Valentine's Day is becoming more and more a bloody holiday, dating and fighting, how much money to give gifts, show love... It's all a big play.
Since the beginning of these two years, everyone has become more and more dismissive of the public show of boyfriend and girlfriend, and even held the mentality of watching jokes, such as:
"That's it?"
"One show a year?"
"Be careful not to show the same boyfriend as anyone else"...
But Uncle Oxygen found that the engagement ring can be said to be the show of the king, and the announcement of the engagement is simply the clear stream of show love, and when introducing the partner, the title of fiancée is also more heartwarming than the girlfriend, wife and the like.
The general title of wife is universally applicable, and even the wind and moon places and scenes are frequently used, which is no longer a favorite name; the identity of the girlfriend is uncertain, or even not unique.
The fiancée is different, generally after a ceremony, recognized and blessed by the elders, is a very noble ecological niche in the relationship between the sexes, noble and inviolable.
And this identity has the romance of a marriage book in the old days, the ancient marriage process is solemn and complicated, the three books and six ceremonies include the process from marriage, engagement to marriage, etc., the more famous and prestigious, the more attention is paid to the completeness of the wedding ceremony.
Praise beauty has a lot of stream-of-consciousness exaggeration, such as Chen Danqing said that Fan Bingbing is like Wang Xizhi's words, extremely charming;
And to describe a person who always has expectations, always has tomorrow, and is always fascinated, all words are not as good as a sentence with a fiancée's face.
01
Fiancée's shape and color
When The uncle talked about his wife before, it was summarized as: slightly grounded femininity + a little girl who is spoiled and playful with men + lustful immersion and posture open, representative figures such as Fan Wenfang, Xu Qing, Zhang Jiani.
And the fiancée, as a woman who has been engaged to be married, but has not yet married, should have both looks:
Purity that can be viewed from a distance and not blasphemed;
The sweetness of love flowing in both directions when love is in progress;
The family is superior, and the parents love the nobility.
Based on this, three "fiancée" faces can be divided:
The first is a green plum bamboo horse type with a focus on pure love, with childlike innocence and nun-like purity.
Born in 1923, Xu Mojia, a Shanghai woman with a warm and wealthy family, is a petite little princess who grew up, and Zhou Xuan, Hu Die, and Shangguan Yunzhu are the beauties of the Republic of China at the same time.
Zhang Junning's same model is large and small, asymmetrical, the center of gravity is forward, the downward trend of the eye shape, like camellia shy and flexible;
Dignified and full, with a round face in the tip, the center of gravity does not sink, both the talent and moral posture of everyone's beauty, and the pretty life of the girl when she is pregnant with spring.
The ear position is still so high
Compared to contemporaneous beauties:
Zhou Xuan is a warlord aunt holding a pipe with her fingers painted bright red, swaying at major dances;
Shangguan Yunzhu is a champion of house fighting with both compassion and killing intent;
Hu Die is the first singer of Shanghai Beach who fell into the wind and dust in the chaotic world and suppressed the crowd.
Zhou Xuan, Shangguan Yunzhu, Hu Die
And Xu Mojia is such a woman with a clean family, step by step, steady and steady, she herself also obeys the family's arrangements, married the big young master who is the right door, and her life after marriage is happy and plain.
The same type is also the underrated Park Han-sung in South Korea, which is very sweet and sweet in the standard internal entertainment, and the people are like its name, the lone star of the cold night.
Oval skull contour + oval eyes + oval mouth, no aggression, nose handsome and handsome, jaw slight irregularity, does not destroy harmony, increases the delicate state.
The small white flowers, pure and comforting beauty, as if you can smell the fragrance of gardenia flowers on her body.
The second is a joyful enemy type with a focus on sweetness, intelligent, positive and a little bit rude.
For example, Fang Yu, played by Li Yu, was originally an inverted triangle face shape with a focus on the cheeks, and the thin eyebrows and hanging eyes were all picked up, but because of the unique rich family's gold outfits in the Republic of China, black long straight, Qi bangs, and small butterfly hair bands, overpowered the flattering appearance, and gave Fang Yu an intellectual, gentle and clever beauty.
The third paragraph is a family marriage type that focuses on "gui", similar to The Korean Jiangnan Americans such as Xu Xian, Zheng Xiuyan, and Min Xiaolin.
Big eyes, tall and small upturned nose, full forehead, smooth facial lines and smooth skin, basically no defects, faintly can see the traces of plastic surgery, although a little fake, but in the end it is impossible to see where to fine-tune.
They are in the smoky Korean entertainment industry, giving people the feeling that they are alone until the end, when the artist is a hobby, but also to open up the fame, improve the threshold of mate selection, and eventually evolve into a rich wife in Gangnam District.
This type of fiancée face, pure in simple love and beauty, petite in childhood is well protected, the bottom of the eyes has the innocence of age, mainly expensive, every month there are tens of thousands of large smashed into the face, good clothing, temperament has a wall, high artistic accomplishment, like Yang Caiyu, there is a kind of Western-style educated returnee style.
The fiancée's taste, clothing, words and deeds can refer to the female guest Luo Ying in "Semi-Acquainted Lovers" and He Dani in "Let's Fall in Love".
Their private clothing styles are similar, the cut and skin reveal do not overemphasize the gender characteristics, usually gentle and simple and fresh low-saturated colors.
Luo Ying
Even the basic model can shine, relying on the charm brought to lady by taste.
Dhoni Ho
It is also very important that in the process of getting along with the opposite sex, they are not like an emotional black hole and need strong love to fill.
Just as at the stage of the fiancée, she has survived the pulling and indulgence of the ambiguous period, experienced the passion of the hot love period, survived the fierce quarrel of the run-in period, and has already had a deep enough emotional foundation to enter the stable stage of talking about marriage and marriage.
In this period of blandness, there is no dramatic game between the sexes, no one has the upper hand, and there is no one on both sides who presses the other, and no one has to have a sense of oppression.
02
The fiancée's look and attitude
In the ecological niche of gender relations, different positions are different mentalities and temperaments, and the identity of fiancée has a sense of ritual of the fate of parents and the words of the matchmaker in ancient times.
Compared with girlfriends, falling in love only requires both parties to love each other, and most of the fiancées belong to the recognition of the man's family, and they have already given the dowry.
One is recognized by the husband's family, the other is the support of the mother's family, bright and honest, frank and frank, the sense of ceremony and attention are placed there, and the woman naturally has no sense of concubine and attachment posture.
The counter-example is "Know It or Not" Lin Xiaoniang and Mo Lan's mother and daughter, who secretly fell in love with the throne for high marriage, became the shame of the family, and were also despised by people in the past;
In real life, Liang Luoshi, who has a mediocre family, has three male grandchildren for the Li family, and has not been asked to become the daughter-in-law of the Li family, and is embarrassed like a temporary worker and non-staff personnel.
Secondly, the identity of the fiancée is the superior person in love, a cherished existence in both sexes.
The fiancée's relationship is closer than that of the girlfriend, which can be understood as the highest relationship of the girlfriend, she does not have the ambition and force of the inferior person to squeeze the head up, such as Zhang Dayi; nor is there a tired feeling of powerlessness that is overwhelmed by trivialities such as chai rice oil and salt after marriage, such as Dong Huahua.
There is only a state of abundance that is infiltrated by a stable intimate relationship, and it remains unmarried and comfortable.
The god and state spoken of in this paragraph does not mean that every fiancée is like this, but that in a period of time when both parents recognize and support, the relationship between the two develops steadily, and the ideal state of the parties is natural.
In the Internet age, everyone's energy is limited, but the cost of love is greatly reduced, and the degree of dog blood in postmodern love stories is even greater.
Multi-line development, fish pond management, tearing faces for the bride price, taking the ball to the position, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war, child-rearing, family property division...
In contrast, the "fiancée" has become a rare creature that has almost disappeared, and behind it symbolizes the pious and heartfelt love of the prostration step by step.
Even if you don't believe it now, but you once believed it, even if you didn't believe it, but there is a love obsession in the human world, this hatred is not related to the wind and the moon, otherwise why mr. Mu Xin's "Once Upon a Time Slow" will still make countless people moved.
"The old days became slower, the cars, horses, and mail were slow, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime"
When "I love you" becomes a passionate declaration without any responsibility, "wife" becomes the greasiest word in the individual population.
The word "fiancée," as appropriate and solemn as a promise, is still full of ritual, full of pyrotechnic anticipation, and the eternity of the hand of the son before it has been abused.
I also hope that every girl, no matter what kind of emotional state she is in at present, has a face full of expectations, always has a tomorrow, and is always infatuated.