not to contact you, and that proves that you're not that important anymore.
If you like a person, you have to take a few steps forward, but if you don't get a response, you have to stop and learn to stop the loss in time.
If you really don't want to give up, then work harder, just like Xiao Wangbo, let the other party see your interesting soul and find the shining points in you.
After all, this is your life, and there may be a happy ending.
When one day, you stop thinking, just do it; you don't ask for anything in return, you just give; you stop looking for love, just love, and everything is the real beginning.
Third, about friendship
I don't know when it started, WeChat has hundreds of contacts, and has not received a single message all day.
Sometimes when you are sad, you can't find someone to talk to, and when you're happy, no one shares the joy.
Not even a simple greeting. Friends who used to say nothing are now drifting away.
Some people say that in the adult world, when something is connected, nothing disappears.
A friend who has not been in touch for a long time suddenly one day asks you "Are you here?" ", after you reply, most of the things you encounter are borrowing money.
I think that we have not been in touch with each other for a long time, and it is not appropriate to borrow money directly.
In contrast, I prefer those who often have nothing to talk to you about, a simple booing and greeting, more realistic.
People, often the more they grow up, the lonelier they become, after all, the adult world is busy working hard, busy studying, busy with life.
But if someone is still willing to message you often, it's not because he's idle, it's because you're important.
It's not about profit, it's not about money.
Everyone will not be an island, as long as we open our hearts to accept the care from others, we will reap a warmth.
But I hope that you will be the one who takes the initiative to message, whether it is to parents, lovers, friends, so that they can feel your care and care.
I like the saying, "Please keep the light in your heart, because you don't know who will come out of the darkness." ”
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