Everyone's life is a countdown, especially those who have entered the old age of life, they should have a happy and happy life. Most elderly people, hoping that their later life can enjoy the joy of children and grandchildren around the knees, and the life with children is always the happiest.
At the door of the kindergarten after school, if you look closely, you will find that many grandparents come to pick up and drop off their children from school. A kindergarten teacher once filmed a very loving scene at the entrance of the kindergarten. Grandpa watched the child enter the kindergarten, and then used his hands to compare the child's heart, and the child waved his small hand in response to Grandpa. Grandpa and child interact intimately every day, and you can see that the feelings are very good.
Many grandparents dedicate their later life to their grandchildren, bringing up their children, picking up and dropping off their children, and saving money for their children, but they have attracted many voices of doubt. Grandparents with children are easy to spoil, spoil the children. The methods of grandparents taking children are old-fashioned and unscientific, and the children are not growing well.
However, grandparents or grandparents help with children, which is a reality for many families
Women in modern society do have a little difficulty, and if you can really be a stay-at-home mom to bring the kids, of course it's great. However, most mothers do not have that condition. It is unrealistic to support the whole family on the father's salary, and many mothers are highly educated, career-oriented women, and they are not willing to give up easily. Therefore, the balance between a woman's career and family is that there is an old man between the two who lends a helping hand.
My sister and I are also children who grew up with grandma, because mom and dad need to go out to work, and the whole childhood memories are accompanied by grandma, but she gives us the best education and the most abundant love.
We are all in college, rich in knowledge, physical and mental health, integrity and kindness, so the elderly with children does not necessarily indicate that the children will grow crooked and biased.
You don't have time to take care of the child, the child is handed over to the babysitter, I am afraid it will be worse, grandparents with children also have many advantages, people who grow up with grandparents, there are also many adults.
Grandparents give the child the most love, so that the child's heart has a sense of security
The love of elderly people for their grandchildren and granddaughters is unconditional, even more than for their own sons and daughters, so many people worry that children will be spoiled by following grandparents. However, it is precisely because of the selfless love of grandparents that children know that there are the most intimate feelings between people in the world, the most determined trust, and the children's hearts are full of sunshine and warmth.
Grandparents hunched over their waists and wrinkled smiles, but what they bring to their children is firm faith and family warmth. When you are wronged outside, they give you the comfort of your heart, when you fail outside, they give you the motivation to continue to struggle, you are not alone in the struggle, you are a person with a back to rely on, so don't be afraid of failure, just move forward.
Grandparents have plenty of time to accompany their children through a happy childhood
Children's growth needs the company of family, parents are always very tight time, they have a tense rhythm of life and work status. Most of the grandparents have retired from their jobs, they have a lot of time at their disposal and between the ages of 50 and 60, and their physical health is mostly very good.
Bringing children is a very time-consuming and energetic thing, children need to be taken care of by one person or even more people for a long time from birth, and kindergartens and primary schools are inseparable from parental pick-up and drop-off, holiday companionship. So, a child can take care of himself, does not need a lot of time from his parents, it takes about 10 years, which is almost the prime time for all the work of a mother. Therefore, the task of taking care of children to the elderly is also a realistic choice for many families.
Grandparents have a stable mentality and rich experience to create an environment suitable for children's growth
When many parents educate their children, they have some educational anxieties and some educational methods that are not suitable for children. For example, if you are afraid that your child will lose at the starting line, there will be an educational method that promotes the growth of seedlings. However, grandparents are different, they have more patience to wait for the child to grow up, but also have more experience in parenting, and can calmly face the various problems that occur in the process of children's growth. Rich social practice experience, open-minded attitude to create a relaxed and pleasant life atmosphere for children, is the most suitable for children to grow.
The elderly accompany the children and let the children form the correct values
There is an old family, such as a treasure. After the baptism of the years, the old man has long seen clearly the truth, goodness, beauty and ugliness of the world, and knows how to teach children to be upright and kind people. An old man with three views and super positive is the inheritor of family culture, who passes on their cognition and values to their children through a little bit of life, and cultivates children with positive energy to have all the good qualities.
Grandparents give us the most delicate feelings, the longest emotional companionship, in the last stage of their lives, we also want to return them a happy and happy old age, do not let love come too late, wait too long.