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Love is fiery. A man who is in love is eager to talk to his lover all the time to solve his pain of lovesickness.
In ancient times, men would write letters, he would write their heartfelt thoughts into the letter, and then calculate the period of the other party's reply day by day; in modern times, with the support of science and technology, the contact between the two has become much faster.
Society is progressing, civilization is developing, and the way men treat their loved ones seems to have not changed, and they are still constantly in contact with her.
Therefore, many women will judge their position in the minds of men according to the number of times men contact them. Once the number of contacts is reduced, or the contact time is extended, some women will think wildly, and the most thought is that he does not love himself.
As an outsider, whenever I see the appearance of women suffering from gains and losses, I can't help but feel ridiculous. As a woman in the new era, how can she be "robbed" of her mind by love?
However, when you become an insider, you can personally experience the mood of gain and loss.
The problem is that not all men who are in love will actively contact women.
Some men take the high-cold route, plus they have no love experience, so they will be more helpless in the face of the beloved woman, either worried that their "rashness" will bring certain troubles to the woman, which will affect their impression in her mind; or they do not adapt to the expression of enthusiasm, feel that this is not stable enough, so they practice in the mirror for a long time and still will not confess; so they enter the word "I like you" many times in the input box, but one by one is deleted.
And women are completely unaware of this. Perhaps some women will also think that this is a manifestation of a man's euphemism "rejecting" himself, so they are ready to leave in disgrace, after all, in this world, there are too few girls like Jinmi in "Fragrant Honey Sinks Like Frost". Most girls still have self-esteem and don't want to wait in "hopeless" relationships.
It would be a shame if the two were separated because of this. Smart women know that men don't contact you, not because they don't love you. If he is willing to give these privileges to you, then he loves you.
01 Rarely contact you, but you are never turned away for help
When the road is uneven, it is the work of a gentleman to draw a sword to help. However, even the most noble gentleman will be a little impatient with someone's repeated requests for help, especially those that will affect his cultivation, let alone ordinary people.
Therefore, men will get in the way of the idea of doing good every day, and lend a helping hand to women who are in deep suffering, but they cannot save women many times.
There is no good in this world for no reason, if the man takes the initiative to be good to you, and is on call without asking for anything in return, so many halves are in love.
For example, Xu Feng in "Fragrant Honey Sinks Like Frost".
Due to his diligent cultivation, and because he was also the son of the Heavenly Emperor, cultivating spiritual power might be relatively simple for him, so he didn't care about his spiritual power like other immortals.
When Jinmi offered him to send spiritual power, he initially agreed to it because of the grace of saving his life, and later he couldn't help but agree to Jinmi's request. Later, as Jinmi's spiritual power increased, he was no longer enthusiastic about asking him for spiritual power, and he still tried to give her spiritual power by all means.
As for Jinmi's request for help, he almost never refused. Even if it would cost him a lot, even if it was against his mother, even if he fell from the high throne and became the object of everyone's crusade, he never flinched.
Throughout the whole process of Xu Feng and Jinmi's love affair, it can be known that his confession to her is not much, but this does not prevent him from taking her to heart. Later, he traveled all over the world, looking for traces of Jinmi, using a sentence of "I love you" to describe their feelings, and really felt that the weight was a little light.
Jinmi is absolutely in love because she takes Meteor Dan, and cannot feel Xu Feng's love for her. And living in real life, we all have a keen ability to perceive, if you really meet a man who is willing to help you unconditionally, please grasp it.
02 Rarely contact you, but allow you to take care of him
It is human nature to pursue freedom. Throughout the history of human progress, we can see that behind the creation of many things there is a shadow of human beings chasing freedom.
That is to say, I don't like to be managed by others and bound by others. The premise is that you are single. If you meet someone you like, then men naturally don't mind being restrained. Some men even take the initiative to go up to the woman and ask her to take care of him.
This seems to many to be an act of "looking for abuse", but he himself is comfortable.
Qin Fang in "Si Teng" initially chose to follow Si Teng because of the idea of continuing his life. Although he was saved by Si Teng, he could not get too far away from her, otherwise he would become unrecognizable.
This made him very miserable, who had always been alone. Moreover, Sito was such a proud and eventful woman. Although she lives in the modern era, her thinking still stays in the past, which makes her living habits different from ordinary people.
Qin Fang had money and could meet her material requirements, but this feeling of being bound made him feel particularly bad, so he always wanted to leave. When he can't leave, he prays that Sitten will complete the goal quickly, and then let him go.
As the time the two spend together, he gradually understands Si Teng's pain and finally even falls in love with her. At that time, Sito asked him to come, and he refused without hesitation, even though he knew that he might pay with his life for it.
There are so many differences in the before-and-after comparison. If people who do not know the inside story, most of them will think that Qin Fang's personality is split. But viewers who have seen their love know that this is the power of love.
Love will make people change. Even if the man does not say this love, the attentive woman can read his tenderness.
Therefore, Si Teng, who had never wanted to be a man, one day actually longed to fly with Qin Fang. Even if it was a very short time, she didn't care.
After a man has a woman he likes, he will naturally contact her so that he can enjoy the sweetness of love. But not all men are like this. If he rarely contacts you, but is willing to give you the privilege of "never refusing your request for help" and "willingly letting you take care of him", then he really loves you.
Women should not foolishly regard him as an ordinary friend, but should cherish him.
Finally, I would like to say that the paper of love must always be broken by someone, and then the two can get along calmly. If a man can't be the one who breaks the paper for personality reasons, then it's up to the woman to do it! After all, it is not easy to meet the right person in the vast sea of people.
May all women be brave in the pursuit of love.
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