The Chronicle of the | of All Beings
Not long ago, a pet UP owner on the Internet broke out that his girlfriend who had been in love for six years was forcibly taken away by her parents, only because he could not get 500,000 dowry.
At the same time, a video of the woman's parents and relatives pulling away their daughters was also attached, and even he himself was personally attacked by the woman's family and was locked in the house and beaten.
As soon as this matter came out, it instantly stirred up a big splash on the Internet, and netizens accused the woman's parents of wrong behavior, ignored the feelings of their daughters and boyfriends, and forcibly cut off this relationship.
Most people are on the side of the UP lord, of course, some people say that they can understand the woman's parents.
Someone even told the girl as her own person: In the future, you will understand that your parents are good to you.
It is also said that "girls listen to their parents, and they will predict the future." ”
There is also "listen to the parents, the parents are not optimistic, it is best not to marry." ”
In the eyes of most people, even if the woman is violently dragged away by her parents regardless of her feelings and face, it is still for the good of the daughter.
From these comments, it can be seen that some girls have not heeded their parents' original advice, plunged into the mire of marriage, and only then did they understand their parents' bitter intentions.
In Changsha, Hunan, there is also such a girl, if you can choose, maybe she will be like other girls, listen to her parents do not fall in love with their boyfriends and have children.
01 WeChat shook out the older boyfriend
A year ago, 19-year-old Guo Siwen shook it with WeChat and met her future boyfriend Wang Yong from nearby friends.
Guo Siwen has a serious congenital heart disease, poor physical health, coupled with family conditions are not good, so that she has not read much books since she was a child, and has always stayed at home.
According to the surrounding neighbors, Guo Siwen is a very honest and well-behaved girl, Wen Wen is quiet, and she embroiders some cross stitch at home on weekdays and rarely goes out.
Wang Yong, who was 32 years old at the time, saw that there were girls to add him, and without much thought, he agreed and chatted with her.
Guo Siwen, who has a simple mind, has never had a love experience, but at the age when the love sinus first opened, he already had a vision and expectation for romantic and beautiful love.
At that time, Wang Yong also very much wanted to find a girlfriend.
The two chatted feverishly on WeChat, and the next day they made an appointment to meet, and Wang Yong went to pick up Guo Siwen and took her home.
Seeing this quiet and well-behaved girl, the Wang family's parents were also quite happy, so the two determined the relationship between men and women. Later, Guo Siwen directly lived in Wang Yong's home, and because of love, they quickly fell into this wonderful feeling.
Guo Siwen's mother saw that her daughter had a favorite person and was happier than when she was alone at home before, and she was happy in her heart, but she was also vaguely worried.
Because Guo Siwen has a serious congenital heart disease, she cannot conceive and give birth to a child in this situation, and once pregnant, whether it is for adults or children, it is quite dangerous.
On weekdays, as long as she walked a little more, she was a little breathless, and her lips, fingers, and toes were black all the time, and her face was bloodless.
Once pregnant, because of insufficient oxygen to the fetus, it will not only affect the development of the fetus, but also may induce various diseases. It is also very harmful to the mother.
But Guo Siwen, who was obsessed with love, did not follow her mother's advice, she secretly became pregnant, and only informed her mother of the matter at four months, and it was too late to stop it at this time.
In this way, when Guo Siwen was seven months pregnant, she was recommended by the doctor to have a caesarean section immediately due to physical reasons, otherwise adults and children would be in danger of life at any time.
02 Crazy for love, pregnant and childless of life
The operation was relatively smooth, but the originally small fetus was born prematurely, making various indicators not optimistic.
The child was sent to the intensive care unit as soon as he was born, and Guo Siwen had to be sent to the intensive care unit for emergency treatment because of the huge trauma to his body after giving birth.
Doctors say her condition is quite serious and she may lose her life at any time if she encounters any irritation.
Guo Siwen and the child fought against the god of death in the ward, and Guo's mother and Wang Yong outside the ward were also anxious.
One is worried about Guo Siwen and the children in the incubator, and the other is worried about hospitalization expenses.
To know that you have to live here for a day, you have to have five or six thousand, plus the various expenses in the early stage, Guo Mu has already taken out all the savings of 100,000 yuan, and the Wang family has also come up with more than 20,000 yuan, but this is still a cup of water for follow-up treatment.
Mother Guo was cornered and looked at Wang Yong.
Wang Yong, who is in his 30s, has no stable job or any savings, and has not gone out to work since he interacted with Guo Siwen.
Guo's father recuperated at home for three years due to illness, and in these three years, the family had almost no income, only enough to survive.
In the face of this huge medical expense, the parents of the Wang family had no choice, and the doctors had not had an optimistic attitude towards the situation of the newborn child, so that the Wang family had the idea of giving up treatment.
Because even if he is rescued, the child's various complications when he grows up will bring a lot of pressure to himself and the whole family.
The Wang family's parents wanted to do their best to save the adults, but they only said so, but they couldn't come up with more money.
I didn't even go to the hospital to see the mother and son.
Not only that, the Wang family's parents even said that if Guo Siwen was discharged from the hospital, they did not plan to bring her back to the Wang family.
He said it very bluntly, that is, considering that she was afraid that she would be in trouble when she died in the Wang family, then they would have to bear a certain responsibility, and in the local area, the various expenses of the death of someone in the family would be at least 60,000, which was also an astronomical amount for their family.
On the surface, everything the Wang family's father said was reality, but it was extremely cruel and cold.
Guo Siwen's father could not listen to these words, but there was nothing he could do, and money was the biggest problem.
Just when everyone was frowning for money, a bad news came from the hospital, and the child's condition worsened and may not last long.
Guo Mu rushed to the hospital, and just out of the elevator, she bumped into Wang Yong.
Wang Yong told her that the child was gone, and it was only three days from birth to death.
Before the poor baby could open his eyes to the world, he was gone forever.
This news made everyone extra heavy, but Guo's mother did not have time to grieve, and the news of her daughter Guo Siwen's aggravation came from her side, so she rushed to the intensive care unit without stopping.
03 Parents are always the most reliable backing
The doctor informed that Guo Siwen's right lower lung was somewhat infected and that heart failure was very likely.
Guo's mother, who was in debt, could no longer afford to treat her daughter's illness, so she thought of selling the cross-stitch that her daughter Guo Siwen had embroidered to raise some money.
As the mother of the child, she wanted to protect her integrity and try to prolong her life.
Guo's mother had even planned to take her daughter with her when she was discharged from the hospital, completely sever ties with the Wang family, never let her marry again, get pregnant and have children, and take good care of her, earn money well, and cure her illness.
On the other hand, Guo Siwen's once beloved boyfriend Wang Yong, he seems very cowardly, when his girlfriend's illness worsens, his first thought is to withdraw again.
He said that the doctor told him that there was no point in living any longer, that it was a waste of money to live for a long time, that it would be useless to spend more money, and that it would be better to prepare to be discharged.
Wang Yong is more considering that his girlfriend's extra day in this hospital will cost a lot of money.
And Guo Mu firmly disagreed, she could not give up, but any little hope, she was willing to fight.
But the reality is really too difficult, it is not a question of whether she is willing to give up, but what can she do to prolong her daughter's life as much as possible?
If Guo Siwen knew everything her parents had fought for her and was powerless in the end, she would certainly not have complaints, only gratitude.
Grateful to her mother, with hard work to raise her as an adult, grateful that her parents never gave up on her in the most difficult moments.
There was once a sentence that poked the tears of countless people like this: Parents are a wall between us and the god of death, parents are there, you can't see the god of death, parents are not there, you face death.
Indeed, Guo Siwen in the ward may have a deeper understanding.
I hope that Guo Siwen can get better, and I also hope that Guo Siwen can get her wish and live happily together as a family.