In "Why Sheng Zhen Mo", Gu Man wrote such a sentence: If there was once that person in the world, everyone else would become a general! And I don't want to settle for it.
In everyone's heart, they want to meet such a right person, without any reason, without any hesitation, and they want to spend the rest of their lives with this person and create a beautiful future that belongs to two people.
When we meet such a person, how can we tell that he is the right person? At least, he really loved me, and he could only hold me in his eyes and heart.
Trying to discern a man's sincerity, some women will deliberately create some trouble to test men. They thought that if a man had passed the test, he must have loved me; if he had not passed the test, the man must have been hypocritical.
It's just that women tend to ignore men's feelings, and they don't think about how men will look at you and love you as always if they know that these troubles are deliberately created by women? No matter which man it is, his heart is definitely unhappy about such a test, and he will even reject such a test.
Smart women, when discerning whether a man is sincere or not, will choose a quiet way. She doesn't test men, she replaces trials with observations.
Because, whether a man has you in his heart, the look in his eyes is the answer.
The man who loves you, his eyes will always stay on you.
On love, Richard de Forniville said: "Love is a fiery obsession, an indelible fire, an insatiable desire, a joy like honey, a frenzied madness, a toil without peace and peace without labor." ”
Falling in love with someone is a very complicated feeling. When you can't see him, you will look forward to seeing him immediately; when you see him, you always feel that time is moving too fast, and you are afraid that you will not see him again.
Therefore, when our beloved is around, we will firmly grasp the time and pour our love and thoughts into every minute and every second of meeting.
Such a man who loves you, when he is with you, his eyes will naturally stay on your body and he is reluctant to leave.
Women want to know if a man loves you, and that's the best answer.
When he looks at you, his eyes are gentle and smiling.
Hegel said: "If not every husband thinks his wife is beautiful, at least every fiancée thinks his fiancée is beautiful." ”
After marriage, the husband and wife have been together for a long time, and they will naturally return to a dull life, and love will be a lot less enthusiastic and fresh.
But before marriage, a couple of lovers who are in love with each other, they must be warm, sweet, and look forward to the future.
At this time, in the eyes of a man, his other half is the most beautiful. Maybe in the eyes of others is just an ordinary girl, but in his eyes, it must be a unique, irreplaceable person.
Such a unique woman is naturally a woman who wants to protect his life and a woman who wants to love well.
When a man looks at a woman, his eyes must be gentle and smiling. Maybe he didn't notice it himself, but the woman in front of this kind of look will definitely receive this love from the man.
The love in men's hearts is often expressed in the eyes.
Turgenev said: "Only in love can people show the sparkle of personality and exert originality." ”
Everyone is like this, it is a very common state when you are single, but once you meet love, it will immediately become another state.
For example, a very confident person will immediately become unconfident in front of the beloved; a very strong person will become weak after encountering love; a very cold person will become very enthusiastic and interesting in love.
The same is true of men, after falling in love with a woman, he is no longer the same person he used to be. He will be women-centered and often think about what he has to do to please women. In order for the person he likes to be happy at all times, men will also take the initiative to spend their minds and spend a lot of energy.
Such a man, as Chernyshevsky described: "What does it mean to love one?" It means being happy for his happiness, doing everything that needs to be done to make him happier, and getting joy out of it. ”
The more a man loves a woman, the more different his eyes will be.
Women want to know whether a man has you in his heart, look at his eyes, and you can quietly understand his heart.
Smart women will naturally know how to observe men's eyes and performances, without deliberately creating some trouble to test men.
Vasilev said: "Love is never an existing experience of reality, love is always an exciting memory, sometimes a bright and clear expectation." ”
The man who loves you, that's it, will be excited, will have something to look forward to. Everything about him is also manifested in his eyes, and women must learn to observe this.