In the intensive care unit, Guo Siwen's face was pale and haggard, and because the situation was not optimistic, she was rushed to the hospital. After the doctor's diagnosis, they suggested that Guo Siwen needed to be c-sectioned as soon as possible. In fact, the fetus in Guo Siwen's abdomen has not yet reached the due date.
At this time, caesarean section is a premature birth, but in order to have a better chance of saving adults and children, doctors have this strategy. Because, Guo Siwen suffered from severe congenital heart disease. In medicine, people with this disease are not suitable for pregnancy. If you become pregnant, the mortality rate can be as high as 50 percent.
Since this is the case, doesn't Guo Siwen know that his physical condition is not suitable for pregnancy? Why would she fall in love with a man 13 years older? If she did, why would she be willing to risk her life to give birth?
A [when the love sinus first opened, she fell in love because of casual chat]
The Guo family has two daughters, Guo Siwen is the youngest daughter, because she has known since childhood that her younger daughter suffers from congenital heart disease, Guo's mother has loved this daughter since she was a child. In order not to let her be disturbed by the outside world, she left her at home since she was a child, did not go to any school, did not go out to deal with people outside, and had a simple and kind mind.
However, she did not know that it was this practice of protecting her around that made Guo Siwen very eager and longing for the outside world as he grew older, eager to go out to see the outside world, eager to talk about a vigorous love, and eager to have a happy marriage for a lifetime.
Because she couldn't go out like her peers, she had to stay at home to embroider. Perhaps god's compensation for her congenital disease, the things she embroidered were all beautiful. From her embroidery works, it is not difficult to see that most of the embroidery she embroiders is related to beautiful love, such as holding your hand for a lifetime, true love is eternal, etc. She and Guo Mother said that these are her dowries when she marries in the future.
Once, she saw Wang Yong in the vicinity of WeChat, and she sent him a message. When he suddenly received a message from a strange woman the next day, Wang Yong, who was already over thirty, seemed a little happy. He chatted warmly with Guo Siwen, and after an afternoon of chatting, Guo Siwen secretly went out with his family. It turned out that it was Wang Yong who took her to see his parents.
The Wang family, who is more than half a hundred years old, is naturally happy to see their son bring the girl back, and they are also anxious to hold their grandson. After meeting, both sides felt very satisfied, Guo Siwen may have felt the kindness and enthusiasm of the Wang family's parents, coupled with her good feelings for Wang Yong, she was determined to stay in the Wang family and not go back.
In this way, she lived in the Wang family. Even if her parents found out, she would not come back if she wanted her to come back, nor would she let her parents tell the Wang family about her illness. Over time, her stomach grew bigger. When the Guo parents found out that their daughter was pregnant, it was more than four months, and at that time, it was not suitable to beat the child off and wait for the child to be born.
As Guo Siwen's belly grew larger and larger, her body became more and more overwhelmed. Because she herself is not enough oxygen, her lips are black, her fingers and toes are black, and now she has to supply oxygen to the fetus in her abdomen, which makes her physical condition worse and worse. Breathing was also getting harder and harder until now an early caesarean section was needed to ease her burden.
When she is less than 20 years old, she has such a great maternal love, and she has the courage and belief to fight the fire for the moth of love, which is really rare. You can imagine how much she longs for love, how much she likes children, and how much she longs to have a home.
I'd rather hide my boyfriend and his family from risking their lives for love and conceive a child, when the mother asks her, if you can only keep one, what will you choose? Guo Siwen didn't think much of it before he replied that he would keep the child.
2. [Boyfriend gave up treatment, and the child died three days after birth]
Although the Wang family's parents had also been aware of Guo Siwen's physical and mental condition before this, they did not expect that she was suffering from congenital heart disease. They said they wouldn't have let her get pregnant if they had known. Now, when they learned that the daughter-in-law, who had not passed through the door, had suffered from the disease, they showed some displeasure and did not see them visiting the future daughter-in-law in the hospital.
Finally, after several hours of surgery, Guo Siwen gave birth to a son by caesarean section. However, due to the preterm birth, he was seriously underweight, his vital signs were very weak, he could not breathe spontaneously, and could only rely on a ventilator to provide oxygen. Therefore, the condition of this child is very dangerous.
On this side, although there is no burden of the fetus in the abdomen, Guo Siwen's situation is not optimistic due to congenital diseases, and her heart rate is very unstable. If you are not careful, you will have heart failure and other life dangers at any time. Her lips were still dark, there was no trace of blood, and her body was very weak, and it took a lot of physical energy to even speak.
Faced with this situation, Wang Yong fell into an indescribable situation. He heard from the doctor that the child was unlikely to survive, and that he did not have a stable job himself, and the parents of the Wang family expressed their reluctance to continue treatment because they were worried that the child would have sequelae. To this end, he planned to abandon the child's treatment.
Guo's mother on the side expressed great anger after hearing this, she felt that the child her daughter risked her life to conceive, and the Wang family actually saw it lighter than money, and they were unwilling to do their best to save this grandson. This made her feel very chilled, and she said that no matter what, she would do her best to treat her daughter's condition and would not give up any glimmer of hope.
Perhaps it was Wang Yong's premature abandonment, or perhaps the child did not have much hope, and the premature child said goodbye on the third day of coming to the world. When she heard this bad news, Guo's mother was heartbroken. Guo Siwen, who is still in the intensive care unit, has never seen his child's side, and the mother and child are separated by yin and yang.
The child died, and Guo Siwen's condition did not improve. But Guo's mother expressed her attitude, and she was willing to do her best to save her daughter. Although the medical expenses are nearly 10,000 yuan a day, they are a small amount compared with the life of the daughter. If her daughter can get through the difficulties this time, she will take her daughter home and will not let her continue to live in the Wang family. To this end, she secretly sold her embroidered things from her daughter, hoping to exchange for a little medical expenses to treat her.
Conclusion: It is difficult for us to say whether Guo Siwen's choice and dedication is right or wrong, we can only say that Guo Siwen's love is great, very righteous, like a moth to a fire, until death, I would rather risk my life to conceive a child for my boyfriend. In the end, the boyfriend gave up the treatment of the child for various reasons. Helplessly, the child died before meeting his mother.
Compared with Guo Siwen's love, Wang Yong's love seems to be a little timid and timid. He may not be as obsessive and sincere as Guo Siwen, and his love is not as dedicated and selfless as she loves him. He does not have Guo Siwen's kind of persistence and belief in loving righteousness, nor does he have Guo Siwen's kind of greatness and fraternity as a parent. He lacks the responsibility and responsibility that a big husband should have, and he also lacks a kind of love and dedication as a new father, and he is not willing to fight for even a glimmer of hope.
If he had raised all the money to save his child, just as Guo's mother did to save her daughter, then perhaps the child would have survived. At the very least, he could survive for a few more days until Guo Siwen met with the child. The child that Guo Siwen risked his life to conceive, but in the end he could not see the child's appearance. How sad would she be if she knew?
How heavy, precious, and rare to be able to do it like Guo Siwen, who is willing to sacrifice himself to save his children, and who is willing to risk his life to have children for his partner. Unfortunately, she did not win her the last chance to see her child.
Wang Yong only considered that the child's chance of survival was not large, only considered that his current funds were limited, but forgot to consider that his girlfriend had never seen the child. In the end, he still didn't love her enough, or he didn't love him as much as she did. Guo Siwen is desperate and willing to bet his life to love her boyfriend, but her boyfriend Wang Yong is unwilling to keep this hard-won child for her.
She gave birth unmarried, despite her family's opposition to living in love with Wang Yong, and finally willing to risk her life to conceive and give birth to a child for him, but in exchange for the inability of her boyfriend. Can't help but ask, is it not worth it to pay and sacrifice like this?
In the end, the relatives and friends who changed were worried about the concerns, and also put the already poor family into a debt-ridden predicament. More importantly, she is still uncertain about her life and death, and Wang Yong and his family are unwilling to fight for anything. If you think about it, it's really not worth it.
Girls, after all, do not love too easily, do not give themselves out too early, and do not live together for the sake of temporary hormones. Otherwise, once you accidentally get pregnant, without any marriage protection, if the child or adult in the womb is in any danger to life, the other party and his family can completely stay out of the matter. In the end, those who are injured and lose are themselves and their families.