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When it comes to educating their children, many parents know to pay attention to teaching by example, but they often say one set and do one set.
Because of the pain of children, these "divine beasts" often become "little emperors" at home, and they also act arbitrarily outside, and under the pampering of parents and grandparents, bear children abound.
Some parents believe that children are still young, and when they are older, they will naturally understand things. I don't know that this kind of thinking is really wrong, how can the small tree grow up straight and straight without repairing?
What's more, there are some more "ignorant" "bear parents" behind the bear children.
Bear child's "stepping on the seat" storm
On a subway, an aunt expressed dissatisfaction with the young mother and child's seat occupation and stepped forward to stop it, which triggered a war of words.
The video was taken by other passengers and posted on the Internet, which attracted the attention and discussion of netizens.
In the video, you can see that the children are standing on the seats, stepping on the seats and having fun, and the elderly female passengers think that the behavior is inappropriate, but the children's mother loudly retorts: Give you a seat.
The implication is that the child does not sit more seats, and whether to stand or sit has nothing to do with others.
The older female passenger stressed, is this polite?
Apparently, though, the word politeness didn't get into the ears of the children and their mothers.
The mistake and right of occupying a seat and "standing" seat
The issue of occupying and giving up seats is a cliché, and in this video, if you don't look at the picture, it seems that there is nothing wrong with the children and their mothers, and they also give up a seat for other passengers.
However, the picture looks very indecent and unreasonable.
The seat is used to sit, and after being stepped on by this "bear child", it is first not clean and untidy, and secondly, the act of standing on the seat itself is a manifestation of lack of quality and courtesy.
In addition, the child stepped on the subway seat, and the bear's parents did not stop arguing with the passengers, indicating that she did not realize that there was a problem with this behavior. And this process is seen by children in the eyes, but also in the heart, the future is bound to learn in words and deeds, the future of endless troubles.
Shelter the child now, and taste the evil consequences yourself later, and the causes will always be fruitful.
Bear parents are more terrifying than evil people
In real life, unreasonable "bear parents" are not uncommon.
Before a passenger was slapped by the "bear parent" on the high-speed rail, it aroused widespread concern in society.
A family took their children out on the high-speed train, parents chatted warmly, and the children cheered and jumped in the high-speed rail carriages, waking up many resting passengers.
After a passenger raised an objection to the parents, the parents not only did not discipline the child, but instead went forward and injured the passenger.
This matter quickly fermented on the Internet, and the vast majority of netizens are naturally condemning the parents' behavior, but I don't know if this parent will really realize where she is wrong after accepting the police punishment?
Seemingly protecting the child at the same time, in fact, is really hurting the child, under such a "word and deed", how can the child grow up to understand etiquette and reason?
Only by being a parented parent can we raise educated children
Some parents are not uneducated and do not understand politeness, but in the face of their children's willfulness, they choose to stand on the side of their children, believing that they are guarding their children's innocence and innocence, and that children will naturally understand civility and courtesy when they grow up.
However, they ignore what kind of education children receive from an early age and what kind of people they will become when they grow up. The child's nature should be protected, but only if it is to be polite and polite.
As parents, we should start from life and teach our children to be a qualified citizen and a kind, brave and courteous person.
First, observe public order.
Parents should lead by example, demonstrating that public order should be observed in public places, and that they should not make loud noises, not disturb others, and should not encroach on public resources.
Second, teach children to treat others with courtesy.
It is worth noting here that you should also treat others with respect and kindness at home.
Talking kindly and discussing between husband and wife will make children learn respect and humility. When parents interact with others, they should pay more attention to setting an example for their children, not arguing, not being arrogant, and being a nurturing person.
Again, make rules and regulations.
Parents should cultivate their children's sense of rules from an early age, such as not watching TV without finishing homework, concentrating when eating, and not easily disturbing others when they concentrate on doing things.
Let children understand that the rules need to be observed, and they must be measured in their work.
Finally, rejection is another kind of love.
Some parents love their children and can't bear to refuse their children's unreasonable demands, or when their children do something wrong, they can't bear to reprimand, which is naked coddling.
Parents should be fierce, saying "no" to their children, and when children make mistakes, they should be hard to stop them, and guide their children to correct their mistakes.
Children know right and wrong, in order to distinguish between good and evil, small "demons" can grow into small "angels".
Parents should know that "bear children" are not born, and they are often "bear parents" who are accustomed to it. Only by setting a good example for yourself can children thrive in good shape.