For more than a decade, he insisted on relying on performances to earn money to support poor children, and later he was diagnosed with stomach cancer, and the parents who sponsored him called: "Didn't you say you want to fund the university?" Now that you've just started junior high school, you don't care?
He explained to others that he was sick and had no money. Some people will coldly throw a sentence: "Then when will the illness get better?" ”
This northeastern man is Cong Fei. His family was poor, but he loved music from an early age and worked hard to be admitted to the Shenyang Conservatory of Music through self-study. Then he went to the south alone, ate all the hardships, and finally achieved something small.
A charity performance set him on the road to charity, he took in homeless people, and donated many poor children to school, often earning nothing.
He has a small house in Shenzhen, the family is often full of homeless people, his parents came to see him from the northeast, found that the family is surrounded by walls, and there are fee collections everywhere. When I asked, I learned that Cong Fei used all the money he earned to do good deeds.
Cong Fei used a chair to build a bed for his parents to sleep, and he rolled up and slept in the hallway. After 10 days, the parents were gone, and the homeless were still eating and drinking.
His first wife divorced him because she couldn't stand his donations. The second wife, Xing Dan, was a beautiful flight attendant, because she liked Cong Fei's charitable character, she married him without hesitation and supported his charity, and when it was most difficult, the family could not eat, and Xing Dan had no complaints.
Xing Dan only advised Cong Fei: Good people can't overdo it, and they will develop the habit of some people getting something for nothing.
But Cong Fei did not listen, he took Xing Dan to the mountains of Guizhou, and on that financial trip, he donated all the more than 60,000 yuan on his body, and did not even leave his clothes.
Cong Fei, a good person, has done good deeds for more than ten years, funded 183 poor children in his lifetime, rescued more than 150 disabled people, adopted 37 orphans, and donated more than 3 million yuan. After his death, none of the sponsors came to see him off.
There was a student who had been recommended by him to be a music teacher, which made his heart ache even more. She said: "Cong Fei agreed to help me out of a voluntary, he has his ideas, I never forced him. Anyone who does something has a plan, and as for what he wants, I don't say you should be able to guess. Even one student said of Cong Fei's sponsorship of him: "I never want to mention these past events that have become history again." ”
The coldness of people's hearts is sometimes difficult to look at.
At the end of his life, Cong Fei could not let go of his wife, he wrote in his suicide note: "In this life and this life, the luckiest thing I have done is to marry such a beautiful, kind and gentle and virtuous wife as you. I love you, but I do very little for you. ”
Cong Fei wrote "Ussuri Boat Song" and "Prairie Night" in the book, and wanted to wait until he was better before singing it to his wife. After Cong Fei's death, Xing Dan went on to do charity.
But what is even more heartbreaking is that five years after Cong Fei's death, his wife Xing Dan was on the highway home when a speeding vehicle was hit by stones thrown by three unemployed youths, injuring the eye artery. Tragically passed away. Leaving behind two lonely children.
According to his last wishes, Cong Fei and Xing Dan were buried together.
What is left to the world is a deep sigh, why is the sorrow of the world so strong? We do not deny charity, but there is a degree of love, and if there is no boundary in doing good, it will be swallowed up by people who have no gratitude, which is the bottomless abyss of the evil of human nature.
It also reminds us to maintain warm kindness and to have rational love.
