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Japanese writer Kotaro Isaka said: "The thought of being a parent without having to go through an exam is terrifying. "
Every child is so naughty when they are young that they do some bizarre things. Such a naughty child is called "bear child" by parents.
However, these "bear children" are always considered the most perfect in the eyes of some parents.
It is also because of this that parents become "bear parents".
"Bear parents" because of "bear education", causing "bear children" to do irreparable things:
On May 29, in Henan, due to high-altitude projectiles, the life of a 5-year-old boy was frozen forever.
The high-altitude projectile, who is only 6 years old, is also a boy.
The boy who was smashed to death, who had not even celebrated the Fifth Children's Day, was really tearful.
At 12:00 a.m. that day, the mother took her son to visit her grandmother, passing a building in the community. The son was hit on the head by a falling tile, and after being unconscious, he still insisted on being ineffective, and his little life was frozen in this instant.
The child's mother was frightened, and the child's grandmother washed her face with tears. They couldn't understand that a very ordinary visit had lost their son forever.
In two days, he will have Children's Day, one of the children's favorite holidays.
Bear children thrown objects from high altitudes to cause death, behind this heart-wrenching, what kind of education is it? Parents do not care before the incident, and do not take responsibility after that, which not only makes the innocent family bear the freeze frame of life, but also makes people's hearts chill and chill.
In June last year, a 10-year-old girl walked on the road and was seriously injured by a high-altitude projectile, and to this day she still has not left the hospital, and her life is threatened by death.
And the only one who committed the crime was an 8-year-old boy.
If, if, this is just an accident, read on:
In Kunshan, Jiangsu Province, two 9-year-old boys often "throw" bricks, fire extinguishers and bicycles downstairs.
When the police received complaints and came to the door for questioning, the parents repeatedly denied it.
Sure enough, bear children are not "bears" in the eyes of some parents.
As the saying goes, parents love their children, and their plans are far-reaching.
Love is not blind arrogance, such love, on the contrary, is harmful.
Everything is balanced, and the strictness and looseness of the child should also be balanced. When parents are left with endless doting on their children's education, society will do the "lesson" for you:
May 7th, in this place in Tongling, Anhui. The 2 boys in the city, running on the main road, enjoy themselves in an already dangerous place.
Even in the face of a steady stream of traffic, you are still fearless.
According to the monitoring, the number of crossings within 3 minutes is 12.
On the 13th, he was hit by a car.
No matter how slow the driver's speed is, it is just a brake under one foot, but the machine is not a thought, and it takes time to stop.
If the speed of the car had been faster, the consequences for the two children would have been unimaginable, which would undoubtedly be another tragedy.
Educating children is to make rules, but some parents are "friends" with their children at important stages.
There was a news story where a mother let her child pick up trash just because she wanted to "punish" him.
In school, my son often spontaneously destroyed official duties, and the teacher said it many times without changing. Broken things always have to pay their own compensation, really can't, the teacher invited parents.
The mother confessed that she had no money and asked her son to pick up the garbage and pay for it himself.
Mother's rules stand dead.
Even in the bitterly cold winter, the mother did not relax, dressing her son in thick clothes and letting him pick up the garbage.
It is conceivable that the child will definitely learn a lesson in the future.
Educate children, when it is time to be cruel, can not be soft-hearted, otherwise it will only harm the child.
Some people say that children are like mirrors of parents, and what kind of parents educate what kind of children.
Psychologically, there is an effect known as the "kimchi effect": a vegetable that is placed in different water, soaked for some time, and then cooked separately. In the end, you will find that the taste of different waters is different.
The same is true of small children, when they grow up under the education of different parents, the future is different.
Most parents are positive, and they use their own vision to give their children a bright future as much as possible.
Emerson of the United States said: The main reason for what kind of person a child eventually becomes is to see how good he is in receiving the first educator.
The influence of parents on their children is lifelong.
There is a saying in the Indian movie "What a Home": May every brave child be treated tenderly by the whole world.
The child chooses to sue his parents in the end because he wants the parents not to have any more children.
The sister was abused by the family, and the death of the pregnant woman made us in front of the screen saddened; seeing the protagonist of the little age, from childhood like a small adult, lived a difficult life, and finally had to take care of a small child, he himself is only a 12-year-old child!
May all parents give their children the most appropriate love, and do not mistake coddling for education.